He aha inā inā kūpono kaʻu kāne e hoʻolohe?

Ua hana nā mea a pau ma ke ala maikaʻi loa, ua hālāwaiʻoe i kāu kanaka i alohaʻia, ua pāʻani mahaloʻia lākou i kaʻaina mare, ua hānau keiki. A he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau. ʻAʻoleʻoe i hakakā, he uku maikaʻi kou,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻololi i kāu aloha, nā keiki e hauʻoli iāʻoe. Akā ua hoʻololi kekahi mea ma kānaʻano. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hana hewa iāʻoe, lawe mai i ka uku i ka hale, akā,ʻaʻole e haʻalele ka manaʻo o ka hoʻonāu iāʻoe. Eia nei. ʻO ka meaʻoi aku iʻoi aku no ka wahine, ka manaʻo o ka meaʻole, ka manaʻo o ke anu. Ma muli o ka loaʻaʻana o ka haʻalulu a me ka hoʻopunipuniʻana,ʻo ka wahine i ka noʻonoʻo e pupuhi wale i kona lolo, a paha paha i alohaʻia kekahi, hiki i kēia. ʻAʻole anei i loaʻa iā ia kekahi mea'ē aʻe? He aha kaʻu hana hewa?


Mālama mākou i nā pilikia

ʻOiaʻiʻo, e like me kekahiʻano'ē aʻe, mai makaʻu weliweli. Malia paha i loaʻa i ke kāne kouʻano a mau pilikia paha i ka hana. He aha kaʻoi o ko lākou hewa i ko mākou? I kēia hihia, pono e kamaʻilio, eʻike i ke kumu. Malia paha e pono kāu mau kāne aloha e kamaʻilio, e kamaʻilio pū meʻoe, aʻoʻoe ke kōkua nui a me ka uku. A iʻole paha,ʻaʻole paha kāu kāne i ka makemake e kaʻana like meʻoe. ʻAe,ʻo ia. Mai kānaluaʻoe. He huna ia. Hoʻohana ka nui o nā kāne i ka hoʻoponoponoʻana i nā pilikia ma o lākou iho, a ma keʻano likeʻole, mai ko mākou wāhine aku,ʻo kekahi manawa wale nō e hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo, i kaʻana likeʻana i ko lākou maʻi,ʻaʻole lākou eʻaeʻia.

Beauty i loko = nani o waho?

He mea'ē aʻe inā hana maikaʻi kāu kāne a hana, a me ke olakino, akāʻaʻoleʻoe i loaʻa ka nānā pono iā ia. Heʻelua manawa i ka makahiki, no ka lā hānau, a me ka lāʻewalu o Malaki, aʻaʻole kekahi i hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole hoʻokahi'āpana,ʻaʻohe'ōlelo oluʻolu, nānā mālie haʻahaʻa. A i laila eʻike anaʻo ia he mea paʻakikī iā'oxx, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei. He aha ka hopena o ka wahine e hana nei? Makemake wau e kamaʻilio, e'ōlelo. I ka manawa pinepine, e hana nā wāhine i ka polu a hiki iā lākou ke'ōlelo i kā lākou kāne, "E hoʻowalewale, no ke aha lāʻoe i haʻalele ai i ka hoʻonaniʻana iaʻu? A aloha maiʻoe iaʻu? A nani wau? ", A like. ʻO ka meaʻoi loa,ʻaʻole ia e alakaʻi i kekahi hopena maikaʻi. Hiki paha i kahi kanaka ke pane aku iāʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻo ia aloha iāʻoe aʻaʻoleʻoe heʻino. I kēia manawa, pono e "hoʻokomo" i ka mea i kapaʻia he akamai wahine paha, aiʻole i ke kuleana e'ōleloʻole ai, maʻalea. ʻO ka mua, e noho i mua o ke aniani a nānā i ka hoʻonani, e'ōlelo pono iāʻoe iho, keʻike neiʻoe i ka hōʻike a he loja, kēlā kaikamahine maikaʻi a me ke aloha a ke kāne i aloha nui ai i kēia manawa. ʻOiai ma ka home. ʻOiai ma hope o heʻumi makahiki o ka nohoʻana. ʻO ke kapaʻaʻahu nani a me ka lole nani houʻaʻole iʻeha i kekahi wahine. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu,ʻaʻole paha i ka mea iʻikeʻia ai, a me nā mea a lākou e'ōlelo ai,ʻoiai i ka wā o kēia ao,ʻaʻole he wahine e emi iho i ke kanaka,ʻaʻole e hoʻomau i kahi ikaika i nā kaikamāhine. Ma nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe, i loko o nā kāne,ʻaʻohe mea i pepehi i kēlā poʻe hahai holoholona a mākou i lohe ai. Hoʻopili iāʻoe iho a hoʻolilo i ke kanaka i meaʻoluʻolu! E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, eʻoluʻolu anaʻoe.

He nui nā wāhine i hikiʻole ke nānā iā lākou iho, no ka hoʻoikaikaʻana i nā keiki, ke ola,ʻaʻohe manawa. A inā pēlā, inā makemakeʻo ia, pono iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo a aloha i keʻano o ia, he ledeʻo ia, he mea lapuwale a he naʻaupō. No laila, eʻae mākou a pau i ka momona, e hele mākou i nā pale a hoʻokipa i kaʻaʻahu a puni ka hale a me ka haohao, a no ke aha e mahalo nui ai kēia kāne i nā mea momona i ka huluhulu e hōʻikeʻia ma TV?

ʻO kahi liʻiliʻi

Ma waho aʻe o ka nani a me ke kāhiko o waho, mai hoʻopoina a aʻo i keʻano. Ma muli o keʻano o ka nohoʻana o ka home, hoʻopoina pinepine kākou i ka hōʻikeʻike o keʻano o nā nalu a me ke aloha, akā ke noi nei mākou i nā kāne like. He poʻe keiki makua lākou, pehea lākou iʻikeʻole ai i ke kāne a me ka ikaika. Pono nā keiki a pau i ka wela a mālama. ʻAʻole ia he mea hoʻopūhoihoi inā kū ka wahine i ka hāʻawiʻana i kāna kāne,ʻoi aku kaʻino,ʻo ia mau keʻoki mau loa,ʻaʻole e makemake kāna kāne e hāʻawi i kekahi mea ma ka hoʻihoʻiʻana.

I ka manawa pinepine, ma hope o ka maleʻana i nā makahiki he nui, he manaʻo nui nō hoʻi kēlā mau wāhine. Holo i ka moe me nā wāhine. E lawe mai i kahiʻano liʻiliʻi i kou pilina ola. ʻAʻohe kanaka makemake i nā hoʻokolohuaʻana i ka wahine. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo he ponoʻoe e holo i loko o kahi kūʻai wahine a kūʻai aku ma laila i nā mea i hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo a me ka waiwai. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua maʻalahi nā mea a pau. Haʻalele i nā keiki no nā kūpuna, e hoʻomaha a hoʻolimalima wale. ʻO ka hoʻololiʻana i ka'ōloheloheʻaʻole wale ka mea e hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha ai, akā e nānā pū aku hoʻiʻoe i kou pilina me kahi nānā hou. E hoʻomanaʻo i mua, dozamuzhestva? Ua heleʻoe a puni no nā lā, e holo me kāu kāne e hiki mai ana no ka lā, e honi i ka pō a pau ma lalo o ka hōkū lani. No laila, he aha ka mea i hoʻololi? E haʻi mai iaʻu,ʻaʻole like nā makahiki, nā keiki, ka hana. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma nāʻano he nui mākou e hoʻokumu i nā pilikia a hana i ko mākou ola a me ke ola o kekahi i kekahi me ke ākea. ʻAʻole pono ka hanaʻana i ke kānāwai noʻoe, e like paha, i kēlā ahiahi kēia Sābati ahiahi a i kekahi lā'ē aʻe paha, e hele pū me kāu kāne aloha i ke kūlanakauhale o ke ahiahi, e hāʻule i loko o ka cafe aiʻole e lawe wale i ka hue waina ma ka home a leʻaleʻa kekahi i kekahi. E maʻalahi, e liʻiliʻi ka naʻau, e hauʻoli. A aloha iāʻoe iho. Manaʻo nā kāne. Ināʻike kekahi kanaka iā ia i kēlā lā i kēia lā,ʻaʻoleʻo ka wahine hōʻoluʻolu,ʻaʻohe wahine hōʻoluʻolu, akā, he wahine hoʻonani, maikaʻi, a aloha, e ukuʻiʻo nōʻo ia iāʻoe.

E nā wahine aloha! Ma mua o nā pilikia a pau e pili ana iā mākou, ka luhi, ola ola ... E hoʻomanaʻo mau mākou he wahine mākou.