Ua mālamaʻia kekahi mahele, e like me ka hapalua o nā wāhine i paneʻia i ka nīnau: "He aha ka mea e pono ai ka hauʻoli?" No laila, hauʻoli ka manawa o ka mea hana i ka uku, a lilo ka ola o kēia mau wāhine i meaʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli. Hoʻokahi hapakolu o nā wāhine o ka'āina e noʻonoʻo inā inā heʻokoʻa kahi kokoke i ka mea maikaʻi loa, uaʻoi aku ka hauʻoli loa. ʻO nā wahine heʻelima wale nō i pane aku i ka hauʻoli ma ko lāua home pono'ī ma waho o ke kūlanakauhale, aʻo ka nui o nā wāhine e manaʻo anaʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa ka hauʻoli me ke alohaʻole. Eia kekahi, he nui nā wāhine i haʻi i ke ola o kaʻohana ma mua o ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo o ka wāʻelemakule ma mua o ka wahine maʻamau, aʻo ka kūʻaiʻana i kahi kapa nani eʻoi aku ka waiwai iā lākou ma mua o ka hauʻoliʻana i kāna kāne. Ke hoʻololi nei ia i ka loaʻaʻana o ka hauʻoli i ke kālā?
Malia paha heʻoiaʻiʻo kēia, no ka loaʻaʻana o ka hilinaʻi o ke kanaka i ka waiwai i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻOiai ināʻoe e noi aku i kou mau hoaaloha a me kou mau hoa a hoʻomanaʻo i nā manawa hauʻoli, a laila ua pili pū kekahi hapa liʻiliʻi o lākou i ke kālā. E haʻi aku kēia poʻe iāʻoe i nā manawa hauʻoli i ko lākou olaʻana e like me ka honi mua, ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki, kahi hoʻomaha hoʻomahaʻole ma nā Canaries. ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻikeʻoe i kekahi manawa i ka nani o ke ola - no kekahi mau mea liʻiliʻi. No laila, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoholo e noho kekahi ma kēia manawa aʻaʻole e hōʻole iāʻoe iho i nā mea liʻiliʻi maikaʻi, e noho i ka leʻaleʻa, aʻaʻole e hahai i ka holomua o ka honua āpau.
Aia kekahi manaʻo no nā pahu hopuʻuʻuku i hoʻonohonoho ai i ke ola,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana o ka hauʻoli i loaʻa iāʻoe. I nā manawa o ka hakakā paʻakikī,ʻo ka meaʻoi wikiwiki,ʻoi aku ka ikaika,ʻoi aku ka mālie, ka mimiki, ka maʻalahi, aʻo ka mea e hele ana i ke kaʻaleʻa pinepine ola. Ma muli o kēia hakakā mau, ua hoʻomaopopo nā kānakaʻepekema mai kēia hahaiʻana i nā wāhine ua lilo i mea haʻahaʻaʻole. Hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa i nā manawa he nui aku i ke kālā ma mua o kāu mau kaikamāhine, akāʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke waiwai i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka wahine a oligarch aʻo kēia ka mea e kaumaha ai kekahi wahine.
Ināʻoe e hoʻonoho mau i nā pahu kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe lani a noho mau i ka hopena i nā hopena, a laila,ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke hauʻoli. ʻO kēia ikaika no kāna mau pahuhopu he mea ia e kūlana maikaʻi loa, akā, he mea ia eʻoluʻolu ai i kēia manawa. ʻO ka poʻeʻoliʻoli loa ka poʻe e komo nei i kā lākouʻoihana punahele a loaʻa kaʻoluʻolu mai kēiaʻoihana.
He'ōlelo nui nā psychologists,ʻoiai hoʻokahi manawa i ka malama e ola ai kekahi lā a mai ho'āʻo e hōʻole iāʻoe iho i nā leʻaleʻa, no ka mea, a laila e mihiʻoe. Ke'ōlelo pū nei lākouʻaʻole e lili i nā hōkū'ē aʻe, no ka mea,ʻo ka poʻe e nānā ana i ka hōkū a me ka hoʻohālikeʻana me lākou iho, hiki iā lākou keʻoluʻolu e like me ka poʻeʻaihue, nā momona a me ka pōʻino. ʻO ia ke kumu e makemake ai mākou i ka ola o nā hōkū, eʻike pono i nā hemahema o nā hōkūʻelua a no laila e loaʻa ai ka uku.
Aia 4 mau kulekele e hauʻoli ai:
1. E mālama pono i kou mau hoaaloha a me kouʻohana me ka hoʻokaeʻole.
2. E ho'āʻo e loaʻa kahi haʻawina e hōʻoluʻolu iāʻoe;
3. E kōkua i ka poʻe i pilikia;
4. Mai hoʻopoina i ka nele paha o nā mea hauʻoli i kekahi mea.
ʻO Julia Sobolevskaya , no ka pūnaewele