Pehea ka wahine e hoʻonani ai i nā ola o nā kāne

Ua maopopo nā kānaka iā lākou e hōʻeha nā māmā a pau o ka hapalua o nā kānaka i ka hopena o nā dinosaur, ināʻaʻohe wāhine e pili ana iā lākou. Aʻo ka mea maʻaneʻi,ʻaʻole i ka mea e pono ai nā mea likeʻoleʻelua e koiʻia no ka hana houʻana. ʻO nā kānaka wale nō e make me ka huhūʻole. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i keʻano o kā mākou hoʻohanohanoʻana i ke ola o nā kānaka a me ka hoʻomāmāʻana mai ka manaʻo o nā kāne.


Nui kākou i loko o lākou iho
Uaʻike nā kānaka i ka meaʻaʻohe -ʻo kaʻaʻahu makamae a me ka pono,ʻaʻole mākou e nānā i ke sexy, like ... me kaʻole! E like paha kēia i ko mākou kūlana maʻamau a iʻole heʻelua mau paona -ʻaʻole ia he mea. ʻO ko mākou kapaʻeleʻele like me ka siliki, ko mākou lehelehe hoʻopunipuni, ke kāpaeʻana i ko mākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i ka hewa, a me ko mākou mau lemu uila ... Ua hoʻomaopopo nā mea pena e like me Botticelli a me Vinci i kēia puna,ʻo ia wale nō ka wahine i hoʻohana ai i mele no lākou. No laila, e nā kaikamāhine, mai hopohopo e pili ana i kou mauʻano a me nā helu "kūponoʻole," no ka mea, he mea maikaʻi loa kāu kāne.

Hoʻopili mākou i kahi kogasm me kahi pahuhopu hoʻokahi wale nō:ʻaʻole i manaʻo nā kānaka i ka hemahema
ʻO ka mea pono,ʻo ka wahine he meaʻoluʻolu ia. ʻAʻohe mea hakakā. Akā i kekahi manawa e kiʻi ana ke ao holoʻokoʻa i nā mea kaua e kū'ē iā mākou, aʻaʻole loa e hiki i kahi hopena hopena maikaʻi. He aha ka hana a ke kāne inā e pāʻani maikaʻi nā wāhine? ʻAʻole i lawe iaʻu i ka hoʻokalakō - e loaʻa i kāu hapa o nā meaʻole? Ua kūʻai kokeʻia paha lākou i ka palapala inoa makahiki i ka mea hoʻoponopono, no ka mea,ʻo ke kanaka nāna i hāʻawiʻole i ka wahine i ka leʻaleʻa, ke manaʻo neiʻo ia he mea hoʻokani knockout. No ke komo houʻana i ke apo, pono iā ia ke hana i ka papa hana hoʻoulu. ʻO ka male kāne he hale kāleka,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e puhi, no laila e hina. ʻAe, uaʻike mākou, a no laila,ʻaʻole manawa e hopohopo i ke kaniʻuhane i lohe ai nā mea a pau e pili ana,ʻoiaiʻo ke kanaka ma ka moeʻaʻoleʻo ia.

ʻO nā wāhine i ka manawa hoʻokahi, nā limahana, nā wahine hoʻokauwā a me nā mākua hānai
Makemake nā kānaka i ka maʻalahi o kā mākou hana e hoʻohui i nā kūlana! ʻO nā kui i koʻu mau wāwae, kamaʻilio pū me kekahi hoaaloha ma ke kelepona no ka hālāwai o ka lāhine i nehinei,ʻo ia, heʻano mega-puni hoʻi no lākou,ʻaʻole naʻe pēlā. No ka mea, ua hiki iā kāua ke lilo i wahineʻoihana pāʻoihana a me geisha, ua mākaukau nā kānaka e kala mai iā mākou i ka nui. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i kēia! I kekahi manawa ma kahi manawa, hiki i kahi kanaka ke noʻonoʻo wale i hoʻokahi mea. E hele i ka bakena no ka meaʻai a mai hoʻopoinaʻoe e kūʻai i ka yogurt momona liʻiliʻi - no ka mea ua paʻakikīʻole kaʻoihana!

Hāʻawi mākou iā lākou he mau koa
Hiki ke hoʻohālikelikeʻia ke kanaka me ka cockoroo e noho nei i kahi hale kūʻai puaʻa ma ke kihi. He mea kūpono i kekahi o ka poʻe malihini kipa e hōʻike mai i ka hoihoi i kēia manu, i ka hoʻomakaʻana e uwō, e like me ka liona huhū. Makemake nā kāne e hoʻohālikelike i ko lākouʻano:ʻaʻole e like me ka'īlio loea maʻamau ma waena o nāʻiole heʻekolu pilikino. No laila, i keʻano o ke keiki, ua heluheluʻia lākou e nā mele e pili ana i nā mea nui,ʻoiai mākou e aʻo nei iā Murzilka, a ke makemake nei lākou i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i nā koa me nā mea nunui, akā ua lōʻihi mākou i nā meka nani a me ka puke IKEA. Uaʻike mākou he mea nui ia no lākou ke manaʻo nui, a hāʻawi mākou iā lākou i kēia makana maʻamau ...ʻOi laʻana, i ka manawa e noi mākou e wehe i ka peasia pelo, a laila e mālama i kaʻaina awakea. I ka manawa, ma hope o ka moekolohe, e kākoʻo mākou iā lākou ma keʻano o nā keiki - Meeki-Mouse, e palekana. Ke hoʻolālā mākou e hoʻoponopono i kēia pahuhehena - i kahi kuli, iʻole e hiki i ke kaheʻana o ke ao holoʻokoʻa i loko o ko mākou lumi. Ke kōkuaʻole mākou e kū nei mākou i mua o ka puka makani me kahiʻeke o kāu mau moeʻuhane, aia i loko o ka hopena o nā mea hanaʻino. A no ka hoʻokuʻuʻana iā lākou e lawe i ke kaʻa i loko o ka hale kūʻai. A noʻonoʻo pono nā kānaka i ka hoʻokeleʻana iā lākou. ʻOiai i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā mea a pau ma ka liʻiliʻiʻaʻoleʻoi aʻe kaʻino. Akā, no ke aha e hoʻokau i nā mea a pau ma luna o ko lākou mau poʻohiwi? A pēlā mākou i nā maka kāne - ke kaikamahine aliʻi!

Mahalo iā mākou, ke nānā pono nā kāne
Hoʻomaopopo nā kānaka i nāʻano hana likeʻole a me ka Bengal e hoʻopiʻi ana i ka minuke Murano. ʻO ia ke kumu o kaʻoihana o nā kāne i nā hale kūʻai i nā wā heʻuʻuku ma mua o nā wāhine - iʻole e nalowale i waena o nā lole. ʻAe, a pale paha i kaʻike mai ka ikaika nui. ʻAʻole lākou iʻike i nā mea e hanaʻia ana iā lākou. A i ko lākou'ākoakoaʻana e kūʻai i kahi mea hou, hoʻomaka lākou eʻimi i nā hiʻohiʻona e hahai ai. Inā e hoʻonāukiukiʻo Duane "Rock" Johnson me kaʻoliʻoli, me kaʻikeʻole i keʻano o kaʻeleʻele o ka hōkū o ka poʻe militū a'ōleloʻia he mele, a ua like lākou me he pale e like me ka mea i hoʻolāʻauʻoleʻia a'ōwiliʻia i ka hapalua o ke kaumaha o ka umauma o ke kupunawahine. I nā mea'ē aʻe a pau,ʻo ke aʻoʻana o nā lanu (e pale maikaʻi me kekahi i kekahi) he malihini ia i nā kāne e like me Sanskrit. Akā, hele mai nā wāhine e kōkua i nā kāne! Ināʻaʻole mākou, hiki paha i nā kānaka ke hana i nā pūniʻu'ōmaʻomaʻo ma lalo o nā kapa komo melemele, uaʻaʻahu i nā kīʻaha kahiko aʻaʻole lākou iʻike i ke kumu e pono ai ka hao.

Kōkua nā wāhine i nā kānaka e ulu aʻe
Uaʻoi aku ka naʻauao o nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne. ʻAʻole loa mākou e hōʻapala i ka pepa mīkini ma kahi kaʻawale o kekahi hoalauna no ka mea, ua waihoʻo ia i ke kaʻa ma ko mākou wahi, aʻaʻoleʻo ia e komo i kahi kāmaʻa me ka palapala "ʻO kēia'ōpūʻaʻole i ka pia, akā no ia." Aʻo nā kānaka -ʻo ia,ʻo ia ke kumu e pono ai. Heʻano ola mākou e pili ana i keʻano o ka nohoʻana o ke kanaka makua, he mea hauʻoli nui kaʻaina ma ka hale ma ka hakakāʻana i nā pōpō pīpī i McDonald.

Hoʻolohe a hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe wāhine i nā kāne
ʻO ka mea hikiʻole i nā kānaka ke'ōlelo me ka nani ke kumuʻole i ka kānalua. ʻO John F. Kennedy kaulana kaulana "ʻO wau he Berliner", "He Moemoʻo wauʻo Martin Luther King" aʻo ka noiʻo Obama no ka loliʻana he mau hōʻailona maikaʻi loa ia. Eia nō hoʻi, he mea pono i nā kāne ke hui pū me lākou, no ka mea, ua haʻalele koke lākou i kā lākou makana o ka'ōlelo, a ke hoʻololi koke nei ka pilina e lilo i pia pō. He likeʻole nā ​​wāhine a mākou ... He hiki iā mākou ke hele me nā pilikia. Hoʻokahi wale nō manaʻo mākou e maopopo ai i nā mea e hopohopo nei nā kānaka, a ināʻaʻole mākou iʻike i keʻano,ʻaʻole mākou makaʻu e wehewehe. Ke noi nei mākou i nā nīnauʻaʻole me ka'ōlelo hōʻino, akā no ka mea he makemake nui mākou. Hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio me mākou no nā hola, aʻaʻole mākou e ho'āʻo e huki i ka pākeke ma luna. Psychology - ko mākou lio, akāʻaʻoleʻike nā kānaka i kēia mea.

Hoʻonanea nā kāne i kā mākou mea huna
ʻAʻole maopopo nā kānaka i ke kumu e hoʻolimalima ai mākou i nā hora e kūʻai a ho'āʻo wale i nā kāmaʻa a mākou e hikiʻole ai ke uku. A no ke aha mākou i'ōlelo ai, "Mai hopohopo, maikaʻi, e hele!" Ke noi mai nā kānaka iā mākou no kaʻaeʻana e hālāwai me ko lākou ma mua,ʻoiaiʻo ke kumu maoli o ka nohoʻana e hoʻopilikia i ko mākou kūlana. "Ua'ōleloʻo Sigmund Freud:"ʻO ka nīnau ʻAʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kahi pane no nā makahikiʻekolu e aʻo ana i kaʻuhane wahine'aleʻa, - "He aha ka makemake o ka mea nāwaliwali?". He mea paʻakikī mākou no lākou ... A no laila,ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻehaʻeha me mākou. ʻO kā mākou mea pohihihi he mea paʻakikī no lākou, e like me Sudoku a me ka pae mauna o ka Tour de France. He pilikia nā kānaka. Inā heʻano likeʻole nā ​​wāhine e like me nā kāne, e hoʻopau kokeʻo Sigmund Freud i kāna hana, aʻo nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika e loaʻaʻole kahi mea e kamaʻilio ai me kekahi hoaaloha ma ka pā i nā ahiahi!