Akā he mea weliweli, akā,ʻaʻole e hana, pono paha kekahi mea iaʻu. E lilo wau i makua maikaʻi. Akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke ho'āʻoʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe.
ʻO ka kānalua mua, he mea weliweli, akā, pono e hele i kahi kūkākūkā wahine. Ma ka hoʻokipaʻana me kahi kālai'ōlelo,'ōlelo lākou me kaʻakaʻaka, "Ua hāpaiʻoe," a maopopo iāʻoe ke kali neiʻoe i kēia no ka wā lōʻihi loa. Ua makaʻu wau, akā, kali wau a manaolana. Ke home ma nā'ēheu o ka hauʻoli, i mea e hoʻolaha koke aku ai i nā lono maikaʻi. A i ke ahiahi e'ākoakoa ana, e kamaʻilio anaʻo wai ke kaikamahine, a he keikikāne paha, e like me ka mea e aloha nui i ke pēpē.
Akā, pehea ka hauʻoli, ka nui a me ke kuleana o kēia hopena. Nui ka hana i loko o mau malama eiwa. No laila, ponoʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i kēia manawa. He koho maikaʻi loa no ka hoʻomākaukauʻana i ke kino a me ka morale, e kākau inoa ma kahi kula o nā makuwahine. Hiki i nā kānaka lapaʻau kūikawā ke kōkua iāʻoe e mālama i ka paʻakikī, akā nā hana e pono ai, no ka mālamaʻana i ke kino, e hiki ai i nā mālō ke mālama i kahi leo e hoʻololi i ka holoʻana o ka hāpai a me ka hānauʻana. Nā kōkuaʻoihana no ka mālamaʻana i kāu keiki e hōʻole i nā pilikia o ka wā e hiki mai ana. Eia hou, e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa e launa pū ai me nā mākua, ka mea e hiki ke lilo i mau hoaaloha a me kahi hui no ka heleʻana me ke pēpē. He mea nui loa i ka manawa o ka haʻaleleʻana i ka makuahine,ʻaʻole i manaʻo ka wahine i kahi kaʻawale mai ke kaiāulu. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma mua o ka hikiʻana mai o ke keiki,ʻoiaʻiʻo, he waiwai waiwai, nā lāleʻa i loko o nā hui, nā huakaʻi i keʻano. A hiki i nā mea'ē aʻe ke hele pū me nā keiki i kahi kamaliʻi maikaʻi, kahi e kūlike ai nā pono.
I mea e maopopo ai aʻae i kou kūlana i ka wā e hiki ai, e kamaʻilio me kāu pēpē. Maiʻike i kaʻike, akā,ʻikeʻoe aia ke keiki i loko oʻoe, ola,ʻo ia hoʻi, no ka mea e pono ai ka mea e ola ana e kamaʻilio. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻoʻaʻoleʻo ia i maopopo i kekahi mea,ʻaʻole ia he mea. Ke lohe nei ke keiki i kou leo, keʻoluʻolu i ke kani. Aʻo ia wale nō ka mea ma hope o ka hānauʻana. ʻO kekahi koho maikaʻi'ē aʻe e hoʻolohe ana i nā mele. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e koho iki,ʻaʻole nui nā mele. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa he'ōnoʻona. Hoʻokumuʻia kēia mele i nā manaʻo, a me nāʻano mea kani e hana i ka hana ma nā ala likeʻole, a he meaʻoluʻolu ia i nā keiki a me kaʻoluʻolu.
ʻO ke kūlana o ka wahine i ka wā o ke kōkomo he mea weliweli. No ka mea he puʻupuʻu hormonal ka kino. I kēia manawa, i hōʻoiaʻia e ka poʻeʻepekema,ʻo ka nui a me ka hana o nā hormoni i loko o ka'ōpū wahine e like me ka nuiʻole o nā kānaka e hoʻokaʻawale ai no nā makahiki he haneli. No laila, ka pinepine o ka loli o ka naʻau, ka waimaka. A no laila, he mea koʻikoʻi ke kākoʻo i ka poʻe kokoke, i ka manaʻo e pono maoli ana iāʻoe. ʻO ke kāne eʻae i nā kuko a pau a hoʻokō i nā makemake a pau he mea kūpono hoʻi ia e kākoʻo.
ʻO ka hopohopo iʻikeʻia e nā wāhine ma mua o ka hānauʻana, he meaʻole ia ma mua o ka makaʻu i kaʻeha. Akā, e like me ka'ōlelo o ka naʻauao kaulana, pono mākou e hele wale i kēlā mau ho'āʻo e hiki iā mākou ke lanakila. No laila ua maikaʻi kēia pilikia. He aha ka mea e hiki ke hoʻohālikelikeʻia me ka hānauʻana i kahi ola hou. No ka hāʻawiʻana i ke ao nei i ola hou, akā iāʻoe iho he kanaka maoli e noho mau ana i laila aʻaʻole loa e aloha. Mai ka leʻaleʻa o ia mea, e hele aku nā pilikia a pau,ʻo ka hua'ōlelo mua loaʻo "mom", e kani like me ke mele, a hoʻomaha i kaʻuhane. A laila maopopo waleʻoe he hōʻailona kēia i hāʻawiʻia e ke Akua. A hoʻomaikaʻi aku i ka Mea Mana loa no kēlā makana nui loa.