Male dummies: pehea e pale ai iāʻoe iho

He aha ka mea, ka mea maikaʻi loa i moeʻuhaneʻia e nā wāhine? Kaha, kūʻiʻo, akamai. Hoʻopiliʻo ia i loko o kona kino i ke aloha a me ke akamai o ka haku o ka hale, he mea hoʻokipa haʻahaʻa a me ka mea palekana palekana -ʻo ia kēia mau'ōlelo e hōʻike pinepine nei i ka naita o kēia manawa. ʻAe, i ka manawa e aloha ai mākou i kahi kanaka'ē aʻe,ʻikeʻia ko mākou maka i ke kālaiʻana o nā manaʻo, ke kauʻia nei mākou me nā hormones a nalowale ko mākou makaʻala, no laila keʻike nei mākou i ka mō'ī ma luna o ka lio keʻokeʻo aʻaʻole paha. A laila,ʻo keʻano maoli, i ka wā i hoʻonāukiukiʻia ai keʻano aloha, mahalo mākou i ka maopopoʻole o ke aliʻi i keʻano o nāʻanoʻano kiʻekiʻe, e hele ana i loko o nā kīpiʻi holey, ma hope o ka lā paʻakikī e moe ana ma kahi pākoa me ka pia aʻaʻole maikaʻi i ka hana a kāna wahine aloha ...

ʻOiai, heʻoiaʻiʻo i ka puʻuwai, makemake wau e'ōlelo aku no kekahi mau hemahema, ua pani mākou i ko mākou mau maka: no ka mea ma loko o nā mea a pau e hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa kahi mea āu eʻike ai i ka hewa. ʻO ka meaʻoi aku iʻoi aku ka hewa no kā mākou pūʻali koa a no ko mākou manaʻo nui ma keʻano nui,ʻo ia eʻike ma lalo o ka pale o ka "maikaʻi" a pacifier. No laila, he nui nā nīnau a nā kaikamāhine, pehea lā eʻike ai i ke kanaka mai kāna "ʻawa? Pehea eʻike ai iā ia he pacifier? A pehea ka hana me ka hui o ka wahine ikaika, a lilo i zero? ʻO kēia ka mea pili i kā mākouʻatikala.

ʻO ka mea nona ka hale hau
ʻO kaʻokoʻa nui ma waena o ka wahine male ke makemake nui e hele mai a nānā maikaʻi (ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ka nani, ka maikaʻi, kaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a me nā mea'ē aʻe) ma mua o ka mea maoli. ʻO kekahi kanaka, e like me ke keiki liʻiliʻi, makemakeʻo ia e kaena i nā holomua, i nā mea kūpono a maikaʻi paha. I ke kumu o ka hoʻouluʻana i ke kumu o ka hiʻona, kūkuluʻo ia iā ia iho i pā o ka mea pohihihi. I loko o ia mau wāhine wahaʻole e hiki iā lākou ke piʻi me nā koi koi: lanakila ma mua o ke aloha, a me kānaʻoihana, a me ka lio keʻokeʻo me kahi laka.

ʻOiai, ua hiki i kēlā poʻe ke kōkua i ke kiʻi o kahi kanaka palekana me kahi koho nui o nā entourage, nā lole, aʻo ia hoʻi kahi e kahakaha iho ai i kāna mau manaʻo kānalua. No kona hoʻokiʻekiʻeʻana i nā mea āna i loaʻaʻole ai: kāna kaʻa pono'ī, waiwai waiwai a mea passport paha, hiki ke maʻalahi iāʻoe. Makemakeʻoe eʻike i keʻano o ka hana? ʻO ka hopena, eʻike iā ia i ka hana! Eʻikeʻoe ma laila i ka "pacifier", ka mea e hoʻonani ai i nā pants, i ko lākou mau manawa manawaleʻa e like me ia e pili pinepine ai kēlā poʻe e pili ana i ka pilina. nā kikowaena, no laila,ʻaʻole lākou e hilinaʻi nui i ko lākou poʻe kiʻekiʻe aʻaʻole hoʻi e nānā i ka mālamalama maikaʻi loa. Ma ke keena, aiaʻo ia ma ka waena waena,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe i kāna hana, akā naʻeʻo ia poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo ana heʻoi a he mea nui kāna hana. Ma keʻano laulā, pono e hōʻoia i ka manaʻo o ka "dummy" ma muli o kaʻikeʻole a me kaʻike.

Pono ka hihia kūpono i ka nīnau i ke kālā. No nā kumu kūpono,ʻaʻole i loaʻa ia mea, no laila,ʻaʻole ia he mea e kahaha ai inā inā ma ka hoʻomaka mua o ka pilina, e hele wāwaeʻoe i ka mākele hoʻolālā, e holo i nā meaʻono, e hauʻoli i ka ea anuanu, manaʻo aloha,'ōlelo kūkākūkāʻole. ʻO nā haleʻaina mua a me nā pua mai ia mea hikiʻole ke kali. ʻO ka manawa he pae kahi palena, heʻelua kiʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni a he popcorn.

Eia hou, hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i ke kāne male e like me ka leka e like me ka moeʻuhane - ke kūkulu mau neiʻo ia i nā wili mai nā wahi i piliʻole. Hoʻopili mauʻo ia i kānaʻoihana a me ka moeʻuhane, ma hope o ka halaʻana o nā malama heʻeono miliona. E hoʻomaopopo mauʻo ia i nā'āina a me nā hōkele, kahi e hele aiʻoe me ia. A i ka manawa, i hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope aku, i ka wā e makemake aiʻoe iā ia, i ka wā e hele aiʻoe no nā tiketi, e hāʻawi iāʻoe i "miliona" mau kumu, nā kānaka a me nā hanana i pale i ka hoʻokōʻana i kāna mau mākaʻikaʻi maikaʻi.

Hiki ke kapaʻia ka hōʻailona hope o ka "pōkole" i konaʻano iāʻoe, a me ka manaʻo o nā wāhine. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo kona mau lehelehe ke oli nei i nā keu e pili ana i ke aloha pauʻole, ka nani, akā,ʻaʻohe mea ma hope o kēia mau'ōlelo! Ua hoʻohikiʻo ia iāʻoe i nā hōkū mai ka lani mai, nā manamana, nā pōmaikaʻi a pau o ke ao, e kōkua i ka kōkua ma ka hale a me ka kākoʻo kūpaʻa. Akā, i ka manawa e hana ai, hanaʻo ia me he mauʻu maloʻo, kahi hikiʻole iāʻoe ke lōʻihi lōʻihi i kahi pilikia a iʻole kahi pilina o ka home. E hōʻike ana kēlā me kēia hana i ka hopena o ka pilikia i kou poʻohiwi poʻohiwi. ʻO ka hopena, e noʻonoʻo pono ma mua o kou laweʻana i ke ola me kekahi mea pani. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, inā loaʻa iāʻoe he mau keiki, he moraki, heʻoihana hui, e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoulu i kēia kaumaha wale nō?

ʻO ka papa inoa o "nā hopena pilikia" no kēlā mau kānaka
E hōʻuluʻulu i nā mea a pau ma luna ae hoʻoholo i nā ho'āʻo pono e aloha ai kāu mea aloha ma mua o kou hoʻolālāʻana i kou pilina a e laweʻo ia i kahi pale o ka mō'ī.

I ka hopena.
Ināʻoe, ma hope o ka heluheluʻana i kā mākouʻoihana hoʻonaʻauao (aʻoi aku paha, pololeiʻole, nele),ʻikeʻia me ka weliweli: e kuʻu Akua,ʻo ia ka hana a kuʻu keikikāne, pehea? Inā kuʻi, hoʻolei aku i kahi meaʻole a nele i loko o ka hale. ʻO keʻano maoli, he kanaka, no ka lōʻihi o kāu mau hālāwai, he mea'umeʻumeʻa, aloha a makemake kekahi, akā ma kekahiʻaoʻaoʻaʻoleʻoe he kamaliʻi, maopopo maopopo iāʻoeʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kūkulu i kahi e hiki mai ana me ia. ʻO kaʻokiʻana i ka pilinaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma kahi o ka wā mua, a hiki i kou manawa e hoʻonui ai i kou aloha no ka "dummy". Nui nā kānaka maoli i ka honua, ikaika, akamai, kūpono! Pono mākou e aloha iā mākou iho a manaʻo mākou e kū pono anaʻoe i ka maikaʻi! E like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, he mau waiwai kālaiʻike e hoʻonui ai!