No kekahi,ʻo ka pīlapa he lālā o kaʻohana, no ka mea, he mea hanohano ka mea, a no kekahi mea e pani i ke keiki a iʻole ka pākuʻi. He mea kaumaha ia i ka liloʻana o kekahi mea ola i mea ma waena o kekahi mea o ka hale a me kahi mea hana ola. A pinepine mākou i kā mākou mau puaʻa i IT, me kaʻikeʻole. Pehea e hiki ai i kekahi ke hōʻike i ka lokomaikaʻi i nā mea puaʻa a me ka hōʻinoʻole iā lākou? ..
No nā kānaka he nui, pono ka mālamaʻana i nā meaʻai. ʻOiai ma koʻu wā liʻiliʻi. "I koʻu wā liʻiliʻi,ʻaʻole wau i moe iki i kahi'īlio - no laila makemake wau," a kākauʻo Andrei Makarevich. ʻO ke kumu nui o kēia makemake,ʻo ia paha, he mea pono ke aloha a alohaʻia kākou, a hiki i kā mākou mau puaʻa ke mālama i kēia mau pono. ʻOiai,ʻo ka pets ke hana i ka hoa, i kaʻohana o kaʻohana, i ka hoaaloha, i ke keiki. Akā, i kēia lā, he mea pōmaikaʻi, ua hoʻokomoʻia lākou he mea kūpono, kūpono kiʻi, he hapa o loko. ʻAʻole iʻikeʻia nā'īlio a me nā'īlio e kēia poʻe ma keʻano he mea ola.
Nā Diamonds no Ioka
ʻO ka mea maʻamau, i kahi holoholona liʻiliʻi e noho kokoke ana i kekahi, ua maʻa a maʻa ke kanaka. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hana a nā kānaka i koiʻia e pāʻani i nā holoholona,ʻaʻole lākou e kūpono i nā manawa.
I kēia manawa, he laʻana, nā'īlio miniature nani. Hanaʻia lākou e like me nā pēpē ola: ua kāʻeiʻia,ʻaʻahu i nā lole likeʻole, e halihali mau i ia mau mea me lākou. ʻAʻole ia he mea kūpono loa i ka liloʻana o nā Ioka i mea kaulana loa - nā mea liʻiliʻi, me ka mālie, kahi kokoke i ka lauoho kanaka. ʻIke paha au: ua koho ke kaikamahine ma ka hale kūʻai puaʻa i kona kāʻei no kāna kaikamahine Yorkshire, kona mau lole lole home, kona mau kāmaʻa no ka heleʻana a me nā papohaku no kona hale kūʻai, a ma hope iho kūʻai aku i kahi lei leʻaleʻa a me nā huluhulu me nā momona.
ʻO nā kānaka, no lākou nā meaʻai e noho nei i nā mea pāʻani a iʻole ke kuleana o ka hanohano, e like me ka hoʻokomoʻana i nā hakakā kūikawā, kahi e hoʻokolokoloʻoleʻia ai nā holoholona a me kā lākou mau hana, akā pehea lākou a me nā mea eʻaʻahu nei, he aha ka mea e hoʻonaniʻia ai ko lākou manamana lima. ʻO ka nui o ka "tsatsek" loaʻa kahi puaʻa,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ke kūlana o ka mea nona ka waiwai i nā maka o haʻi. Aʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i keʻano maikaʻi o nā pipi maʻaneʻi, e like me kāuʻike.
He aha ka meaʻino no ka holoholona? ʻO nā kānalua Yorkies e hoʻomanawanui ana i nā ukana a kānaka eʻoluʻolu ai i ka hale noho. Akā,ʻoluʻoluʻole ka loaʻaʻana o ka leʻaleʻa mai kēiaʻano. He'īlio ka'īlio, a he kapaʻaʻahu no ka mea he mea kaua ia e hoʻokuʻu ai i ke kuokoa.
Hiki ke'ōleloʻia e like me nā hōʻike. No ka haku o ka'īlio, he kumu ia e hele ai i loko o ka mālamalama, a no ka nui o nā holoholona - he hopena maikaʻi loa, a uaʻeha lākou no ka mea lapuwale o ko lākou mau haku. ʻO kēia ma kēiaʻano pili i nā pōpoki i makemakeʻole i ka wā he nui nā kānaka a puni, aʻaʻole lākou eʻae i nā alahaka.
He aha ka meaʻino noʻoe? No ka'īlio he hoaaloha maikaʻi a me ke hoa, ponoʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kēia, e hoʻonui i konaʻike. Ināʻoe e hoʻololi i kahi kīʻahi pua, ke kaula kuʻi a me ka brjuliki, e kau mau ana i lalo o kou lima, e hoʻohaʻahaʻa a lilo i naʻaupō.
Me nā palenaʻole
ʻO ka hapanui o kā mākou mau puaʻa e pāʻani i ke keiki i loko o kaʻohana. Hiki lākou, hoʻoulu, a honi i ka ihu. Hāʻawiʻia lākou e hiamoe ma luna o kahi moe moe. Ua mālamaʻia lākou me ka lokomaikaʻiʻole,ʻo ko lākou huhū nui loa. Eia kekahi laʻana, kokoke i nā keiki kanaka a pau, me nā kumu'ē aʻe, e hele i loko o ka wā o kaʻaihue. No nā mākua i kēia manawa -ʻo nāʻike kūpaʻa, akā, a me nā mea hoʻonaʻauao hoʻi,ʻaʻole i nāwaliwali. I ka wa iʻaihueʻia ai ka pipiʻehāʻehā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻopaʻi nui loa, i kekahi manawa i mea hoʻoheneheneʻia.
He aha ka meaʻino no ka holoholona? Hoʻoweliweliʻia nā puaʻa, nā poʻe nona nā mea nona ka hana e hana i nā mea a pau i makemakeʻia e ko lākou kī pololei,ʻaʻole loa e like me kā lākou manaʻo. Pono i ka pipi a'īlio paha eʻike maopopo i ke kumumanaʻo hana: hiki i ka mea hikiʻole ke hana. A inā eʻakaʻakaʻoe i kēia manawa i ka piʻiʻana o ka holoholona i ka pāʻani me kou pā, aʻapōpō e paʻi iā ia (me kahi nūpepa ma ka ihu), e hōʻole e hoʻomaopopoʻole i kekahi mea. A ma kahi o ka pīpīʻoluʻoluʻoluʻolu, loaʻa iāʻoe kahi neurasthenic, i ka hopena ma kahi liʻiliʻi a iʻole ka uhaki ma nā wahi a me nā wahi a pau. Eia hou, ua hoʻoulu nuiʻia nā meaʻai i hoʻopiliʻia, a loaʻa iā lākou nā pilikia olakino e pili ana i ka momona.
He aha ka meaʻino noʻoe? Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻolālā koke i nā palena o ka hana no kāu pipi,ʻaʻoleʻoe e halihali wale i ka pono wale nō, akā, i nā mea waiwai hoʻi. Ke kiʻi i ka pepa kiʻiʻoniʻoni, nā hale pāʻani, nā wāwae o nā papa a me nā noho noho.ʻO kēia ka mea liʻiliʻi loa i hanaʻia e ka pipiʻai'āhā. ʻO ka hōʻehaʻole, kalahala, hōʻeha kolohe ka holoholona. Mai hōʻoluʻolu iā ia, mai kala aku i nā hapa liʻiliʻi, iʻole e noho kāu pipi ma luna o kou poʻo (ʻo ia paha ma keʻano maoli).
He hoaaloha o kekahi kanaka?
Me he mea lāʻo kaʻoihana kūpono loa no kahi puaʻa,ʻo ia ka hoaaloha, he lālā o kaʻohana. Malia paha e kahaha paha kāu, akā, ua hewa hoʻi. ʻO ka hoaaloha a me kekahi lālā o kaʻohana eʻoliʻoli i nā pono like. ʻAʻole hiki ke kūkuluʻia nā pilina o iaʻano pilina. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻokomo iā lākou, e hoʻokuleana iā lākou. He mea pili i nā'īlio. ʻIke lākou i kaʻohana ma keʻano heʻohana, kahi i hoʻonohonohoʻia ai: ke poʻo, ka lua o ka wā kahiko, nā mea kōkua (he mau keiki paha). ʻO ka wahi o nā holoholona i loko o iaʻano,ʻo ia ka hope. Pono lākou e hoʻolohe i ka poʻe o ka pila - a me nā mea'ē aʻe a pauʻole, a hahai i nā rula o ka hana: mai hōʻoki i kekahi, mai hao i ka hale, mai uhaki i kekahi mea a mai hoʻopuehu. ʻO kēia, heʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea maikaʻi, akā, he mea kūpono iā ia ke ho'āʻo. Inā 'hopu ka'īlio i ka mana' i loko o ka hale, e hoʻonāhua ia i nā pilikia he nui. I loko o 99% o nā hihia o nā hakakā koʻikoʻi me nā holoholona - me nā pōʻino a me nāʻai -ʻo nā mea nāna i hānai iā lākou, ua pale i ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe, ua hewa. ʻO kaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa o ke kūlana o kēlā mauʻohana i kahi e ulu ai ka hihia ma waena o nā kānaka; haʻalulu nā holoholona a lawe pinepine i kekahi o nāʻaoʻao, e hōʻino ana i kekahi me ka hōʻoluʻoluʻole - hoʻokuʻu i kahi mea e hoʻokuʻu ai iā ia i kahi moe.
He aha ka meaʻino no ka holoholona? Pono ka alakaʻi e koi i ka hana nui, a he paʻakikī hoʻi i nā'īlio i kaʻike no ka hakakāʻana me nā kānaka. No laila,ʻo kēlā mau holoholona i lanakila i kaʻoihana koʻikoʻi i loko o kaʻohana, aia nā maʻi neuros a me nā mea'eleʻa.
He aha ka meaʻino noʻoe? ʻO ka mea nui e koiʻia no ka puaʻa he meaʻoluʻolu ia. A he aha ka hōʻoluʻolu āu e'ōlelo ai inā hopohopoʻoe a me kou poʻe aloha iā ia? ʻO ka mea wale nō i ka wā eʻike ai kā mākou mau puaʻa i kahi e noho ai lākou, e like pū ana kaʻoliʻoli o ka kamaʻilioʻana.
ʻO ka pipi, he pume ...
No kēlā me kēia kumu e hoʻomaka aiʻoe i kahi puaʻa, e ho'āʻo e mālama iā ia e like me ka holoholona. Hoʻopōmaikaʻi nā'īlio a me nā'īlio i ko kākou ola, lawe mai i nā'ōmaʻomaʻo, nā manaʻo maikaʻi. Akā, hāʻawi iā lākou i kou naʻau, maiʻae i nā holoholona e lawe i kēlā kihi o kaʻuhane e pono e pili i kaʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. A laila e maikaʻi ia noʻoe a me kāu mau puaʻa kūleʻa.