Nā moe erotic no kekahi kanaka. ʻO ia moeʻuhane e hiki ke moe i kahi kanaka makua a me kahi'ōpio. ʻO keʻano maoli,ʻo ka hopena o ka hiamoe hiamoe i loko o ke keiki a e likeʻole ka makua. ʻO ka manawa maʻamau aʻike mākou i nā moe māmā, hōʻike mākou iā mākou no ka nele i ka moe ma ko mākou ola mau, a iʻole kekahi mau makemake hūnāʻole i hikiʻole iā mākou ke unuhi i ka mea maoli. Akā, ua maʻalahi nā moeʻuhane aʻaʻole loa iʻikeʻia. ʻO ka maʻamau,ʻo ka moekolohe ma ka moeʻuhane heʻano ponoʻole ka moekolohe, akā he mea'ē aʻe. Ua hoʻopauʻia nā moeʻuhane e ka psychoanalyysis.
No ke aha e moeʻuhane ai nā moeʻuhane?
I ka manawa pinepine, e kuhikuhi wale lākou i kekahi mau hemahema o kāu. Ke hoʻoholoʻana i nā moeʻeleʻele, e hoʻolohe i ka hopena o ka hopena. Ināʻoe e ala ana me kahi leʻaleʻa maikaʻi, hōʻike kēia i kou hūnāʻana i nā makemake. ʻAʻole lākou i pili i ka pili pili i ka wahine. Inā ua hoʻonāukiuki ka moe iāʻoe i nā manaʻo lewa a me ka manaʻo huhū, e hoʻopili i kou ola i ke ola maoli. Ua weheʻia paha kekahi mau hoʻopiʻi kū'ēʻole i mua ou.
He aha kā mākou e haʻi ai i nā moeʻuhane?
No ke aha lāʻoe e moeʻuhane ai i kahi moeʻeha? ʻO kēlā me kēia moeʻuhane wahaheʻe konaʻike wehewehe. E noʻonoʻo i ka mea maʻamau o lākou.
ʻO nā moeʻuhaneʻoi loa o nā moeʻuhane he moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hana hoʻomāinoino, kahi āu e hana ai he kanaka hoʻomāinoino a iʻole he hopena. Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe he mea hihiaʻoe no ka hana kolohe, a laila e makemakeʻoe e hoʻolei i nā kaula i ke ola maoli. Inā ua liloʻoe i hōʻeha i loko o ka moeʻuhane, a laila, ua luhiʻoe i nā mea a pau i loko o kou ola i ke ola maoli, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iāʻoe iho a me ke ao holoʻokoʻa iāʻoe. Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe i ka palakala i mua o ka lehulehu o nā kānaka, ma kahi wahi lehulehu, eia keʻano he meaʻole kāu e like ai. ʻAʻole pono e pili kēia i ka pili pili i ka nohokino. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā moe, kahi e moe aiʻoe meʻoe, a laila, no ka mea, ponoʻoe e hoʻonui i kou manaʻo pono'ī. E nānā iāʻoe iho me nā maka'ē aʻe. Malia pahaʻoe eʻike i kekahi mea hou a nani i loko ou. Ināʻoe he moe kolohe a moeʻuhaneʻoe i kahi moeʻehaʻeha me ka komoʻana o kekahi wahine'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo kou makemake i kahiʻoihanaʻole. ʻAʻole pahaʻoe i ke aloha a me ka mahanahana, a iʻole i ka hoa me nāʻano iʻikeʻoleʻia eʻoe. Komo i loko o ia mea e pili ana i ia mea, ponoʻoe e hōʻoia i kēia mauʻano.
Mai hopohopo, inā me ka moemoole i kahi moeʻehaʻehaʻoe e komo i loko o kahi kanaka. No ke aha mai kēia hana? He mea maʻamau ka heleʻana i nā kāmaʻa o kekahi. Malia paha, makemakeʻoe e hana maʻamau i ka moekolohe, akā no kekahi kumu e hanaʻole ai kēia. Mai hopohopoʻoe inā piliʻoe i kahi kanaka āu iʻike ai. ʻAʻole ia e hōʻike ana he makemakeʻoluʻolu kāu nona. He mea wale nō kēia kanaka i makemakeʻoe eʻike i kāu pilikino maoli.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine i nā moe wahaheʻe, hālāwai mākou me kahi malihini. Ua maikaʻi ke loaʻa iāʻoe nā moeʻuhane. ʻOiai, ua luhiʻoe i ka hana maʻamau. Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe i kahi pilina pili me kekahi hoa hana mua,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo kou manaʻo iā ia. ʻAʻohe paha i kūpono kekahi mau hana a me nā kūlana. Inā ua komo kekahi kanaka i loko o kāu moeʻuhane hilahilaʻole, a he meaʻoluʻolu loa ia iāʻoe, e noʻonoʻo ai, e makemake pahaʻoe e loaʻa kekahi mauʻano o kaʻenemi, aiʻoleʻoe makemake e like me ia. I kekahi poʻe,ʻoi aku ko mākou huhū ma muli o ko lākou mau pono ma mua o ko lākou mau hewa. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā moeʻuhane e hana mau kekahi mea a mea paha i kekahi mea e pale aku ai iāʻoe mai ka moeʻana,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i kekahi mau manaʻo nui loa i ke ola maoli.
No ke aha i maʻa mau ai kekahi manawa i ka hōʻoiaʻana i kā mākou mauʻikeʻole i ka lā? Ma muli o ka hoʻonāukiuki waleʻia o mākou e nāʻano moʻomeʻa a me nāʻano likeʻole. E ho'āʻo e hoʻolohe i kāu mau moe. Hiki paha iā lākou ke hōʻailona iāʻoe e pili ana i kekahi mau loli o ka mea maoli.