Ua kiola ke kanaka, akāʻaʻole āna kaikamahine:ʻo ke kumu

Ma ka pilina o nā wahine,ʻaʻohe wahi kūpono no ka mea hoʻokahi a me ka hala. I ka wā maʻamau, ua paʻakikī a me ka pilikua, a nui no mākou nā wāhine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua makemake mākou e hoʻopilikia i nā mea a pau, kahi e noʻonoʻo ai i kekahi mea a me ka hana hewa iā mākou iho. Ke hopohopo nei mākou i kaʻikeʻana i ke kanaka e'ōniu wale ana i kona lauoho a hāwanawana e pili ana i ke aloha, i kēia lā e hōʻiliʻili i nā mea a waiho i ka maikaʻi. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e haʻalele no ka mea uaʻike houʻo ia iā ia iho ...ʻO ka manaʻo o kā mākouʻatikala "Ua kiola ke kanaka, akā,ʻaʻohe āna kaikamahine:ʻo ke kumu?", A laila, e ho'āʻo kāua e noʻonoʻo i kēia mea. nānā, e like me kēlā.

No laila, ke kūlana: ua kiola ke kāne, akāʻaʻole āna kaikamahine: hiki i nā kumu he nui no kēia. No kaʻikeʻana iā lākou, ponoʻoe e hōʻoia pono i kāu pilina pili. ʻAʻole paha, no ka haʻaleleʻana iāʻoe, he mea kupaianaha nā mea a pau a me ke aoʻole. E noʻonoʻoʻoe pēlā - akā,ʻaʻole ia e hōʻoia i ka manaʻo o kāu'ōpio.

E hoʻomanaʻo: i nā makahiki i hala aku nei, he mea hoʻonāukiuki loa iā ia i loko ou? ʻAʻoleʻoe i hoʻolohe, kū aʻe i luna "me ke kani" a me kaʻuwāʻana me ka ho'ōhoʻanaʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i kekahi mea, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e hoʻololi i kekahi mea? ʻAʻole,ʻaʻohe pono e kāhea aku,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole lawa - lawaʻole ka'ōwili pinepineʻana i nā mea hōʻeha i mea e hoʻonāwaliwali ai ke kanaka i ka pilina. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono nā kānaka i ka maluhia a me ka lokahi, aʻo mākou nā wāhine e akamai a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka mea e pono ai. ʻAʻole kēia he piha piha i ka hoʻokauwā a me ka hoʻokuhi - he pilikia kēia e hiki keʻikeʻia ma nā maka. Eia nō naʻe,ʻaʻole pono keʻano hoʻokahiʻaoʻao o kēia mālama - a hiki ke hoʻomaopopoʻia, pono e hōʻike ke kanaka i kona mau manaʻo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, loaʻa pinepine mai kahi kanaka i haʻi iāʻoe no ke aloha, me he mea lā e hoʻopoina nei i kēia mau'ōlelo maʻalahiʻekolu aʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo iā ia ma mua o kekahi manawa nui a iʻole ka hanana. A he meaʻole wale nō kā lākou e'ōlelo nei ua aloha nā wāhine i ko lākou mau pepeiao - he meaʻoiaʻiʻo i kēia, he mea pono kā mākou e lohe i nā'ōlelo e pili ana i ke aloha, pono mākou eʻike i kēlā me kēia lā - a laila, e mākaukau mākou e hoʻohuli i nā mauna no ka pono o kā mākou kanaka aloha. ʻOiaiʻo ia he mau mauna momona maikaʻi ...

No laila, he aha ke kumu i hoʻolei koke aku ai ke kanaka iāʻoe? ʻO nā hōʻailona? No ke aha lākou i ala ai? ʻO wai ka hewa no kēia? No ka huliʻana i kahi ala kahi e kū ai - ponoʻoe e loaʻa nā pane i kēia mau nīnau. Malia paha, hiki ke hoʻihoʻiʻia kahi mea'ē aʻe inā he makemake kāu. A inā he makemake i ka mea i haʻalele. ʻO ka hakakā, a me ka haʻaluluʻana i nā manawa he mau hōʻailona'ōlelo wale nō ia o kaʻaoʻao i hōʻehaʻeha, ka mea e hoʻohuli iāʻoe e noʻonoʻo iāʻoe iho a iāʻoe.

Inā nānāʻoe i kāu kūlana a hiki i ka hopena i ka loaʻaʻana o nā mea hōʻehaʻole i kāu keiki, a laila,ʻokoʻa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ia, no ka lanakilaʻana i ka puʻuwai o kahi kanaka aloha, ua hōʻoluʻolu mākou a hoʻopoina i ka mea nui - he wahine mākou. A inā ma mua o kou hālāwaiʻana me ke kanaka e hoʻohana ana i nā hola ma ke aniani, eʻimi i kahi hana hoʻolālā maikaʻi a me ke kāhiko, e hiki iāʻoe ke pale aku i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae a hele i nā sneakers, a waiho i kaʻeke pume i waho. A he meaʻoleʻole inā i poina iāʻoe e holoi i kou lauoho -ʻaʻohe mea, eʻae mai ka hoa aloha iāʻoe a me kēia huelo momona -ʻoiai,ʻikeʻo ia he nani kou nani! Malia paha ua hewa kēia laina o ka hana. ʻOi paha ināʻaʻole i lōʻihi loa ka pilina o kāu pilina. Malia pahaʻaʻoleʻoe e poina e pili ana iāʻoe iho a me kou helehelena? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki i kahi kanaka ke manaʻo iāʻoe he kaikamahine puʻupuʻu - aʻo ka mea i kēia manawaʻaʻole kiʻekiʻe. No laila, e noʻonoʻo paha: no ka mea, ua liloʻoe i mea nui loa no ka luhi o ke keikikāne i ka hanaʻana iāʻoe i nā hiʻohiʻona o kou palaualelo - a ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e lilo i meaʻino i kēia mua aku. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e lilo i loko o ka wahine i loko o ka hale hana me nā pahuwai mau loa ma luna o kou poʻo ma mua o ka manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo kēia kā mākou e hoʻonui aku nei, akāʻo keʻano maoli ke maopopo ...

ʻO ka mea paha ua hoʻoleiʻoe iāʻoe no kekahi kumu'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻohe āna kaikamahine'ē aʻe, akāʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike iā ia! Akā,ʻo kaʻoluʻolu i waena o ka pilina ma muli o keʻano o kou pilina me nā hana a me nā loina o kekahi i kekahi. Eia kekahi laʻana, makemake loa kāu hoaaloha i ka lawaiʻa. ʻOʻoe, ma kahi o ka makemake iā ia ma mua o ka hike kakahiaka no ka iʻa "ʻaʻohe huelo,ʻaʻohe kaupaona," hoʻomakaʻoe eʻalo iā ia, me ka huhū i ka wehe kokeʻiaʻana a me ka peʻa lapalapa puhi ma lalo o kāu ipu punahele. ʻAe, ināʻoe e noho like. Inā hoʻokaʻawale -ʻoi iki kaʻike, akā pinepine i ka lua o ka hapaluaʻaʻole mākou e hōʻaha. Pehea, ma kahi o ke kōkua iāʻoe e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kēia pō, a hele pū paha i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni meʻoe, e hele houʻo ia me kona mau hoaaloha? Ma mua o ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i kou mau mākua, heleʻo ia i ke keʻena haʻuki no ke aʻoʻana? ʻO ia ka mea kupua,ʻaʻole anei? A ma keʻano,ʻaʻole i ho'ōki kona ola me kou mau helehelena - aʻo nā mea a pau a ke kanaka i makemake ai e leʻaleʻa i mua o ka nohoʻana, e mau nō ka pono a me ka makemake iā ia. Mai hoʻopaʻa i kona kūʻokoʻa, e ke kanaka -ʻaʻole he'īlio, hikiʻole iāʻoe ke kau aku iā ia i kahi kaulahao. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe i kēia. E kauʻoe iāʻoe iho ma kona wahi. E hauʻoli pahaʻoe i ka papahana, e hāʻawi wale ana i kahi hike no ka hana a me ka nānāʻana o nāʻohana no kahi kiʻi hou? ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hele aku me nā hoaaloha, hoʻomaha iki i kahi'ahamele, hoʻopoina, ma hope, e pili ana i nā mea hopohopo a me nā hopohopo, a hāʻawiʻoe iāʻoe iho e inu nui! Eia hou, pili kēia i nā kāne i noho ma lalo o ka hale hoʻokahi, akāʻo nā mea noho kaʻawale,ʻaʻole lākou e pale i nā paio.

ʻO nā kumu i hoʻoholo koke ai ke kanaka i ka hui pū meʻoe, hiki iā ia ke nui. Ma waho aʻe o nā mea a pau i luna, i ka wā e nānā nuiʻia ai ka hihia, nā wāhine, hiki paha ke loaʻa nā kumu e pili ana i nā kāne wale nō. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki iā ia ke hōʻoluʻolu iho iāʻoe, no ka mea he mea kaumaha loa ia. ʻO ka manaʻo nui loaʻole e hiki ke ulu i ke aloha, akā, mae wale, paʻi a mae - ai kekahi manawaʻaʻole e hiki i kekahi mea ke hoʻopakele i ia mea, no ka meaʻo ka paʻakikī āu e ho'āʻo ai. Malia paha iʻike kāu kamaliʻi heʻanoʻokoʻaʻoe, i ka wā o kou pilina, uaʻike kokeʻiaʻo iaʻaʻoleʻoe eʻoluʻolu nui,ʻo ka holoʻana o kāu kamaʻilioʻanaʻaʻole e holo mālie, a i kekahi manawa aia kahi haʻalulu hōʻeha i loko o ke kūkākūkā i piha me ke kūmauʻole . ʻO kēia ka hōʻailona mua ma ka papahana hoʻolālāʻaʻoleʻoe i kūpono kekahi i kekahi.

Aʻo ka hopena,ʻo kekahi o nā kumu hōʻeha a me ke kolohe no ka weheʻana o ke kāne, he mea hōʻoluʻoluʻole ia. ʻAe,ʻo ia, i ko mākou wā,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau. Wahi a nā wāhine sexologists, inā piliʻoe i kekahi me keʻano he hoa pili -ʻo ia ka hapalua o ka holomua o kāuʻohana i ka wā e hiki mai ana, he hōʻailona o ka pilina ikaika a me ka pauʻole. Akā, eia hoʻi,ʻaʻole hiki iā kākou a pau ke hoʻomāʻona i ka poʻe i alohaʻia, no nā kumu likeʻole. A laila hele mālie mākou i kahi'ē aʻe, i loko o ka uluʻana o ka huhū a me ka huhū mau loa, makemake wau e hoʻolei aku i kekahi - a ma muli o ka hopena, eʻeha hou aku ana, he mea aloha.

No laila, ua wehewehe mākou i nā kumu nui e hiki ai iāʻoe ke haʻalele i ke kāne, akāʻaʻole e kūʻai aku iāʻoe no kahi kaikamahine'ē aʻe. Pehea e hana ai, pehea e hana ai a pehea e hana ai - iāʻoe, e like me ka mea e hewa ana i nā pōʻino a pau, a inā makemakeʻoe e hāʻawi i kou mau ikaika a me kou manawa e hoʻopakele ai i ka pilina i hāʻawi i ka mākīʻike. Inā makemakeʻoe e kaumaha iāʻoe iho, mai kaliʻoe a hiki i ka wā hikiʻole ke hana a haʻalele ke kanaka - hiki ke maʻalahi ka paleʻana i kaʻino ma mua o kona hopena. A laila,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke noi i ke kalaʻana. Ke hana nei i kaʻikeʻana i kekahi hōʻailona weliweli, kekahi mau hōʻailona hōʻailona i hōʻailonaʻia ai kāu kanaka, a e wikiwiki i ka hana a ho'āʻo e hōʻoia i ke kūlana - a e hoʻololi i nā mea a pau!