ʻO ka hoʻomaka.
ʻOiai nā mea e ho'āʻo ai ka wahine, e ikaika loa ana kaʻoihana patriarpia. Mai ka wā kahiko, uaʻaeʻia nā kāne he nui aʻe, he mau hebedoma i nā wahine, a ua'āponoʻia a hiki i kēia lā. ʻO nā mea a pau, heʻikeʻoiaʻiʻo, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia. No ka kipi, ua hiki ke hōʻino a hōʻino paha kāna kāne, no ka mea,ʻo ka kumakaiaʻana o kāna wahine ua make, a make pinepine. I kēia manawa, aia kekahi mau hihia hihia.
ʻO ke kāhea no ke ahonui i kōkua i nā hanauna he nui o nā wāhine e ola. Ua ho'āponoʻia keʻano o nā kānaka ma nāʻano a pau, me ka hoʻouluʻana i ka hanaʻino. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona wahine i hoʻopaʻaʻia i kahi hoʻonaʻauao kūpono, e kuhikuhi ana i kona wahi ma ka home, i ka hui.
He mea kupaianaha no ka kohoʻana o nā kaikamāhine i nā kāne o ka poʻe i hiki ke hana i ka hanaʻino. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha inā he kaikamahine ia e mālama pinepine ai i kaʻikeʻana o kona makuakāne i nāʻano o kona makuahine. Ke makemake nei kēia makemake e koho i ke kāne e like me ka makuakāne, ma nā wahine he nui wale nō ia iʻike i kaʻikeʻole.
Hiki ke hanaʻia kekahi kaikamahine mai kahiʻohana waiwai i mare a noho me kekahi kanaka no nā makahiki he nui, ka mea i manaʻo e hōʻeha i keʻano maʻamau. He mea hōʻeha kēia, a he hopena paha o ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa a me keʻano pilikino o ka hewa. Ma ka hohonu o kaʻuhane, manaʻo nui nā wāhine he pono keʻano o iaʻano, akā naʻe paha he maikaʻi paha.
Uaʻikeʻiaʻo kaʻoi aku o ka wahine i ka mōhai nui,ʻo kaʻoi aku o kona hoʻohilahilaʻana iā ia iho,ʻo ka nui o ka lili a me ka'ākau,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe i ka loaʻaʻana o kēlāʻano hoʻonāukiuki i kāna mau kāne. A eia kekahi,ʻo nā kaikamāhine kūʻokoʻa,ʻoiai paha i hoʻokiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe loa lākou, keʻano o kaʻoihana huhū i loko o kaʻohana. Akā,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i kēlāʻano.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ināʻo ka pilikia i ka kohoʻiaʻana o nā kāne, nā pilina e hele ai ma lalo o keʻano likeʻole, i ka manawa e loaʻa ai ka wahine i ka wāwae, aia i laila, a laila hiki ke hoʻopauʻia i nā ala hou. ʻO ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana a me nā'ikekino a me ke olakino āpau, ua neʻe lōʻihiʻo ia i mea e pale aku ai i nā kānaka o nā keʻena e pale aku ai i ka hauʻoliʻole.
He aha ka mea e hana ai i kaʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu e pili ana i ka hoʻopiʻiʻana i ka hana kolohe i kaʻohana mai kahi maʻalahiʻole. Ma keʻano he kūlana, nā mea pane a pau e pili ana i kēia kumuhana e pane mai i kaʻaeʻole o ka hanaʻino i kēia hui kaiaulu. Eia kekahi, ke hoʻopaʻa nei nā kāne a me nā wāhine i ka manaʻo hoʻokahi e pili ana i kēia hopena. Akāʻo kēia wale nō ka leo o nā hua'ōlelo. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke hoʻopiliʻia nā manaʻo no kēia pilikia.
He nui nā kāne a me nā wāhine i manaʻoʻiʻo ua lanakila wale lākou i nā mea pono wale nō, aʻo nā mea hahau e hiki ke ho'āponoʻia ma nā hihia'ē aʻe he meaʻole i ka pale pale. Uaʻae kekahi i kekahi mau hahau pinepine iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, kōkua i ka hoʻomaha aiʻole ke aʻo i kekahi mea. Ma kahi o 30% o nā kānaka e manaʻo he mea maʻamau kēia - no nā kumu likeʻole, akā ua maopopo lākou he pono nā wāhine e hōʻinoʻia ma kekahi mauʻano.
He mea kupanaha e pili ana i ka 25% o nā wāhine e like me nā kāne.
ʻO kāu mea e pono ai.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i makemake i ka hana a ka mea i hōʻeha a makemakeʻoe e hoʻololi i kou ola, ke hilinaʻi nei ia mea iāʻoe. ʻO ka mua, e hele ma mua o ka hāpaiʻana o ke kanaka i kona lima iāʻoe. ʻAʻole i maʻalahi ka hopena o nā kumuʻole me kaʻole o nā hōʻailona, hiki keʻikeʻia i ka wā e mākaukau ai ke kanaka e hele i ka laina. Mai ho'āʻo i ka hilinaʻi, hele.
ʻO ka lua, mai noʻonoʻoʻoe e haʻalele i nā mea ma ka home, he aha ka hopena iāʻoe. ʻO ka hoʻoholoʻana e'āpono iāʻoe ma hope aku. ʻO kāu hanaʻelua,ʻo ia ke hele i kahi palekana i nā hoaaloha a i nā hoahānau paha. I nā hihia kūpono, e hoʻokae i nā makai.
Inā ua hoʻokōʻia, e hoʻokaʻulua. E pane aku i nā makai, me ka manaʻo i kou manaʻo no kēia kanaka a, no ka nui o kou manaʻo no ka hewa. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e'ōlelo iki, e hoʻoikaikaʻoe i nā ho'āʻo e hana hou.
E lawe mai i nāʻike maka,ʻo wai paha ka poʻe a pau iʻike maka iāʻoe i nā hōʻailona o ka hahauʻana.
ʻO ka kolu, mai haʻalele i kou moku'āina e like me ia. E noi i kōkua kōkua i nā kikowaena kūikawā a iʻole nā mea'imikalahana kaiaulu.
ʻO ka hā, mai wikiwikiʻoe e kala a kala i ka'ōlelo a kēlā kanakaʻo ka manawa hope loa kēia. ʻOiai, uaʻike lākou i ko lākou mana, he mea paʻakikī loa i nā kānaka ke hele mai. E noʻonoʻo i kahi manawa e hiki ai kāu mau keiki ma kou wahi.
ʻO ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka manawa e noho ai i ka noho leʻaleʻa me ke kanaka i kūpono iāʻoe,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kēlā mau pilina e loli iāʻoe no kēlā kumu kūpono. I kēia mau hihia,ʻo ke aloha o ke kanaka,ʻaʻole eʻoi aku kona aloha i kona aloha. Ma kekahi hihia, ka koho no ka pehea e ola ai, inā he mea hoʻomalu a he kanaka hauʻoli -ʻo ia iāʻoe.