Ke kūpono kūpono o ke keiki

ʻO ka hānauʻana o nā keiki he lā hoʻomaha. Aʻoiai he mau liʻiliʻi lākou,ʻaʻole iʻike nuiʻia kaʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kaikamāhine a me nā keikikāne. A aʻo lākou e hoʻopaʻa i ke poʻo, e noho, eʻalo, a hele. Akā i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai lākou e ho'āʻo i nāʻaʻahu, nā kakaka, nā pale. Ke hāpai nei wau i ka waiwai o ka mea hoʻopalaʻau a koʻu makuahine, nā kāmaʻa, a me nā kapa, ua maopopo ke olaʻana ke kaikamahine maoli i loko o kaʻohana.
No ke aha, mai ka hānau maoli mai ,ʻo ka hōʻailona o nā hōʻailona o ka male ma ke kikowaena. Hoʻokani nā kaikamāhine i nā pīpī a me nā meaʻai a nā keiki, nā keikikāne, a me nā kākau liʻiliʻi a me ke kaua pū me nā pistols. Hāʻaʻia kēia ma kaʻaeʻana o nā mākua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka wā e koho ai mākou i mea hana no kā mākou mau keiki, ua alakaʻiʻia mākou e ke keiki. E kūʻai aku nā kaikamāhine i nā pulapula, kahi kīʻaha, ka mīkini hana hana lelo, kahi mea humuhumu. A me nā keikikāne, nā kaʻa, nā pistols, nā mea hana. No laila, ua koho nā keiki mai ka liʻiliʻi loa i kā lākou mau meaʻoniʻoni, me ko mākou lima lima. ʻO kahi kaikamahine i lawe i ka mea kākau kākau a mea pana paha no kāna pāʻani - he meaʻino kēia manaʻo. A'ōlelo mau nā mākua "he kaikamahineʻoe, e lawe i kahi pāpani!". ʻO keʻano like me nā keikikāne.

Ke hele kekahi keiki i ka papa mua , aia iā ia he poho hou o nā hoaaloha, ke launa pū me nā keiki ma kahi'ē aʻe. Ma muli o kaʻikeʻana o nā keiki i ke kuleana nui, ulu lākou. He mea hūnā. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka manawa e hoʻi mai ai ke kaikamahine mai kahi kula a haʻi aku i kāna mea huna me kona makuahine, "Ua makemakeʻo Mom i ka Vitya ma ke kula, ua huki wau iaʻu no kahi puaʻa pua".

I ka wāʻelemakule , lilo nā keiki i mea huna. Inā loaʻa ka pilina paʻa o nā mākua, hiki iā lākou ke māhele i kekahi mau mea huna, akāʻaʻole e hōʻikeʻia nā mea huna a pau. I kēia wā, he mea koʻikoʻi ke hilinaʻi i ke keiki, aʻo ka hilinaʻi i kā lākou mau keiki e hiki ke kūpono i ka hānai kūponoʻana. Inā maopopo iāʻoeʻaʻole kāu keiki kāne a kāu kaikamahine e hāʻule i loko o kahiʻinoʻino,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohana i ka waiʻona, lāʻau aiʻole ka uahi, no laila ua loaʻa iāʻoe ka ala kūpono e hānai ai i nā keiki.

I kēia manawa ke huhū nui nei lākou no ka hoʻokomoʻana i ka hoʻonaʻauao moekino ma ke kula. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mākua e kū'ē i kēia ala. I ko lākou manaʻo, pono e kūkāʻia kēia mau mea i ka home. Makemake wau e hoʻomaopopo i ka nui o nā mākua e makemakeʻole e kamaʻilio ma kēia kumuhana. Nui nā kumu, ua hilahila lākou,ʻaʻohe manawa no kēlā mau mea nui, aʻaʻole lākou e kūʻai i ka encyclopedia ae hoʻomaopopo i ke keiki pono'ī. Akā, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka nui o nā pane no nā papa ma ke kula. ʻO ka mea mua, ua hanaʻia nā hana ho'ākāka a pau e kekahi mea lapaʻau nāna e hōʻike pono i nāʻike a pau, a hiki iā ia ke pane pono i nā nīnau a pau. ʻO ka lua, e aʻo nā keiki i nā mea a pau mai nā "lima mua",ʻaʻole naʻe mai nā hoa mai ke alanui. ʻO ka mea nui loa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ehia mau hihia o ka hāpaiʻana i nā'ōhine, nā maʻi o nā'ōpū kino, ka naʻaupō naʻaupō o ka hana kuhi. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai, eʻike nā kāne i ka mea launa.

Inā makemakeʻole nā ​​mākua i nā pilikia e pili ana i ka uluʻana o nā keiki i ka wahine, a laila, pono kūpono e kamaʻilio me ia ma kēia kumuhana. E kūkā e pili ana i nā hana palekana, ka hōʻai'ēʻana, nā maʻi i hoʻounaʻia ma ke kino, nā hopena o ka moekolohe (hāpai). A laila, hiki iāʻoe ke pale i nā pilikia me ka hoʻonaʻauao kāne.

Ma ka Soviet Union,ʻaʻohe wahine . A ua mālamaʻia kēia paʻa i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua ke hāpai i nā kumuhana,ʻoiaiʻaʻole lākou i kūkā e pili ana i ia kumumanaʻo. E wāwahi i nā kuʻuna kahiko. ʻO Shame,ʻaʻole kēia he manaʻo e kū ka makua. ʻO ke kamaʻilio pūʻana me nā keiki ke ala maikaʻi loa e pale ai i nā pilikia o ke keiki, ma ke kino a me ka pono. Inā he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha, eʻike lākou i nā hopena,ʻo ia hoʻi, uaʻoi aku ke kuleana nui e pili i kēia kūlana.