ʻO ka makuahine a me ke kaikamahine - nā pilikia i ka pilina

"ʻAʻole maopopoʻoe iaʻu !!" - pehea ka manawa pinepine o nā keiki a me nā mākua e lohe ai i kēia hua'ōlelo mai kekahi me kekahi !! Akā i kēia manawa,ʻo kēia kaikamahine me nā momona momona a me nā momona e'ōlelo ana: "Mama,ʻoʻoe ka maikaʻi!".

No laila he aha ka mea i hanaʻia? No ke aha e hoʻololi ai ko kāua mau pilina me nā makuahine ma luna o ka hopena o ko mākou ola? ʻAʻole naʻe i nā manawa no ka maikaʻi! Pehea e palekana ai iāʻoe iho mai nā pilikia ma ka pilina "Mother and Daughter", a hele ma ke ala pololei o nā hoaalohaʻelua, e hilinaʻi ana i kekahi i kekahi me nā mea huna a pau?

Hoʻopilikia nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao i nā mea kūponoʻole i loko o ko kākou ola. A no kaʻike maoliʻoleʻana i kēia mea, ke ulu nei mākou i ko mākou mau makuahine.

A hana mākou i nā hewa likeʻole e pili ana i kā mākou mau kaikamāhine, nā mea a lākou i hana mai ai iā mākou. He aha ke kumu o ka pilikia ma waena o nā mākuahine a me nā kaikamāhine? ʻOiai keʻano o ke kani, akā, pono ke nānāʻia nā aʻa i ka wā kamaliʻi.


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ʻEhia ka manawa i'ōlelo aku ai wau iāʻoe, "He ahaʻoe kaikamahine?" He keikiʻoe! 'Ā,ʻo waiʻoe? "He aha? E noʻonoʻoʻoe,ʻo ka pilikia - ua haehaeʻia kaʻaʻahu a me ka коленки! Akā, i kēia manawa, e kahe ana ka makaʻu mua i loko o ka lolo o ke keiki -ʻaʻole wau e like me koʻu makuahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia e maʻalahi. Me ka makahiki, lilo ka makaʻu i phobia. A ke ho'āʻo neiʻoe i kāu mea eʻoi loa ai ka "keʻokeʻo a me ka momona",ʻoiaiʻaʻoleʻoe makemake iki, akā ua'ōleloʻo Mother ...

Ua hala nā lā o nā kaikamahine marshmallow! No laila,ʻokoʻa nā wāhine a pau, akā,ʻo ka nani loa ia o ka wahine. Hiki iāʻoe ke'ānela i kēia lā, a i ka lāʻapōpō i kahi'ōpena kūpena! E lilo kēia i mea hōʻoia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he poʻe wāhine mākou, no laila, he maikaʻi loa kā mākou.


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Manaʻo iāʻoe i nā mea maikaʻi a pau,ʻo ka makuahine me ke kuhiʻole (a ma kekahi mau manawa) e hana i kekahi pilikia ma kāu pilina. Makemakeʻo ia e liloʻoe i kope iā ia, e ho'āʻo eʻike i loko o kāna kaikamahine pono'ī i kāu mau makemake a me kou mau moeʻuhane. ʻO ke kula mele, ke hula, nā haʻuki, a me nā mea he nui aku! A no nā hana a pau o koʻu makuahine i kona wā liʻiliʻi! Akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe i lawe mai i kēia leʻaleʻa kūikawā ...

E hoʻomaopopo heʻano likeʻole ia e like me ka makuahine a i liloʻo ia i keiki nona! He kanakaʻoe! E noho wale iho! Hoʻonui i kou mau manaʻo, kou mau makemake. A e lilo i kahi'āpana puʻupuʻu! Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemakeʻoe.


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No ko mākou makuahine, ua mau mākou i ka maikaʻi a me ka nani loa, akā no ke aha lā mākou i lohe ai i nā'ōlelo hōʻino i nā manawaʻoi aʻe? "He aha kouʻano liʻiliʻi!", "Ua hala mauʻoe i waho," "He aha kou mau wāwae kekee." ʻAe, nui aku nā mea'ē aʻe! Aʻo ka hua'ōlelo maikaʻi loa loa: "ʻO waiʻoe e pono ai ?!". Aia koke koke aku ke kaikamahine - heʻano Quasimodo-sloven. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi kanaka kūpono keʻae pū meʻoe no ka holoʻana ma kahi kaʻa hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole me ka manaʻo e hāʻawi aku iāʻoe i ka lima a me ka puʻuwai.

E hana i kāu mea i loko. E aʻo e aloha iāʻoe iho, me ka'ōlelo a nā poʻe e noho nei iāʻoe. E hoʻonui i kou manaʻo nui, e hoʻolohe i kou honua i loko. A noʻonoʻo: he mau kanaka a pau,ʻaʻohe kanaka kūʻokoʻa a paʻa loa. Aia i loko o nā kānaka a pau kekahi mea e hoʻokaʻawaleʻia ai e nā poʻe'ē aʻe. He mea pono wale ke aʻo i kēiaʻokoʻa ma ka mālamalama pono e pono ai iāʻoe.


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Ke hoʻohiki mau nei kou makuahine iāʻoe no ke koho ponoʻole o ka lole, ka meaʻala, ka hana, a pēlāʻole.ʻAʻoleʻo ia i makemake i kou mau hoaaloha, i kou pipi a (ʻAʻole) i kāu kāne. Aʻo kēia mau mea a pau,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i haʻi iāʻoe ma ka'ōlelo pololei, akā, "no ka pilikia"! Akāʻo kona helehelena a pau e hōʻike ana i ka nui o nā mea i kūponoʻole iā ia.

Hoʻoholo i ka pilikia : E kamaʻilio me kou makuahine ma kahi kūwae like - e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo, pili i kou pilina, e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo no ke ola. Mai hopohopoʻoe e'ōlelo akuʻaʻoleʻoe i makemake ia. E hoʻomaopopo iaʻuʻo kou ola kou ola. E hāʻawi i kahi ala maʻamau mai ke kūlana. E ho'āʻo e hana i kahi mea - hele i ke kūʻai, hele i ka lumi hoʻonani. Ma hope o ka loheʻana mai o Mum i kekahi pilikia - e hāʻawi aku i kāna'ōlelo aʻo me keʻanoʻole. E ho'āʻo a hoʻomaopopo i kou makuahine. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke pale i ke kūlana - hoʻopiʻiʻo ia iāʻoe, e kāna kaikamahine, me ka makemake iāʻoe i ka maikaʻi!


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Ke ola nei kou mеmе i kou ola. Pau nā mea e pono aiʻo ia eʻike iāʻoe. ʻO ke kaumaha mau no kou manawa, ke aloha a me ka uwēʻana i kou manaʻo hōʻoluʻolu - ma mua o ka hopena nui! A i kou hoʻomakaʻana e huhū iā ia -ʻo ia ke kumu o nā waimaka a me nā puʻuwai.

E hoʻomaopopo i koʻu makuahine - ua makaʻuʻo ia e lilo i meaʻole no kāna kaikamahine, no ka meaʻo ia he mō'ī aʻo ke akua hoʻi he keiki. A laila ua hoʻololiʻiaʻo ia me kaʻole o ka mea e hakakā aiʻoe! No ka makuahine, he mea nui loa kēia! E kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i kou kūʻokoʻa, a pehea kona maikaʻi i laila a hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi iā ia!

A inā he meaʻole nā ​​mea a pau ...ʻAʻole,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i kahi'ōlelo maʻamau me kou makuahine, no ka wikiwiki o kāu ho'āʻo! E lawe iā ia no ka meaʻo ia, ināʻo ia wale nō kou makuahine -ʻo ka mea nāna i hānau mai a hānai iāʻoe e like me kēlā. A,ʻo ka mea koʻikoʻi: e hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi e lilo mākou i mau lāhine i kekahi lā, aʻaʻole i maopopo i keʻano o kā mākou hana me kā mākou mau kaikamāhine. No laila, e hoʻokiʻekiʻe ana i ke kaikamahine, e nānā i hope i kou wā'ōpiopio, a me ka ho'āʻoʻole e hana hou i nā kūlana a me nā hua'ōlelo e alakaʻi aiʻoe i ka huhū a me ka hoʻonāukiuki. E lilo i kāu hoa a me kāu mea aʻo. Hiki i kāu kaikamahine he hoaalohaʻoe i heleʻole me kou makuahine.


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