Ka hoʻomohalaʻana i ka pilina o ka wahine i loko o kaʻohana

Aʻo wai lāʻoe i hana i ka wahine? ʻO ka hapanui,ʻo ka huiʻana o ia mau loina e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka makuahine, ka wahine, ke kaikuahine, ke kahu wahine, ka mea hana maikaʻi, ka lunamaka o ka hapalua nani o ke kanaka a pēlā aku. Akā,ʻuʻuku nā kānaka i ka manawa mua eʻike i ka wahine he kanaka.

A he mea kaumaha kēia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i waena o nā kālena, nui a kaulana hoʻi,ʻaʻole he mau wāhine, a heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka honua i nā manawa aʻoi aku ka nui o nā kānaka. He nani a he nani mākou i nā manawa, hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā kānaka e nānā i ka manaʻo,ʻike mākou i ka wā e lanakila ai a me ka weliweli. No laila, no ka meaʻaʻole i mahalo nuiʻia ko kākou pono pilikino, e lawe mua ana i nā mea nui.

Hoʻohana nui i ka uluʻana o ke kūlana o ka wahine i loko o kaʻohana. Ke koiʻia kona mau pono a pau e hele ma hope, no ka pono a me nā pono o kāna kāne a me kāna mau keiki. No laila,ʻo nā mea a pau a ka wahine i hoʻomalu ai i loko ona iho a hiki i ka manawa o ka male,ʻaʻole i ulu nuiʻia i ka manawa o ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana.

A i konaʻano, he aha kā mākou e hana hewa nei, e hoʻomaka ana mākou e mālie a me ka wiwoʻole e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā mea hoʻokahi?

He aha ka mea e hoʻohaʻahaʻa ai i ko mākou ulu ponoʻana, e hoʻokuʻu iā mākou iho, ua nele i ka pono i ka honua, ka poʻe, ka palena a me ka manaʻoʻole?

Loaʻa mākou i nā pane i kēia mau nīnau. A pēlā, ke hoʻolohe a hoʻomanaʻo mākou.

Aloha mākou.

ʻO ka hana mua i ka hōʻinoʻia e like me keʻano o ka wahine i loko o kaʻohana,ʻo ia kona makemake e kamaʻilio wale e pili wale ana iā ia iho. ʻO ka manawa maʻamau o nā kūkākūkā me nā poʻe e pili ana, me nā mea'ēʻole, e hoʻolapalapa i lalo i ka pāpale "akā wau", "akā uaʻikeʻoe mai iaʻu", "ʻoʻoe,ʻo wau", a me nā mea he nui'ē aʻe like "I", a me nā wahi a pau o nā mea a pau o ke ola . ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hiki i kēia me kaʻike o ka poʻe a puni iāʻoe i ka wā lōʻihi, aʻaʻole nui nā hanana hou e like me ka nui o nāʻike i hāʻawiʻia e pili ana i ka manawa o kou ola. ʻO ka makemakeʻole e hoʻolohe i nā mea āu i hōʻike ai e hoʻi koke mai iāʻoe. ʻO ke kanaka ma keʻano maoli, a he makemake loa i ka hoihoi i kona kino,ʻAʻole makemake nā kānaka e hoʻolohe iāʻoe inā e hoʻoikaika mau anaʻoe iāʻoe wale nō,ʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo iki iā lākou e like me kouʻano. ʻO ka hopena, he nele ia o kaʻimi kūkā.

ʻO ka mea i loaʻa i ka wahine heʻohana, i ka mea he wahine wahine ia, loaʻa i kahi hoaaloha hou, he TV, he mea nui loa. ʻO ka papahana Monotonous,ʻaʻole hōʻike naʻaupō, nāʻano likeʻole, a me nā moʻolelo e pili ana i ke ola o nā'ōnaehanaʻoihana home a me nāʻoihana'ē aʻe - e hoʻopau i nā meaʻoluʻolu o ke ola maoli, heluhelu i nā puke, nā hanana. I kēia mua aku hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio wale aku ma nā kumuhana e pili kokoke ana iāʻoe - ka papahana o nā leka uila, nā'ōlelo hōkū, aʻoiai, ma hope, e hoʻomaopopoʻo Jose eʻo Maria,ʻaʻole iaʻo ke kaikamahine a Roberto, akā,ʻo ia wale nō ka hoahānau o kona makua kāne i hele mai iʻaneʻi i hoʻokahi makahiki i hala mai ka hopohopo, eʻimi wale aku i kou hauʻoli.

ʻO kā mākou mau hana.

Pēlā nō,ʻo ka hoʻonuiʻana i keʻano o nā wāhine i loko o kaʻohana, e hoʻonaʻauaoʻia i kāna hana i kēlā me kēia lā. No kekahi mau wāhine, ua penaʻia ka lā i kēlā me kēia minuke, a he mau like ka papahana, me ka hoʻololiʻana i ka lā a haʻalele. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia he mele wale nō o ka wahine, akā, ma nā hihia he nui i hoʻoholoʻia e kona mau kuleana i kaʻohana, nā poʻokela, nā pilina a me nā mea'ē aʻe. A i ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua māʻona nā wāhine he nui i kēia kaulike, aʻaʻole lākou e ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i kekahi mea, e hōʻoia paha i kahiʻano kūponoʻole, hiki paha iā lākou ke lilo i makua makua a mea hana paha, akā,ʻaʻole he kanaka hoihoi a paʻa loa. I kekahi manawa i loko o iaʻano hana hewa, pono ka hihia kālā. Hiki ke paʻakikī, a laila, hoʻopakele kekahi wahine iā ia iho no kaʻohana, a iʻole heʻokoʻa paha,ʻo ka hoʻopakele wale nō i kahi manawa kūikawā. A ma muli o ia hihia no ka loaʻa o ka hana mau loa, hiki ke kālā i ka mea e pono ai,ʻaʻoleʻo kāu makemake. No laila, i ka manawa e mahalo ai nā hoaaloha e pili ana i nā huakaʻi hele i ka huakaʻi,ʻo kāʻoukou huakaʻi lōʻihi loa no ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa, i ka'āina ma hope o kaʻuala, a iʻole iho.

Akā, i ka wā hea i hope aiʻoe eʻike i kēlā mau hoa aloha? ʻAʻoleʻoe i kēlā manawa, a laila makemakeʻoe, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe i konoʻia e kou mau hoaaloha, me ka maopopo e loaʻa hou iāʻoe kahi hele mua e hikiʻole mai ana. A ma hope iho, makemakeʻoe e kāhea iāʻoe iho heʻanoʻono a hoʻomohala.

No laila, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hele i kahi,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike hou, pili pili iāʻoe. ʻAe, a uaʻoluʻoluʻoe i kahi pōʻai liʻiliʻi o kou mau hoaaloha, ka mea, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i poina,ʻaʻole e hea hou iāʻoe.

ʻO ko mākou manaʻo.

ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo kā mākou mau hana ke koho nui i ko mākou mau manaʻo. Pehea mākou e manaʻo nei e hoʻohuliʻia e kā mākou mau maʻamau, nā māʻulaʻo, nā moʻolelo moʻolelo. A ināʻaʻole mākou e hoʻoholo e hoʻololi iā lākou, no lailaʻaʻole i hoʻokomoʻia ka pilina o ko mākou ola. No ke aha, he mea hou, inā heʻelemakule iʻikeʻia. Mai hoʻokuʻu i ka honua i waho iāʻoe. E hāʻawi i nā mea a pau i kaʻawaleʻoleʻia o kāu ao, āu i hana ai.

Ma ke ala, i ka manawa hea ka manawa hope i nānā aiʻoe i kouʻike? Malia paha,ʻaʻole i ulu wale kou alanui i ka hale nani me ka mauʻu, akā, me nā lāʻau. Akā,ʻo ka pilikino o ka helehelena no ke kanakaʻaʻole he mea aʻo ka honua i loko o ka mea nui nuiʻaʻole ponoʻole, a uaʻikeʻoe iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi. Hōʻike ka pilina o ke kanaka iā ia iho ma muli o kona hiki wale ke kamaʻilio,ʻike a me kaʻike, akā, i kaʻike o waho o kona pono'ī. Ua maopopo he meaʻaʻohe kapa o ka hale i kekahi mea hana kūʻai kumukūʻai, a me ka lauoho maikaʻi, akāʻo ko mākou hiʻohiʻona no mākou iho,ʻo ka hiki ke hōʻike i ke kōkua i ke kāʻei o ko mākouʻano.

No laila, e nā kaikamāhine, e huki i nā hopena no kou iho. ʻAʻoleʻo ka maleʻana ka hopena o kēia ao, aʻaʻole he kumu e poina ai iāʻoe iho. E alohaʻoe iāʻoe iho, e lawe i ka pilina i kou ola, e kamaʻilio a ma kēia hihia,ʻo kāu nīnau iāʻoe he kanaka ma kaʻohana,ʻaʻole loa e kū. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, heʻulaʻula maikaʻiʻoe, eʻike nā mea a pau i nā mea a pau.