Ma ko kākou'ōnaehana manawa a hoʻonele loaʻia i ka hapanui, ua lilo i mau mea nani nā kaikamāhine nani mehameha.
Eia naʻe, noʻonoʻo ka hopena o kēia mau kumu no ka holomua a no ke kūkākūkā nuiʻia, no ka mea,ʻaʻole loa lākou eʻike. Aʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea nui loa ka helehelena i nā wāhine, aʻo ka nānāʻana i keʻano o ka'ōpio he win score win-win i kahi ola hauʻoli likeʻole. Eia naʻe, e like me nāʻikepili, hoʻopau ponoʻia nā mea maikaʻi loa i ka pōmaikaʻi pilikino, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki i kahi kanaka ke hauʻoli hoʻokahi.
ʻAʻole paha i ka nānāʻana? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki iāʻoe keʻike pinepine aku i nā kaikamāhine o nā maka'āinana maʻamau, i kapaʻia he "ʻioleʻeleʻele", a ua hoʻopuniʻia e ka nui o nā kāne ma mua o kā lākou mau hoaaloha maikaʻi. No ke aha e hana ai kēia? Eʻike kākou no ke aha i noho mau ai nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi? Hiki paha he mau kumu no kēia.
I loko o ko mākou kaiaulu, maikaʻi ka wahine. ʻO kēia axiom mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai iā mākou ma ke poʻo, ua hoʻokumuʻia ka pāpāho, ka hoʻolaha a me nā manaʻo nui o ka lehulehu. No ka nui o nā mea a mākou e kamaʻilio ai no ka nani o kaʻuhane, e pili ana i ka hohonu hohonu o ka honua a me ka mea nui ma mua o ka honua, nā kaikamāhine, a laila makemake nā kaikamāhine e nani ma mua o nā mea a pau, no laila akamai, lokomaikaʻi, a akahai. No ka mea o nāʻaoʻao o ka nūpepa maʻamau - nani, no ka mea, he mau nani ke nānā aku i ka pale o ka pākeke, no ka mea,ʻo nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine o ka poʻe kālai'āina, nā mea pāʻani, nā pua pop - maikaʻi. ʻO ka nani he lawaiʻa holo, he kūlana kūpono no ka holomua. Ināʻoluʻoluʻoe i ka hānauʻana i ka nani, a lailaʻo kāuʻoihana ke mālama, hoʻomāhuahua a kūʻai i kou nani i ka hopena iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Akā,ʻaʻohe hoʻolahaʻana,ʻaʻole nā puke'ē aʻe e aʻo aku i nā kamaliʻi e maikaʻi ka hōʻailona, kahi manawa lōʻihi, a hikiʻole ke hilinaʻi,ʻoiai, i ka'ōlelo o ka hoʻokele waiwai,ʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i puʻu waiwai pono.
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka nani o ka nani nani o ka wahine he meaʻole. Pehea ka manawa eʻike ai mākou i nā kaikamāhine manuahi-ʻole nā kaikamāhine momona, ka poʻe, me kaʻole o kā lākou mea hoʻokipa kūlohelohe,ʻaʻohe mea i loko o ko lākou waiwai:ʻaʻohe aʻo,ʻaʻohe makemake e hana i kekahi mea ma ke ola,ʻaʻole makemake, ʻike i kahi mea kākoʻo waiwai. A lele kēia moa i ke kukui gula o ka waiwai a'ā i loko o ia, e waiho ana ma hope o nā puke hou i loaʻaʻole i ka maikaʻi.
Akā, hiki i kahi alahele -ʻo nā manawa akamai loa i ka hoʻonaʻauao a me kaʻoihana e noho kaʻawale. A maʻaneʻi he mau kumu likeʻole.
ʻO ka mea mua, uaʻike nō kekahi kaikamahine i kona pono pono'ī. A ma keʻano he kumu, ua kiʻekiʻe kēia kumukūʻai i ka hikiʻole ke hiki. E like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, "ʻaʻole noʻoukou, nā maka'āinana, ua hānaiʻia wau e koʻu makuahine he mō'ī wahine." No laila, ua hānauʻia ke kiʻi o ka mō'īwahine hau "hau". Aʻo ia ka mea i lilo i mea hōʻailona no ka launaʻana me kekahi hoa pili. E hopohopoʻia kahi alakaʻi kāne e ke kiʻi o ka "meli wahine", a me nā kānaka nāwaliwali e hoʻohanaʻia ana e kauohaʻia,ʻaʻole lākou e loaʻa ka koa e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kēlā wahine haʻaheo.
No laila kahi "lua" -ʻo nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi i hānau pinepine i loko o nā manaʻo o nā kānaka e pili ana i kēlā mau manaʻo: "nani loa, ka nui o nā poʻe; ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻoleʻo ia wale nō; ʻo ia hoʻi, e pau loa ia, a, no laila -ʻaʻole ia e ho'āʻoʻia. " I kēia manawa, hiki wale paha i ke kaikamahine ke haʻaheo a hopohopo paha e lilo i mea mua eʻike ai i ke kanaka āu e makemake nei. Aʻo ke kupunawahine nāna i hānai iā ia, ka mea i hoʻomau mai i kona mau makahiki mua i ka moʻopuna a kāna moʻopuna, "ʻo nā kaikamāhine maikaʻiʻole ka mea mua eʻike" ai.
Eia nō naʻe,ʻo ka hoʻonanea i ka manaʻo pono'ī a me ka olakino olakino e pono ke loaʻa i kekahi kaikamahine, akā (()) Ua lawa a he olakino ia. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e lilo i'ōpoki holoʻokoʻa, no ka mea me keʻanoʻoi loa, a me keʻano hoihoi, pinepine ka nohoʻana o nā kaikamāhine no ka maopopo loa o kā lākou, nani, hiki a me ka pono e hōʻike pinepine i nā hōʻike hauʻoli. No laila,ʻaʻole e hoʻomaha iki ke kanaka i kaʻikeʻana,ʻo ia he diamona koʻikoʻi, aʻo ia ka mea e koi ai i ka hana maʻamau, a uaʻaeʻia nā mea a pau iā ia, aʻo ia wale nō ke hali haʻahaʻa i kēia mau pōpilikia a me ka pule no ke kalaʻana, me ka hoʻokipaʻana i kona akua me nā makana a me nā makana.
ʻOiai, no ka pō ikiʻana o ka pōʻino,ʻaʻole eʻeha ka hana a kēia wahine wahine maʻamau, e hōʻike ana iā lākou i kekahi māhele o keenness, e hoʻokani i kahiʻano "peppercorn." Akā, e like me kāu eʻike ai, nui loa nā pepa e hiki ke hoʻopau i ka momona maikaʻi loa. ʻO ia ke kumu e hōʻea ai i ka manawa a pau e kiola ai nā kāne i kā lākou mau kaikamāhine nani me ka hiʻohiʻona halaʻole, a waiho aku no ka naniʻole, akā noho mālie, mālie a me ka hauʻoli, a me ka mea eʻoluʻolu ai lākou,ʻaʻole lākou e "noi aku i ka mōhai" no ko lākou nani, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolohe, E kala, a kau i kou poʻohiwi i kahi manawa pilikia. A laila,ʻaʻole ia he mea nui,ʻo waho ma kaʻoihana keʻano maʻamau.
Aʻo kekahi kumu'ē aʻe e waiho mau ana nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi i kahi kaʻawaleʻo ia ke kānāwai kūponoʻole o ka manawa. 'Ōlelo pinepine ka kaikamahine iā ia iho: "He manawa mau koʻu e mare ai me nā hiʻohiʻona, akā i kēia manawa,ʻoi aku kaʻoi o ka mea nui i ka noiʻana, i ka hana." A me ka ikaika a pau, e hakakā neiʻo ia no kahi pahu hopu. A i ka manawa, i ka hopena, hiki i ka mea, ua hoʻololiʻia nā kāne a pau i ka wa a mare paha, aʻo nā mea i koe ke makemakeʻole nei, aʻaʻole maikaʻi loa ka kohoʻana. No laila, ua nani, a ua ola ke ola, akā, ua nalowale.
No laila, i ka hōʻuluʻuluʻana, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku i ka manawa pinepine i loko o nā wahi noho kaʻawale maikaʻi o nā kaikamāhine, e hōʻeha lākou iā lākou iho. ʻAʻole ka hōʻailona maikaʻi o ka hauʻoli pilikino, aʻo kekahi manawa kekahi mea kū'ē. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke kalapona, a he mea hiki ke hoʻokomo a hoʻopōmaikaʻiʻia mai. He mea waiwai nui ka wahine i mea e hauʻoli ai ka mea nona ia a me nā mea'ē aʻe. A ua hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli,ʻaʻoleʻo ke kaikamahine wale nō, akāʻo ke kanaka e pili ana iā ia, ponoʻoe e makemake a ho'āʻo iki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he kaikamahine maikaʻi maoli nō i hanaʻiaʻaʻole wale ma kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi a me nā hiʻohiʻona kūpono, akā ka hiki i kaʻoluʻolu maikaʻi, e weheʻia me nā kānaka, ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha. E ho'āʻo e like me ia a e holomuaʻoe. Aʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa i kekahi mau hana hou maʻaneʻi.
