ʻO ka hopena o nā wāhine wahine


Ma keʻano o ke keiki, kokoke i kēlā me kēia kaikamahine ke moe e pili ana i ka pehea e mare aiʻo ia, e uhaʻi i nā keiki a ola mau loa ma hope. Akā,ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka maikaʻi i nā kaikamāhine a pau. E ulu a nā kaikamāhine, a lilo i mau kaikamāhine. A laila wahine. Ke lele koke nei kēia manawa aʻaneʻane hikiʻole keʻikeʻia. I kēia manawaʻaʻoleʻoe i nui no 30 a 40 paha. Akā,ʻaʻole i puni ka mō'ī, aia nō heʻoihana punahele, akā ua kaʻawale ka hale,ʻaʻohe keiki a he mea aloha. No ke aha i hanaʻia ai kēia?

ʻO ka hopena o nā wāhine maʻamau, heʻano maʻamau. ʻO ka mua, ua pau wau i ke kula, a laila ua hele au i ke kulanui, a laila ua kūkulu au i kahiʻoihana, no laila ua nānā au,ʻaʻole naʻe ma hope, hoʻokahi mea nele. Ma mua, hōʻoia piha. ʻAʻole i lawa ka manawa no nā kāne i ka manawa, a no ka mareʻana i kekahi mea weliweli,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he mea'ē.

Ma mua o nā makahiki, ua liloʻoe i mea koho i ka kohoʻana i ke kanaka. Pono mākou eʻoi aku kaʻoihana me kekahi waiwai, me kekahi mau mea maikaʻi a me nā hiʻohiʻona. No ka hānauʻana i kahi keiki nona iho,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he alanui. ʻO wai ka mea e hahai aku iā ia,ʻo wai e ho'āla iā ia,ʻaʻole loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa, heʻoihana paʻa kāu. Ola ola. Loaʻa iāʻoe ke ola holoʻokoʻa, i penaʻia ma kāu puke.

ʻO ka hopena o nā wāhine maʻamau,ʻaʻole ia he mea kaumaha loa, me he mea lā i ka nānā mua. Loaʻa iā lākou ka lanakila ma luna o nā "hale wahine" i hōʻeuʻeu mau loaʻia i ka home me nāʻeke nui. I ke kakahiaka e hoʻolālā lākou i ka hana, e like me ka penaʻana a me ka paleʻana mai ka lauoho. Ua hoʻomāʻewaʻewa mau loaʻia a me nā wāhine mare i hōʻoiaʻole.

E noʻonoʻo i kahi manawa awakea ma kekahi o nā keʻena. I ka wāʻaina awakea,ʻike lākou i kaʻike o ka pō hope loa. ʻO kekahi wahine maʻamau e kamaʻilio pinepine ana i kona heleʻana i ke keʻena hauʻoli, kaukau. Ua nānāʻo ia i ka ululāʻau e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kona lauoho, a laila holo i ka manicurist, i mea e hoʻoponopono ai i kona mau kui. Ua hele au i loko o kahi hale kūʻai a kūʻai aku i mau lole hou hou. Ua hoʻi maiʻo ia i ka hale, hoʻomaha i loko o ka lumiʻaʻahu me nāʻanoʻokoʻa likeʻole, ua nininiʻo ia i ke kīʻaha o ke kīʻala a'ōwili iā ia iho i kahi plaid e nānā ana i kāna pūnaewele punahele. A i kekahi lā, he mea aloha i ka pua nani a me ka makana.

ʻO ka moʻolelo o kahi wahine i mareʻia meʻelua mau helu. ʻO ke ahiahi, e like me nā manawa a pau, "he holomua". I ka hoʻiʻana i ka home, holo au i loko o ka hale kūʻai, kūʻai mai i meaʻai. Me nā ukana kaumahaʻeleʻele i hele i ka hale, aia i keʻano maoli he haunaha hikiʻole ke haʻiʻia. Mai ka paepae, e hoʻomaka ana ka lepo a me nā'ōpala i ka wāwae e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i kahi a me kahi i hele ai me ka weheʻole i kou mau kāmaʻa. Pēlā e hoʻomaka ai kekahi hana "hana". Ke hoʻomaka koke nei ka wahineʻilihune i kona "kino" ma ka home, hoʻomaʻemaʻe, ponoʻoe e kuke i kaʻaina awakea no kouʻohana, a laila holoi i nā kīʻaha a pau, holoi i ka holoi. E kōkua i nā keiki e aʻo i nā haʻawina, e wehe hou kaʻelemakule i kona mau kāmaʻa, ma ka lā e hele aku aiʻo ia e kūʻai iā ia i nā mea hou. Ua wāwahi ka'ōpiopio i kaʻaʻahu ma kekahi kaua'ē aʻe, ua wāwahi houʻia. Aʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa i kūʻai aiʻo ia i kekahi mea. ʻO ke kāne e moe ana ma kahi moe e ho'āʻo nei e kauoha. ʻO ka wahineʻilihune e kokoke ana i ke aumoe, hānai a hoʻomaha i nā mea a pau, e moe. A aia nō he kāne nāna i hāʻawi i nā pua i kaʻikeʻole i ka manawa hope loa, a ua'ōleloʻo ia i nā'ōlelo maikaʻi i ka wā ma mua. Akā,ʻaʻole ia e pilikia iā ia, he pono ka wahine e hoʻokō i kāna hana pilikino. I ka hopena, kokoke i ka holaʻakahi o ke kakahiaka, hoʻomaha nā mea a pau. A hiamoe ka wahine i ka hiamoe ma ka hola 6 am, hoʻomākaukau i ka kakahiaka a hoʻouna i nā mea a pau i ko lākou mau huakaʻi.

Ma hope o kēia kūkākūkā ma ka keʻena e hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo, aʻo ka meaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia me kona iho, hauʻoli a kaumaha i ka manawa like. A ke hana nei nā mea a pau iā ia iho aʻo ia wale nō. ʻO ka mea nui loa e hoʻomanaʻo, hiki iāʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kou hopena ma ke ala pololei.