Hiki i nā kiʻekiʻe ke kiʻekiʻe?
Ua loaʻa i nā wāhine Lūkini nā manawa kūpono loa e mare me ka haole. Aia kekahi mau kumu no kēia. Ua kaulana nā wahine Lūkini ma ka honua a puni i ko lākou nani a me ka pono o ka noho pono, aʻo ka mea'ē aʻe, ua manaʻoʻole nā haole he nui wale nā kaikamāhine Rūkū, a no laila,ʻaʻole lākou e koi a hoʻolohe.
ʻO kekahi poʻe haole e hoihoiʻia e kekahiʻuhane Lūkini naʻaupō, hiki i ka mōhai a me ke kalaʻana. Ma kēia mau makemake o kānaka,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe, no ka mea, he laʻana,ʻo ka poʻe Europa heʻoi aku kaʻoihana a me ke alohaʻole. E nā kāne, kū'ē i nā manaʻo a pau, makemake pinepineʻole lākou e hoʻokokoke loa aku i kahi hoa ikaika, akā, he wahine aloha a hoʻomaopopo.
He mea nui ka hiʻi?
No ka poʻe malihini, he mea nui loa keʻano o ke kaikamahine. Akā, mai makaʻu i nā koi kiʻekiʻe. ʻAʻole iʻoluʻolu nā malihini eʻike i ka mea maikaʻi o ka nani a mākou eʻike nei ma nāʻaoʻao o nā makuka nani. Uaʻoi aku ka maopopo o ko lākou mau makemake, no laila,ʻo ka maleʻana me ka haole ka mea kūpono no nā wāhine maʻamau.
ʻOiai, he mau manaʻo likeʻole nāʻelele o nā lāhui'ē aʻe e pili ana i ka nani o nā wāhine. ʻO nā kānaka o ke Komohana e like me nā kaikamāhine'ōpiopio, a me nāʻaoʻao hikina e like me nāʻano lush. ʻO ka'ōmaʻomaʻo o kaʻili, nā'ōuliu a me nā maka'ōmaʻomaʻo -ʻo ia ka mea e like me nā wāhine i nā kaikamahine Lūkini Ma mua o nā kāne o Easternal,ʻoi aku ka lauoho ma mua o nā kāne o ke Komohana e mare ana i nā huapalapala, akā,ʻaʻole ia he mea hikiʻole i kahi kaikamahine Lūkini e huluhuluʻeleʻele ke loaʻa iā ia he kāne mai ka'āina hikina. Manaʻo nā kāne he nui ka nani ma ka wahine.
He aha ka mea nui ma mua o ka nani?
Ke hilinaʻi nei ia i ke kāne no ka'āina āu i makemake ai. Inā makemakeʻoe i ke kāne mai'Europa aiʻole ka USA, pono eʻikeʻo ka noho kuʻokoʻa ka maikaʻi a kahi kāne makemake e makemake ai. ʻO ka wahine i loaʻa kona manaʻo pono'ī i ke ola,ʻo kona manaʻo pono'ī,ʻo ia ka meaʻike i ka hoʻololi kokeʻana i nāʻano hou o ke ola, heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻaʻana iā ia he kāne ma ke komohana. ʻO kahi kanaka o ka Hikina i waiwai i ka wahine, ma luna o nā mea a pau, mahalo i ke kāne ma ke poʻo o kaʻohana, ka hiki ke hoʻolālā, ka waiwai, a me ke ahonui. Ua hāʻawiʻia nā wahine male Lūlia i kēia mauʻano i piha, no laila, ua like lākou me ka noi ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa.
Ke manaʻoʻia nei ka wahine male Lūkini e ho'āʻoʻo ia e kāohi i kaʻohana ikaika, e mālama i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli i loko o ka hale, e lawelawe me nā keiki. ʻO ka maleʻana i ka haole no nā wahine he nui ka manawa eʻike ai, ma mua. ʻO ko lākou mau hiʻohiʻona wahine. Ināʻo ka wahine e hana i kaʻoihana i ka'āina'ē, no ka nui o nā kāne,ʻaʻohe mea nui,ʻoi aku ka nui o kona hikiʻana ke pale aku i kāna kūlana wahine a makuahine.
Kahi e loaʻa ai kahi kāne?
No ka hapanui o nā wahine Lālia, hiki ke mare me ka haole, ināʻoe eʻimi i ke kāne ma o ka Pūnaewele aiʻole me ke kōkuaʻana o nā keʻenaʻoihana kūikawā. I kekahi manawa, hele aku kekahi kaikamahine i kahi e hele ai, kahi iʻike aiʻo ia i kāna kāne, akāʻo ka pinepine pinepineʻana o kēlā mau puke i ka hopena. Makemake nā malihini e nānā i nā wāhine ma nā pūnaewele hōʻaho a iʻole e huli i nāʻoihana.
Heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kaʻimiʻana i ke kāne ma o ka lālā male. ʻO ka mua, he kahua ākea lākou no nā kāne e makemake nei e hoʻomaka i kekahiʻohana me kahi kaikamahine Lūkini. ʻO ka lua, ke nānā nei lākou i nā moho a pau, a hiki iāʻoe ke maopopo he meaʻoiaʻiʻo nā mea a pau i hōʻikeʻia i ka nīnau nīnau a ka mea noi i kou lima a me kou naʻau. Aʻekolu, ua hilinaʻi ka poʻe malihini i nā hui likeʻole, a no laila, huli lākou i laila me nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi.
ʻO nā lawelawe o nā keʻena o ka wahine mare ke komo i kahi uku, he mea nui loa ia, keʻoleʻoe eʻimi ana i kahi kāne maikaʻi loa a hoʻohana paha i nā lawelawe hou o ka 'oihana - he mea unuhi'ōlelo, he kanaka kālai'ōlelo, he mea kilokilo, he hui hoʻokō.
ʻO ka maleʻana i ka haole eʻikeʻia i nā kaikamāhine he mau moʻolelo pilikinoʻole e hiki ke loaʻa iā lākou. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i maʻalahi nā mea a pau. ʻO ka pōmaikaʻi nui kaʻike i ka'ōlelo o ka'āina āu eʻimi nei i ke kāne, akā he nui nā hiʻohiʻona i ka wā i loaʻa ai ka nohoʻana o ka male ma muli o kēiaʻano. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka hikiʻana mai o nā keiki mai nā mare ma mua, he mea paʻakikī ia i ka pilina me kahi haole, no ka mea, he maikaʻi loa a he aloha i nā keiki. Me kaʻoluʻolu like a me nā mea like, kūpono paha nā manaʻo e alakaʻi iāʻoe i ke kuahu a i ka ola hauʻoli lōʻihi.