Mālama nā manaʻo o nā mākua e pili ana i nā makana a me nā mea pāʻani. Ma ka hoʻokahi, ua like ko lākou manaʻo -ʻo nā keiki liʻiliʻiʻole i ka waiwai o nā makana aʻaʻoleʻike i ka mālamaʻana i nā mea,ʻaʻole pono e hāʻawi i nā makana nui. 'Ōlelo nā mākua'ē aʻe he mea nui ka mea kūpono a kiʻekiʻe loa. ʻO kahi keiki e hoʻomaka e hoʻomaopopo, ua neleʻo ia i ka makemake i nā mea pāʻani e aloha i ka hāʻuleʻana a iʻole ka'ōpala. ʻAe, a nānā nā mākua me ka makaʻu i ka hana a ke keiki me kahi makana maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻolilo i ka kālā nui ma nā mea pāʻani no ke kumu maʻalahi e noʻonoʻo pono ai i kahi makua e hiki ai i nā mākua ke kālā a haʻalele i ka mahalo i kāu hana ikaika. Wahi a psychologists,ʻaʻoleʻike nā kamaliʻi i ka waiwai o nā mea. ʻAʻole pono ka kūʻaiʻana i nā keiki'ōpiopio i nā makana kumukūʻai,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike pehea e mahalo ai iā lākou.
Nā makana keu no nā keiki
Akā, i kaʻikeʻana o ke keiki i ke kumukūʻai o kahi makana, hoʻopōpī kokeʻiaʻo ia me kahi mea pāʻani, e nalowale ka uku a loaʻa i ka lalo o ka pahu me nā mea'ē aʻe. Ua huhū nā mākua aʻaʻole lākou i maopopoʻo ka makemake o ke keiki i ka mea pāʻaniʻaʻole e hilinaʻiʻia ma ke kumukūʻai. Hiki i nā 'ōpio ke hāʻawi i nā makana hoʻolimalima. Akā,ʻaʻole no ka hoʻolimalima, akā no ka makana e lawe mai i kekahi pōmaikaʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, maiʻoluʻoluʻoe i ke kālā ma kahi kamera maikaʻi maikaʻi, inā makemakeʻo ia i ka kiʻi kiʻi a iʻole no nā pono hana hoʻolālā maikaʻi,ʻo ke kaʻa maikaʻi. ʻO nā mea kumukūʻai hiki i ke keiki keʻoliʻoli me ka leʻaleʻa a hoʻohana mau. Inā he pāʻani kāu keiki, mai mālama i ke kālā ma nāʻaʻahu hāmeʻa. ʻO ka waiwai nui kahi ATV maikaʻi o nā keiki. Hiki ke hoʻonui i nā hōʻailona, no ka mea, he puʻuwai ko kēlā me kēia keiki e makemake ai i ke kālā kūpono. Pono nā mākua e noʻonoʻo no lākou iho inā pono kēia mau koina.
ʻAʻole pono nā kamaliʻi ke noi i nā makana maikaʻi,ʻaʻohe manawa i kaupalenaʻia i kekahi mea pāʻani. A i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi pāʻani waiwai, e hoʻomau ka keiki e noi i nā makana kaumaha. Mai hoʻopoina, no ka mea he makana nui, pono e waiho ponoʻia. Inā hiki mai ka makahiki hou, a heʻuʻuku ke keiki, a laila eʻoluʻoluʻo ia i ka makana i loko o ka hōʻailona nani a me ka nani. He mea nui loa ia i nā keiki inā i hāʻawiʻia nā makana i ka makahiki hou e nā mākua, a me ka makua kāne hoʻi i ka Frost. Pono ka mea'ōpiopio e hāʻawi i kahi makana i mea e kahaha aiʻo ia aʻikeʻole i ka manawa hope i ka mea e kali ana iā ia. A hele mai mai ke kula,ʻoluʻoluʻo ia e loaʻa ma kāna papa he makana. He mea nui ka makemake o ke keikiʻaʻole wale i ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana, akā makemake nō hoʻi e hāʻawi iā lākou.
E aʻo i nā keiki mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai,ʻo ka mea nuiʻaʻole ia he makana nui, akā, he hōʻailona o ka mahalo a me ka nānā. A i kēia manawa ua lilo i meaʻoluʻolu ke'ōlelo,ʻo ka makana maikaʻi loa he makana ia o ka lima i hanaʻia (hanaʻia e nā lima lima).