Ma ka hihia, mai hōʻoleʻoe e hālāwai. No kahi kanaka'ōpio, he mea nui kēia. He mea nui ka pilina a me keʻano o kekahi me kekahi. E haʻi aku iā ia he mea nui loa kāna kākoʻo iāʻoe, ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i "nā makua" i kēlā me kēia lā. E waiho i ka hoʻopiʻi a me ka kūkāʻana no nā hemahema o kou helehelena a iʻole kiʻi no kekahi manawa'ē aʻe. ʻO ka hana ma ke ala e hele ai i kahi hālāwai me kona makuahine he manaʻo maikaʻi.
E hoʻomākaukau iāʻoe iho.
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E koho i kahiʻaʻahu kūpilikiʻi, akā, i kaʻaʻahu paha. ʻO ka mea nui no kouʻoluʻolu i loko, a ua hopohopoʻoe. Mai komo i ka nui o nā mea nani a me nā mea waiwai - maikaʻiʻole ka leo.
E noi mua i kāu'ōpio i ka mea hikiʻole iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio i kona makuahine a makua paha. I ka hālāwai, e hana maʻamau. Mai'ōlelo nui, maiʻoluʻolu e like me ia, a mai kūkuluʻoe iāʻoe iho i "nun." E kamaʻilio i ke ala e kamaʻilio aiʻoe me kou mau mākua, kou kaikuaʻana. Mai hoʻohana i ka "'ōpio" a me nā hua'ōlelo a pau e kamaʻilio ai ma Odnoklassniki a iʻole VKontakte.
Inā heleʻoe eʻike i ke kanaka, mai pīpī iā ia me ka honiʻana i ka hālāwai. ʻO ka paʻiʻana i ka papalina ka lawa. I ia manawa,ʻo kona mau makuahine kūlana koʻikoʻi?
Hui.
Malia paha he kūlana maikaʻi loa loa no ka hālāwai mua me ka makuahine o kahi'ōpio ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka'ōpiopio o kāu keiki. ʻO nā makuahine a pau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka wā kamaliʻi o nā keiki kāne a me nā kaikamāhine. Hōʻike i nā memo a me nā wikiō. Hiki iāʻoe ke haʻi iki i kāu mau kamaliʻi a me nā moʻolelo'akaʻolu i hiki iāʻoe. E haʻi mai iā mākou e pili ana i kāu hoʻokipa a hana paha.
ʻO nā mama a pau o Mom. Ma muli o ke aloha nui o kāna keiki a me ka maopopo loaʻaʻoleʻaʻohe kaikamahine i ke ao e noho me kāna keiki, he nui ka poʻe i hoʻonohonoho i kahi nīnau maoli.
Inā hoʻololi kāu huliʻana iāʻoe, e ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i ke kumuhana. I kekahi hihia, mai hōʻinoʻoe, mai hoʻopunipuni. ʻO kēia, he mea liʻiliʻi loa ia. I ka hihiaʻoi loa,ʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake i ka makuahine o kou makuahine.
E mālama pono i nā mākua a iʻole ka makuahine o kahi'ōpiopio e pili ana i ka hopena a me ka maikaʻi i loko o ko lāua hale. E ho'āʻo e nīnau i kahi e mālama ai i nā mea kanu aiʻole e kuke i kēlāʻano paʻakikī maikaʻi. Inā loaʻa nā holoholona, hiki iāʻoe ke nīnau i kānaʻohana, mau hana. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo, e ho'āʻo i ka unuhiʻana i ke kūkākūkāʻana i kahi hiʻona hoihoi no ka makuahine o ke kanaka. No laila, hōʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho he kaikamahineʻono a maikaʻi.
Kūlana kūʻokoʻa.
ʻO ka hālāwai mua loa me kaʻohana o ke kanaka'ōpio i waihoʻia. Loaʻa iāʻoe kahi ahiahi maikaʻi, e kamaʻilio ana i nāʻano kumuhana, ke manaʻo neiʻoe ua hoʻoikaika maikaʻiʻoe? I kēia manawa, pono e noʻonoʻo i kāu mau hoʻolālā no kāu pokii. Ināʻike ponoʻoe iāʻoe no kekahi manawa lōʻihi, aʻoi aku paha, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka maleʻana, a laila, pono e hoʻomau i ka mālamaʻana i kahi pilina me kona makuahine.
Hōʻike iā ia he wahine maikaʻiʻoe a hiki iāʻoe ke mālama i kāna keiki. E hāʻawi iā ia i ka pōpō palaoa i hanaʻia me kou mau lima. A iʻole he kākahu i ulanaʻia. Inā heleʻoe i kā lākou hui, hāʻawi i kāu kōkua i ka hanaʻaina ahiahi a holoi paha i nā pā.
ʻO ka politikala ka mea nui o nā mō'ī, a nou pū nō hoʻi. E'ōlelo mau "mahalo", "ahiahi maikaʻi", "e hele". Ināʻoe e nīnau i kou manaʻo e pili ana i ka hale, e pili ana i ke kīhāpai, nā kukama kūkā, a me nā lima o ka makuahine, e mahaloʻia nā mea a pau. Akā,ʻo ka manawa a pau "podlizyvatsya"ʻaʻole ia e waiwai. Ināʻoe he manaʻo kū'ē loa, e haʻi aku, ma ka haʻahaʻa wale nō. Eʻike i ka makuahine o ka wā e hiki ai iāʻoe ke nānā pono i nā mea.
No kāu keiki'ōpio e'ōlelo wale ana. ʻAʻole kāu mau kū'ē i loko o ka naʻau no ka pepeiao o kona makuahine, makuakāne, kaikuaʻana, kaikuahine. Mai hōʻike i ka "host" i ke kanaka. Pono nā kānaka a pau me ka hoʻomaopopo loa i kou pilina.
Ma waho o ka hopena o ka hālāwai me ka makuahine o ke kāne, eʻikeʻoe e hālāwai anaʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe a me kona mau mākua. ʻO ia ka mea i koho iāʻoe, a mahaloʻia kona mau makemake e kona mau mākua.