Hoʻokō pinepine nā kānaka iā mākou me nā inoa inoa "cat": pussycat, pokii, kisyunya, kisulya a me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO keʻano o kāu mea aloha aloha loa a maʻalahi. Me ka mea e like me kēia kanaka,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hōʻehaʻeha. Ua mākaukauʻo ia eʻai pū meʻoe ma ka'āina'ē, e hoʻonohonoho i kahi hui aloha ma luna o ka hale, e kākau i nā'ōlelo aloha ma kaʻaila me ka hāʻawiʻana i kahi haleʻaina, e kū ana ma ka piko hoʻokahi. ʻO kēiaʻano "kānaka" i ko mākou manawa,ʻaʻole pinepine pinepine ia. Ma nā lima akamai o ka wahine, he akua akua wale nō!
Ināʻoe e kāhea iāʻoe he "aloha" wale nō -ʻo ia hoʻi, uaʻoi akuʻo ia i ka hana. No laila, ma kā lāua hoa hana eʻimi nei lākou i kahi kapa "kūpono kūpono". ʻO ka mea āu e luhi ai i ka hanaʻana i ke ahiahi, e kamaʻilio wale a hele e moe. E mālamaʻia kēia mau kānaka me ka nānā nui a mālama nui. E hoʻopuni iā lākou i ke aloha a me ke aloha, a lailaʻo ia hoa hana e lilo i mea hilinaʻi ponoʻia i ka olaʻohana.
Inā hoʻohanaʻiaʻoe e hoʻolohe i kaʻu "iʻa" ma kāu wahi helu, ponoʻoe e makaala me kēia hoa. ʻO nā kāne o kēiaʻano ke makemakeʻole nei lākou e lōʻihi i ka lōʻihi, a me kekahi mau mea e pili mai ana, no ka mālamaʻana iā ia i kahi huakaʻi pōkole,ʻaʻole ia he hana no nā wāhine palupalu. Inā makemakeʻoe e "hōʻano" a mālama i keʻano o kēlā kanaka, a laila e ponoʻoe e hana i mea maʻamau iā ia a no ke aloha o kona naʻau - e hāʻawi iā ia me ka maluhia a me ka maluhia.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai aku i nā kāne e kāhea aku i kā lākou poʻe i alohaʻia "gilded," "koʻu gula," a me nā mea a pau i pili i ke gula. Wahi a nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao e like ka waiwai a me ka waiwai i kēlā mau hoa. ʻOiai, manaʻoʻia he mea kū'ē i kēiaʻano epithets i ka waiwai o ka hoa. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, hiki ke loheʻia kēia mau'ōlelo mai nā kāne e makemake nei e loaʻa ke kālā a hoʻoponopono i kā lākou mauʻoihana me kāu kōkua.
ʻO ka inoa i kapaʻiaʻo "ka lā", "ka lā" e kau ai ma luna o ka hopohopo kū'ē. Ke manaʻo nei kāu kanaka iāʻoe i kāna "kāki hele",ʻo ia hoʻi, ponoʻoe e hoʻomālamalama i nā wahi a me nā wahi a pau. ʻO ia hoʻi, he wahine e pili ana i kahi kanaka ikaika e hoʻomālamalama mau i keʻano o ka naʻau a lilo i luna, iʻole e hāʻule i nā maka o nā mea'ē aʻe aʻaʻole e hāʻule i kona mau maka. Inā maikaʻi ka wahine,ʻaʻole pono ia e hana i kahi mea kūpono no kēia - maikaʻi maikaʻi. Ināʻaʻole, a laila, e ho'āʻo nuiʻoe e lilo i mea kūpono no nā kāne a me ke kūlana.
Inā kapa ke kanaka iāʻoe he "bun," "hostess," aiʻole inoa inoa like paha,ʻo ia hoʻi kona makemake eʻike iāʻoe - "home." Ponoʻoe e lilo i wahine hoʻopuka maikaʻi nona. ʻO keʻano o kēia mau kānaka keʻano maikaʻi loa i keʻano o ka nohoʻana o ke ola i mea e maʻa mau ai ka hale a hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻia, a he mea pono no kaʻaina awakea a me kaʻaina ahiahi no kona hikiʻana mai ... A no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e'ōlelo i kēia. ʻaʻole ia e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā keiki, ua paʻa muaʻo ia i nā mea a pau. No kēlā hoa pilikino, ponoʻoe e mākaukau e hoʻopau i nā papa i mea e kahaha ai iā ia me kāu mau hana. E mālama i kaʻoihana o ka wahine, ka hale hale, wahine wahine, a me nā meaʻokoʻa "home"'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole aneiʻoe e mākaukau no kēia? Inā pēlā, e holomuaʻoe. ʻO kouʻohana ka ikaika loa a me ka hilinaʻi loa, akā,ʻo ke ola ka mea maʻamau. No ka meaʻo ka "mau wāhine" e noho ma ka home, e nānā i nā keiki, e kuke, aʻaʻole e lawe i kekahi mea'ē aʻe no lākou. Eia nō hoʻi, pono e hoʻopoina iāʻoe no nā hālāwai pinepine a me kāu mau kaikamāhine, no ka mea,ʻo kēia mau mea e hōʻehaʻeha ai i kou ola.
Pehea e maopopo ai i ke kanaka nānaʻoe i kapa "pepe" a "keiki" ? ʻO nā hoa likeʻole e like me keʻanoʻole, e hoʻolālā no nā lā e hiki mai ana a me ka lōʻihi e ulu ana i mea hou,ʻaʻole hiki ke'ōleloʻia. Akā,ʻo ia ke kanaka punahele maikaʻi. Me ia eʻike aiʻoe, e ka mō'ī. Hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi e noho manawa wale. Ma mua o kēlā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kali. ʻO kēia koho he mea kūpono ia no nā hālāwai kūponoʻole, huiʻole. Inā hoʻohele likeʻoe i nā kulekele likeʻole me kāu hoa pili, ua kūpono kēia mau pilina iāʻoe. Akā, eʻae likeʻoe, ma hope a ma hope paha e makemakeʻoe i kahi mea koʻikoʻi a lōʻihi.
Ināʻoe e kāhea aku iāʻoe he "ʻono," a laila ua loaʻa iāʻoe kahi koho maikaʻi no ka nohoʻana. Inā wale nōʻaʻole he mea hakakā ke kanaka aʻaʻole maʻamau. ʻOiai me kēia kanaka e paʻakikī loa ka hakakā no kekahi mea, no ka mea, e ho'āʻo mauʻo ia e pale i ka hakakā ma nāʻano a pau. ʻO keʻano o iaʻano, he noho mālie loa a hoʻomaha kēia hoa hana. Mai hanaʻoe iā ia i nā mea hōʻino, hōʻehaʻole, a kūkāʻole aku i nā mea'ē aʻe ma hope ou, a laila e alohaʻiaʻoe, e hauʻoli me ke ola i ka pōmaikaʻi, e laweʻo ia iāʻoe ma kona mau lima.