3 mau mea e haʻalele ai ke kanaka

ʻO ka manaʻo nui o kā mākouʻatikala i kēia mau mea he "ʻekolu mea a ke kanaka e hōʻoleʻole." E like me kā mākouʻike, heʻano likeʻole nā ​​kānaka a pau. Loaʻa nā manaʻo likeʻole o lākou a pau, nā manaʻo i ke ola, nāʻike likeʻole o kahi kūlana. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo kahi kanaka āu i makemake a aloha paha i hana ai i kekahi mea e hewa ai iāʻoe, aiʻoleʻoe e hana i kāu e manaʻo ai he pololei. Ma keʻano laulā, ho'āʻoʻoe e hoʻololi i kekahi ma kahiʻaoʻao a iʻole kekahi. Makemakeʻoe e hoʻololi a hoʻohilahila iā ia mai kēlā kanaka maikaʻi āu i moeʻuhane ai i kou ola a pau. I ka wā ma mua, hoʻomakaʻo ia no kekahi kumu e pale aku ai i konaʻano, a loaʻa paha he mauʻano hou. Akāʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e hoʻololi i kekahi mea. ʻOiai ke poʻo e kū'ē i ka pā, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia makemake e kāpae. A ināʻaʻoleʻo ia e makemake,ʻaʻole. Peheaʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ai a mākaukau no kaʻoiaʻiʻo, no kēia meaʻaʻoleʻo ia e haʻalele i kona ola? No kēia kumu, uaʻike mākou i nā mea nui loa no nā kāne,ʻaʻole loa lākou e hōʻole i ko lākou iho.

A no laila,ʻo ka mea mua a me ka mea nui loa no kēlā me kēia kāne, he wahine. ʻO kēlā me kēia o nā'elepa o ka kāne he mea pono'ī kona no ka maikaʻi wahine. ʻO kekahi e like me nā'ōpiopio liʻiliʻi, lōʻihi,ʻo kekahi - nui a haʻahaʻa, a iʻole paha iʻoi aku ka nui o ke iniha. ʻAʻole kēia he mea nui. He mea nui eʻole ke kanaka e hōʻole iā ia iho e kamaʻilio me kekahi wahine maikaʻi. Nui lākou i ke aloha, nui paha, ma mua o kā mākou a pau, i ka wā e hoʻoloheʻia ai lākou, ke mahaloʻia a mahaloʻia hoʻi e lākou. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohui me ke kaikamahine, kono iā lākou e hula, haʻi i ka haʻalulu a haʻi i kāna mau'ōlelo malimali, no kēia mea e makemake nā kāne e hoʻopaʻa i ka pupuhi i loko o kā lākou mau'ōmaʻomaʻi, a hoʻonui i ka hoʻohanohano a me ka hōʻoluʻolu. Hiki iā lākou ke hana i kēia mau mea a hiki i ka wā i mareʻia ai lākou, a i loko paha o ka pilina pili. ʻO ka mea wale nō i loko o ia mau kāne,ʻo ia wale nō, me ka kamaʻilio pūʻana me ka wahine,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke pale i nā palena o ke kūpono kūpono, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe e hiki ke hana i kēia hana me kaʻike. Hiki i kekahi poʻe ke kinai i ko lākou mau mea lapuwale, ke kālepaʻana i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi a kuhikuhiʻia aku iā ia e keʻano o kahi coquette, aʻo kekahi mau kānaka e hoʻohui i kēia papa inoa a me ke kino pili kino.
ʻO ka lua o nā mea, me kaʻole e hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻomalu aʻaʻole loa e hōʻole -ʻo ia ke kūlohelohe maoli. Ma nā manawa a pau, ua makemake mau ka wahine ikaika i ka wahine āna i makemake ai iā ia, a lailaʻikeʻo ia i kona ao i loko. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo iā ia, no ka mea, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia makemake iā ia i ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake e lilo i 50% me ia. He aha kāu e hana ai i kēia mea. ʻO mākou a pau me kā mākou mau moa. Akā,ʻo nā kānaka ma kēiaʻano,ʻoi aku ka pololei a me ka pragmatic. A laila, inā makemake mākou i nā manaʻo, pono lākou i nā hana iʻoi loa iā lākou. Hoʻopili kekahi mau kāne i ka wahine i mea e māʻona ai. Ke manaʻo nei lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi ana i kā lākou mau hana a hōʻike iāʻoe i ka hapalua o ka pā mai Kamasutra, e loaʻa hou ana iāʻoe, no ka mea, he kanaka nō hoʻiʻo ia a he haku no kēiaʻoihana. A he mau mea wale nō e makemake pono e hāʻawi i kā lākou hoa i mea leʻaleʻa aʻaʻole hoʻi e hana i nā hana hoʻopunipuni me ia, akā e hāʻawi wale aku iā ia. Uaʻike kēlā mau mea mai iaʻano moekolohe, e loaʻa iā lākou ka nui o nā manaʻo a pili kokoke i kekahi i kekahi. I kekahi manawa,ʻo ka wahine no ke kāne e hiki ke lilo i mea ola ma hope o ka hoʻonāwaliwali, a iʻole paha, ma keʻanoʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻopaʻa iā ia me ka mana a me ka ikaika. ʻO ka wahine i loko o kona manaʻo e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka hilinaʻi nui no kēia kaikamahine nona, no ka mea,ʻo nā kāne kāne a pau, no ka mea i loaʻa iā lākou hoʻokahi pō, hoʻokahi mahina aiʻole no nā makahiki o ke ola hui pū me ka hauʻoli. ʻO ka pilina pili kahi o nā papa o ka pilina, me kaʻole nā ​​kumu'ē aʻe a pau e lilo i ko lākou mau waiwai. ʻOiai inā he naniʻoe i kēlā lā i kēia lā no kāu mea i alohaʻia, e heleʻoe i kahi lumi hoʻomaha, eʻai pono aʻoluʻolu e hānai iā ia, a ma ka moekoloheʻaʻoleʻoe e kūpono iā ia, aʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi,ʻaʻole loaʻo ia e paʻa. Ma kahi liʻiliʻi, e hoʻomaka anaʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale iāʻoe iho mai kekahi i kekahi, ka hakakā, ka hōʻino a me ka weheweheʻana i nā pilina, a iʻole ka hopenaʻoluʻolu a hōʻeha o kēia pilikia, e hoʻololi i nā pahi a me nā honi koa. A laila hiki i ke kumakaia ke hoʻomaka a lilo ke ola i gehena. I kekahi hihia, pono ka wahine e aʻo i ka pehea e kamaʻilio ai kekahi i kekahi. Mai hoʻolohe wale i kāu mea i aloha ai, akā e hoʻolohe hou iā ia, maopopo a hilinaʻi.
No laila, no loko o nā mea 3ʻole e hōʻoleʻia e nā kānaka, kahi nohoʻekolu kahi e hoʻomaha ai mai ka hapalua o ka hapalua a me kaʻohana holoʻokoʻa. Hiki ke hōʻikeʻia ma ka noho kaʻawale, a ma ka nohoʻana i ka pōpō o nā hoaaloha. Pono hiki i kāu kāne ke hoʻomaha iāʻoe, e like meʻoe mai iā ia. ʻIke wauʻaʻole kēia he meaʻoluʻolu loa, akā he meaʻoiaʻiʻo. Ponoʻo ia i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i nā mea he nui, moeʻuhane, hoʻokuʻu paha aʻoki wale paha i ka mahu. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia, e like me kekahi kanaka maʻamau, pono e hoʻokaʻawaleʻia i kekahi manawa mai kaʻohana. Hiki iā ia ke hana i kāna mea punahele i kēia manawa, e like me ke kaha kiʻi, e kahakaha i kahi kiʻi, e kākau i kahi hua'ōlelo, e kiʻi i nā kiʻi, e hīmeni, hula,ʻo ka mea nui,ʻaʻohe mea eʻike aʻaʻa paha. A iʻole paha, ua lawa kona nānāʻana i ka TV ma keʻano haʻaheo, no lailaʻaʻole e haʻi kekahi i kāna puna punahele aʻaʻole hoʻi i koi aku e hoʻololi i ke ala i nā kiʻi paʻi.
Makemake kekahi mau kānaka e hoʻolimalima i ko lākou manawa manawaleʻa i ka pōʻai o nā hoaaloha a ke kamaʻilio wale nei no kekahi mea, akā,ʻo ia nā'ōlelo a nā kāne. E nānā me lākou i ka pôpeku aiʻole ka pahu pahu, inu i ka pia me ka iʻa. Hele i ka lawaiʻa a me ka hahai holoholona. ʻO ka mea nui, hoʻomaha i ke ola a me kāna wahine aloha a aloha. A laila hoʻi mai i ka home me nā manaʻo maikaʻi, me ka naʻau māmā, a honi iā ​​ia wale nō, ka wahine hoʻomana a hoʻomanaʻo.
Eia nā mea 3 i mahalo mauʻia e ke kāne aʻaʻole loaʻo ia e hōʻole. Hiki ke hoʻohui i kēlā me kēlā me kēia no kēlā me kēia. Eia kekahi laʻana, he hīpī, e like me ka nohoʻana i loko o ka lumi hale no 20-30 mau minuke ma hope o ka heluheluʻana i puke puke a me ka puke pai. Ke kauʻia paha i loko o ke kaʻa, i ka manawa i nānā muaʻo ia i ka paeʻaila hinu no ka manawa haneli a hoʻomau mau paha i kahi mea ma laila. I ka pōkole, hiki i kēlā mau mea liʻiliʻi ke lilo i mea nui,ʻo ka mea nui ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia a e lawe i kāu kanaka e like me ia, a me kāna mau moa.