He aha inā inā e haʻi mai ka hoaaloha kahiko i alohaʻo ia iāʻoe?

Loaʻa iā mākou kahi hoaaloha a mākou i hele ai i nā makahiki he nui a uaʻike nui mākou. ʻO iaʻano hoaaloha, i kekahiʻano,ʻo ia he hoaaloha,ʻaʻohe mea hopohopo a haʻiʻoe i nā mea a pau. 'Ōlelo pinepineʻo ia e alohaʻo ia iāʻoe, a ke lawe neiʻoe no ia me ka manaʻoʻole, no ka mea,ʻo ke aloha kaʻano aloha. ʻOiaiʻo ia heʻelemakule kahiko loa e hikiʻole iāʻoe a me kou mau manaʻo keʻae i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. A laila hiki mai kahi lā i hoʻomaka ai ka hoaaloha mua i kumuhana e pili ana i ke aloha, aʻikeʻoe he hewa kekahi maʻaneʻi. A i ka hopena, ua haʻiʻo ia e alohaʻo ia iāʻoe aʻaʻole aloha maikaʻi kēia aloha. ʻO kahi kahi e ulu ai ka nīnau: he aha kāu e hana ai inā uaʻae aku kekahi hoa lōʻihi ua alohaʻo ia iāʻoe.

I kēia hihia, ponoʻoe e hana pololei a pololei. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he paʻakikī ke hoʻonohonoho koke iāʻoe iho a hoʻoholo i ka mea e hana ai inā hoʻoholo kekahi hoa lōʻihi e alohaʻo ia iāʻoe.

ʻO ka mea mua, inā haʻi aku kekahi kanaka iāʻoe i loko o kēlā mau manaʻo, ua hanaʻo ia i kahi mea nui loa. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia mau'ōlelo hō'āhewa e hōʻino ai i kou pilina, aʻikeʻo ia i ke kumu o ka pilikia. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i maʻalahi iā ia, no ka mea, no kekahi kumu i paneʻole aiʻo ia no ka lōʻihi. No laila, he mea hikiʻole ke hana, inā haʻi ka hoa i ke aloha, eʻakaʻaka iā ia. Manaʻo wauʻaʻohe mea eʻakaʻaka me kekahi meaʻokoʻa aʻaʻoleʻoe e nīnau iā ia i kekahi mea like: he haʻaka, ke'ōpioʻoe,ʻo ia? Hiki paha i nā mea'ōpiopio ke kū'ē i kēia mau'ōlelo. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻakaʻakaʻoe i nā manaʻo āna i haʻi ai. E hoʻomanaʻoʻoeʻo kāu hoaaloha kahiko kēia, a ua kōkuaʻo ia iāʻoe i nā manawa he nui, no laila, e mālamaʻoe iā ia me ka mahalo. ʻOiai, i kēia manawa he mea weliweli ia a hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hana ponoʻole. Inā kū kēia, e kala koke koke a noi aku iā ia no ka kala. ʻAʻoleʻoe e hoʻonele i ka pōʻino o ke ao mai kāna mau'ōlelo. Akāʻaʻole pono ka laweʻana i kēia māmā. He mea nui iāʻoe e mālama i kou pilina. No laila, e nīnau mua iā ia i kona lōʻihi iāʻoe a me konaʻikeʻanaʻaʻole he mauʻoluʻolu nā manaʻo. Manaʻo wau e paneʻoluʻoluʻo ia i kēia nīnau, no ka mea, makemakeʻo ia e'ōlelo. A eʻike auaneʻiʻoe i ke aloha maoli paha, aiʻole ia i ke aloha wikiwiki i loaʻa no kekahi kumu a iʻole kekahi. Keʻano o kona mau manaʻo, e hoʻomaka anaʻoe e hoʻoholo i ka mea e hana hou ai.

Inā he kanaka'ōpiopio wale nō ke aloha i kū ma muli o kekahi mau hanana i pili iāʻoe, e haʻi aku iā ia, he mea nui paha, uaʻano pīhoihoi kona manaʻo. No laila,ʻoluʻoluʻoe e kali iki, i hiki iāʻoe ke maopopo inā he aloha maoli kēia, a laila ua hoʻoholoʻia nā mea a pau. I ka wā ināʻaʻole kēia he lā lōʻihi, e'ā koke ana ke kanaka, a hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i mau hoaaloha, e like ma mua.

Akā ināʻikeʻoe ua alohaʻo ia iāʻoe me kona naʻau a pau a makemake nuiʻo ia, a laila, ponoʻoe e noi i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka mea mua, ponoʻoe e koho i nā manaʻo āu iʻike ai iāʻoe iho. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki iāʻoe ke hoaaloha me kekahi kanaka, e noʻonoʻo wale neiʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā pili'ē aʻe, akā makemakeʻoe. Ma kēia kūlana,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e makaʻu i kekahi mea. ʻOiai inā e noʻonoʻoʻoeʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i mau kāneʻelua, pono ke ho'āʻo. Ua kuhihewa pahaʻoe, no ka hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i mau hoaaloha no nā makahiki he nui. Aʻo ka pilina,ʻo ia,ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ke aloha hoʻokahi, akā, me kaʻaeʻole i ka pilau. No laila, e ho'āʻo eʻokiʻole i ka poʻohiwi a nānā i kou mau manaʻo. ʻOiai ināʻaʻole kekahi mea e hopena, hiki iāʻoe ke lilo hou i mau hoaaloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki i ka pilina ikaika ke uhaki i kekahi mea. I kekahi hihia, uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka minamina no ka hanaʻana ma mua o ka hanaʻole. Ua hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻia kēiaʻike akamai kanaka e ka mea nuiʻole ma kahi o nā wāhine aloha. No laila, e mālama i kēia'ōlelo.

ʻAe, he aha kāu e hana ai ināʻaʻoleʻoe i aloha i kou hoaaloha me he kanaka lā, akā mahaloʻoe iā ia, aʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke ola me iaʻole, akā, no ka meaʻaʻole he kaikunāne,ʻaʻole ma keʻano he kanaka. I kēia manawa, e hoʻomaopopo mālamalama a wehewehe pono i kou kuleana iā ia aʻaʻole hoʻi e hāʻawi i kekahi manaʻolana i kekahi mea. Ināʻoe e'ōlelo aku i kahi mea paʻakikī, e like me: "e hōʻike ana ka manawa", e lawe ai kāu hoaaloha i mea alakaʻi i ka hana a e hoʻomau i ke kāohi i kona aloha. E hōʻike koke akuʻoe iā ia he mea aloha loa iāʻoe e like me ke kaikunāne, aʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi mea aʻaʻole loa e kumu. Inā noiʻo ia iāʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi manawa e hōʻoia aiʻo ia kou hopena, e haʻalele. Ināʻole, e hoʻomaka ke kanaka'ōpio e hoʻohuli i nā mauna, e hoʻolilo i ke kālā aʻaʻoleʻole e loaʻa i ka hopena. I ka hopena, e alohaʻo ia i ka huhū iāʻoe, e hōʻeha kekahi i nā manaʻo. Akāʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake i ka mea i alohaʻia e pilikia. No laila, e hana ia mea i ola aiʻo ia i kaʻeha hoʻokahi, aʻaʻole e hoʻonāukiukiʻia nona no nā makahiki he nui.

Ināʻoe he hoaaloha a me kahi hoaaloha e hoʻomaka ai eʻeleʻele iā ia no ka lili, me kaʻoluʻolu, akāʻoiaʻiʻo e haʻi aku iā ia,ʻoiaiʻoiaiʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae mai iaʻu e'ōleloʻino i kāu mea aloha. No laila, ināʻaʻole e hoʻomaha, a laila, hakakā waleʻoe. Eia kekahi, e hoʻoholo koke i ka maʻalahi o ke ola i kēia wā. Malia hikiʻole paha iāʻoe a me kou hoaaloha keʻike maka kekahi no kekahi manawa. Inā manaʻoʻo ia pēlā, eʻae maikaʻi i kāna hoʻoholo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he paʻakikī iāʻoe me ka mea alohaʻole, a e hoʻomaka kokeʻoe e nalo iā ia. Akā, inā i hoʻoholoʻo ia pēlā, no laila, ua hoʻonāukiukiʻo ia iā ia, a ua makemakeʻoe i ka mea liʻiliʻi loa. No laila e'aekahi me ia a'ōlelo waleʻoe e kali mau ana no kona kāheaʻana, no ka mea, he nui loa kou aloha iāʻoe.

Inā'ōlelo ke kanaka e pili mau anaʻo ia, a he hoaalohaʻoe, a laila e mākaukau no ka noʻonoʻo no ka manawa pōkole, e nānāʻo ia me ka huāhuā a me ka lili i kāu kāne a mau kānaka paha e mālama iāʻoe. Eia kekahi, no ka mea, he pinepine kona huhū, huhū a huhū. E ho'āʻoʻoe e kākoʻo iā ia, akā, mai hōʻoluʻoluʻoe, aʻaʻole e hana nui i ka waiwai. Pono e hoʻomaopopo ke kanaka'ōpioʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻololi i ka hoʻoholoʻana, no ka mea he mea aloha loa iāʻoe. A i ka manawa lōʻihi, e mae ana kona mau manaʻo, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe aloha mau loa. A laila, hiki hou iāʻoe ke hoaaloha e like me ka wā ma mua a ma hope paha, eʻakaʻaka paha i kēia kūlana. I kēia manawa, ponoʻoe e loaʻa ka ikaika, kali a manaʻoʻiʻo e hiki i ka pilina maikaʻi ke lanakila i kēlā mau ho'āʻo.