He aha ke aloha o ke kanakaʻelemakule?

Ke koho pinepine nā kaikamāhine i nā kāne kūpono. No ke aha iʻoi aku ai ka maikaʻi o ka pilina a me ke aloha o kahi kanaka makua no nā kaikamāhine he nui aʻe ma mua o ka pilina me nā kaikaina? He aha ke aloha o ke kanakaʻelemakule a pehea lā e hōʻikeʻia ai?

Uaʻike mua kekahi kanakaʻelemakule i kēlā manawa i kona olaʻana ināʻaʻole i hala nā'ōlelo. ʻO ke aloha iā ia i hōʻikeʻia ma ka hana,ʻaʻole i loko o nā'ōlelo hoʻohikiʻole. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi kanaka makua ke hoʻopunipuni i ke poʻo o ke kaikamahine a ua mākaukau e mare iā ia. ʻOiai ka makaʻu nui o nā'ōpio e komo i kēlāʻano koʻikoʻi o ka pilina.

I loko o kona mau makahiki, he kanaka waiwaiʻo ke kanaka makua, ma keʻano he mea nui,ʻo ia hoʻi ka hiki iā ia ke mālama i kāna wahine a me kaʻikeʻaʻole he mea e pono ai kāna mea aloha.

He ola nui kona, no laila, hele mauʻo ia e hālāwai me kāna wahine. Hiki iā ia ke uku i nā hakakā, no lailaʻaʻole e hōʻeha i nā manaʻo o ke kaikamahine.

Hiki ke kapaʻia ke aloha o ke kanaka makua. Ua haʻaluluʻo ia me kāna wahine. Ua mākaukauʻo ia e kala aku i nā mea a pau. Ua mākaukauʻo ia e hāʻawi iāʻoe i nā makana a me nā pua. ʻO ke ola me kahi kanakaʻelemakule e hiki ke hoʻohālikelikeʻia me ke ola paradaiso.

ʻO ka aloha o ke kanaka kūʻokoʻa he palenaʻole, akā, e noʻonoʻoʻoe, ināʻoi aku kou'ōpiopio ma mua o kona, inā paha he mea kūpono ia iā ia, eʻike i ka hopohopo e nalowaleʻo ia iāʻoe. Inā makemakeʻoe i kāu kanaka, e ho'āʻo e hana i nā mea a pau e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia.

ʻO kahi wahine'ōpio no ke kanaka makua, ke aloha, a me kahi kāleka leʻa. Ua likeʻo ia me ka pama i ka puʻuwai. No laila, e like me ka holo, e pale akuʻo ia iāʻoe mai nā manaʻo o nā kānaka'ē aʻe, a,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae aku e pili me nāʻelele'ē aʻe o ka wahine ikaika.

No kekahi mau kaikamāhine, he meaʻoluʻolu paha kēia manaʻo hilahilaʻole. Akā. Inā pili like kou ola ma kahi kāleka gula, a laila paha e koho pahaʻoe i kahi keiki. A laila, i ke olaʻana o kāu kanaka aloha, aia kekahi kanakaʻuʻuku e pono ke mālamaʻia. A, hiki iāʻoe ke hanu hou.

E like me kekahi kanaka'ē aʻe, hiki i kahi pilina me ke kanakaʻelemakule ke lawe i nā pilikia nui. Akā, inā alohaʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, a laila e lawa ai kou akamai a makemakeʻoe e hoʻokumu a mālama i kāu waiwai.

Eʻike i ke kanakaʻelemakule, ka naʻauao a me ke akamai. ʻO ka wahine no ke kanakaʻelemakule,ʻaʻole ia he mea makemake wale i ke kuko a me ke ala e hauʻoli ai. ʻAʻole makemake kahi kāne makua a me ke akamai no nā helehelena maikaʻi, nā wāwae lōʻihi,ʻaʻole no nā hana kupanaha āu e hana ai i loko o kahi moe. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu,ʻo ka mea mua,ʻo ke kaikamahine no ke kanaka makua, he kanaka, me konaʻano, kona manaʻo, a me konaʻuhane. Hiki iā ia keʻike i loko ou i nāʻano maikaʻi a pau a aloha iāʻoe. A no kāu mau hewa i pili i ka'ōpio,ʻo ia, e like me ka naʻauao a me ke akamai, e pani kona mau maka.

Hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku i ke aloha o ke kanaka makua ke kūlike me ka makua kāne o ke aloha.

E mālama a mālama i kāu wahine aloha -ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻike ai ke kanaka makua i kāna aloha i kāna mea aloha.

Ke hana neiʻo ia i ka wāʻelemakule, ua lilo nā kāne i mea koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka wahine. Akā, inā ua lakiʻoe, a ua hālāwaiʻoe me kahi kanaka'ōpiopio i huki iāʻoe - e hōʻoia i ka uku no kāu mau koi a pau, e hāʻawiʻo ia iāʻoe i ke ao holoʻokoʻa.

ʻO ka pilina a me ke aloha o ke kanakaʻelemakuleʻo ia ke kuleana. ʻO ka kuleana iāʻoe. No laila, inā loaʻa nā pilikia i loko o kou ola,ʻaʻole e hoʻolohe wale kahi kanaka makua a hoʻolohe iāʻoe a kākoʻo iāʻoe i ke ola, e hanaʻo ia i kāna mea e pono ai e hoʻoponopono i nā mea i kūʻole.

I ka hopena, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku i ka manawa maʻamau no ka mea. Hana i ka pilina me kahi hoa a iʻole ke kanaka makua - koho wale iāʻoe. Inā, i loko o kou pilina ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka hilinaʻi, a laila e hauʻoliʻoe i kekahi hihia, me kaʻole o nā makahiki o kou hoa.