No laila, he aha ka manawa e pono ai e lawe mai i kahi kanaka i loko o ka hale a hōʻike i kou makuakāne a me koʻu makuahine. Eia kekahi, ponoʻoleʻoe e koi aku i kou kamaʻilioʻana me kouʻohana i nā malama mua o kouʻike. He meaʻano'ē aʻano kānalua. ʻAʻole pahaʻoe eʻike i kekahi mea'ē aʻe i kēia, akā, no ka mea iʻikeʻia nā meaʻike me nā mākua e like me ka hōʻailona maopopo: i kēia manawa uaʻike lākou iāʻoe, no lailaʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hele aku mai oʻu aku nei. ʻO ia ke kumu,ʻoiai inā makemake maoliʻoe,ʻoi aku ka pilina me kaʻohana i ka hoʻomahaʻana no kekahi manawa. E hoʻomaopopo i kaʻikeʻole o ke kanaka'ōpio i konaʻano noʻonoʻo iāʻoe a me ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi o kou pili. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo heʻano weliweli kēia, akā naʻe,ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO nā'ōhine wale nō keʻimi i nā mea a pau a me ka hahaʻi. Ināʻike mākou i kahi kanaka'ōpio a aloha aku iā ia, manaʻo mākou e like konaʻano no mākou a hana i nā kumumanaʻo lōʻihi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole mamao loa nā mea a pau mai ke ala a mākou eʻike ai ma o nā aniani uila o ke aloha. ʻO ka wā pinepineʻole kahi kanaka'ōpio i ka wā mua o ka pilina ma keʻano nuiʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea. Hele waleʻo ia meʻoe, hoʻohanaʻia a ho'āʻo e hoʻomaopopo i ka pono e hoʻolālā i kēia pilina. Inā hikiʻoe i kahi noi e hoʻi i kou home, inu wai me kou makuakāne a me kou makuahine, e laweʻo ia ia he mea hōʻeha i ka pono kūpono a hikiʻole ke lilo. No laila, mai wikiwiki, kali a hiki i kona hoʻohanaʻiaʻana iāʻoe, e pili anaʻo ia a pili pono ka pilina.
He mea ponoʻole hoʻi ka mea mua e hōʻike i ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka pilina me kouʻohana. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka wā e kamaʻilio ai ke kanaka e pili ana i ka huiʻana me ka makuakāne a me ka makua, pono ia e pili pono iāʻoe. ʻO ka hōʻailona me nā mākua he mea nui no nā'ōpiopio. Ua maopopo iā lākou e hiki i kou makuahine ke hoʻopaʻa iā ia i ke kuleana, aʻaʻoleʻo ia waleʻo kāu hoaaloha, akā he kanaka pono e mālama i kāna mea aloha a kōkua mau iā ia. No laila, e hāʻawi i ka manawa o ke kanaka no kona hiki mai i kēia manaʻo, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i hele i kou hale kokoke i ka heleʻana. Inā lōʻihiʻoe e hālāwai ai, akā,ʻaʻole e hōʻike ka'ōpiopio i ka manaʻo, e ho'āʻo e kamaʻilio pono iā ia no ia mea. Mai hōʻokoʻa wale i kekahi ala. E'ōlelo waleʻoe e hiki iāʻoe ke hele i nā mākua i ka hopena o ka hopena, no ka mea ua lohe lākou i nā mea he nui e pili ana iā ia a makemake lōʻihi lākou eʻike. Inā hoʻohālikelike ke kanaka e hoʻomaopopoʻoleʻo ia i ka hōʻailona a hōʻole pololei paha, e kamaʻilio pololei iā ia a noi iā ia e wehewehe i nā kumu o kēiaʻano. Malia paha he mea nui loa ia, a laila e hoʻopauʻia kēia nīnau.
ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ke kumu no ka pilikiaʻole o kahi kaikamahine i ke kuʻiʻana i kahi kanaka me kona mau mākua pahaʻo ia kaʻohana. E like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei,ʻaʻole mākou i koho i nā mākua, no laila pono mākou e mālama i kā lākou mau ukana. Ināʻikeʻoeʻaʻole lawa kaʻohana no kekahi kumu a iʻole kekahi, e ho'āʻo e wehewehe i kēia i ke kanaka. Akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hūnā,ʻaʻole hoʻi e hilahila. Inā alohaʻo ia iāʻoe, eʻaeʻo ia i kekahi me nā mākua. ʻOiaʻiʻo, mai hōhilahila i kou mau mākua, ināʻo lākou, i mea laʻa,ʻano maʻalahi, aiʻole ia, ma ka hakahaka, cutesy. I kēlā me kēia hihia,ʻo kouʻohana kēia, makemake lākou eʻike i ka mea a lākou kaikamahine e hui ai. Akā no ka mālamaʻana iā lākou iho mai ka hopena o nā kuhihewa a me nā paio, e ao i ke kanaka e pili ana i keʻano o ka makuahine a makua paha. ʻOiaʻiʻo, malia paha e hopohopo ikiʻoe, akā e hoʻomanaʻo i ka meaʻole. No laila,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kēlā me kēiaʻelua o ke ahiahi a kauʻia no kāu'ōpiopio i kahi hōʻailona e kahakiʻia ai kāna hana i kēlā minute kēia minuke. Ma nā'ōlelo maʻamau, e aʻo iā ia e pili ana i ka mea eʻole e hana, he aha nā kumu e ponoʻole e hoʻopāʻia a me ka mea e hoʻoloheʻole ai. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka hana hewaʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke hele wale. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻaʻole ia eʻae i nā hōʻino a me nā meaʻino.
Hiki ke loaʻa kahi pilikia inā e hopohopoʻoe no ka hana hewaʻana o ke kanaka aʻaʻole e'āpono i nā mākua. Ma kēiaʻano, e wehewehe pono iā ia i kekahi mau mea i'āponoʻole i kouʻohana, no laila e noi nuiʻoe iā ia eʻaʻa i kēlā mau'ōlelo a iʻole nāʻano'ē aʻe a iʻole e hana iki i kahiʻano'ē aʻe. Maiʻole i ka hihia e kauoha i ke kanaka me ka hoʻokaeʻole iā ia. Ināʻoe e hana i kēia, a laila eʻikeʻo ia ua hilahilaʻoe i kona manawa a makemakeʻoe e hana i nā mea a kou mau mākua e makemake ai. Manaʻo,ʻaʻohe meaʻoluʻolu i kēlā me kēia kanaka.
I kekahi hihia, ponoʻoe e hoʻolālā i kēlā me kēiaʻano. No laila, e hoʻomaka e hālāwai me ke kanaka, mai helu i ka manawa eʻike pono aiʻoe iā ia me kona mau mākua. ʻO ka mea paha, maopopo wale iāʻoeʻaʻole kēia kanaka i kahi kanaka maikaʻi a makemakeʻo ia e hoʻolimalima manawa, akā he mea'ē aʻe, he hapa o kouʻohana. Aʻo ia hoʻi, e manaʻo anaʻo ia makemake eʻike i nā poʻe nānaʻoe i hānai mai a aʻo aku iāʻoe e pololei. ʻO ia kahi manawa e hiki mai ai ka manawa kūpono no kahi kanaka e hui ai i kou mau mākua.