I nā kamaliʻi Lūkini, ma keʻano'ē aʻe, hiki ke hāʻawiʻia nā pili piliʻole i ka manawa lōʻihi.
ʻO nā kūkākūkā ma kahi lumi ulaula, ma ka pāʻaina a ma kahi hui pū paha e hiki ke lilo i kumu no ka hana i kahi hoʻoholo nui. A ināʻoe e pale aku iā lākou, hiki iāʻoe ke haʻalele i nā hana nui a i nā hoʻololi nui. I ka manawa like, pili loa ka pilina me nā hoahana i ka hihia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua nalowale ka hana i ka loiloiʻana i ka hana a ka limahana, a ua hiki ke hoʻohuiʻia nā mea hōʻeuʻeu a me nā paio.
He mea paʻakikī ka poʻe e nānā aku ana i ka hopena, a ua hoʻopilikiaʻia kā lākou hana e nā hui āpau a me nā konoʻana e kūkākūkā i nā nīnau pilikino o nā limahana. Paʻa pinepine nā kānaka i kēlā mau pilikia. ʻO nā wāhine i ka pilina me nā hoahana i kekahi manawa e mālama i ka mamao no nā kumu'ē aʻe. ʻO ka hana pinepineʻana i kēia ma muli o ke kāne kaulvinism ma ka hana.
Me ka nānā muaʻana i ka loaʻaʻana o nā wāhine i ke kaulike me nā kāne. He mea kūpono i kahi wahine e hōʻike i kona makemake i ka hana,ʻoiaiʻo ia e hōʻike koke nei i kekahi mau hoa hakakā ma waena o nā hoa kāne kāne. Ma nā pilina me lākou, nā manaʻo kūponoʻole, nā paio a me ke kūlana o nāʻano likeʻole e ala mai. ʻO kekahi o nā mea maʻamau i ka hoʻopuniʻana i ka mea hakakā a ikaika ikaika no ke kanaka, e hoʻemi i ka lōʻihi o ke kamaʻilioʻana. Ma muli o kona manaʻo nui, hikiʻole i ke kāne kāne ke kū i kekahi mea e ho'āʻo ai e pale i ka hoa paio.
No laila, ka nīnau e pili ana i kahi e lōʻihi ai ka pilina me nā hoahana, no ka wahine i nā manawa - he mea ola kēia a me ka make. A ināʻoe e'ōlelo i ka'ōlelo o kaʻoihana - ka hopena o ke emiʻana a iʻole ka hoʻonuiʻana. I mea e hinaʻole ai no ka paunu o ka mea hoʻopukaʻikeʻike, ponoʻoe eʻike i nāʻano hana a nā kāne e hoʻohana ai i nā wāhine ma keʻoihana.
Manaʻo pinepine ka poʻe i kaʻike maikaʻi maikaʻi a me kaʻaeʻana i nā manaʻo o nā wahine i mea e maopopo ai i keʻano o kona manaʻo. Hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i ka manaʻo o kahi hoa hana no lākou iho, ināʻike lākou he mea nui ka manaʻo. He mau wāhine he nui i hōʻeha a hoʻonāwaliwali. Akā, mai haʻalele. Pono eʻaeʻia heʻano kūikawā a he laulā kēlāʻano hana o nā kāne. ʻO ka mālamaʻana i ka mamao ma ka pilina me lākou he mea nui wale nō keʻano wale nō i mea e pale ai i ka manawa kūpono e hōʻike i kahi manaʻo kūpono i ka mea hakakā no ka piʻi a iʻole ka uku. Loaʻa iāʻoe ke kuleana e hoʻohana i nā manaʻo hoʻohālike kāne e pili ana i ka wahine kolohe a hāʻawi aku i kāu hoa i kekahi "duck" e like me kou manaʻo. A no ka hāʻawiʻana i nā manaʻo nui i nā hālāwai lehulehu kahi eʻike ai kāu poʻe kākau.
Nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o ka mālamaʻana i kahi lōʻihi e pili ana i nā hoahana wāhine, e loaʻa ana iā kākou maiʻAmelika a meʻEulopa. Ma laila, ua aʻo lōʻihiʻia nā hihia o ka hoʻoluhi wale i nā wāhine ma ke keʻena. Aʻaʻole hoʻi ma ka hōʻeha waleʻana, i hiki ai i nā paia aniani a iʻole i ka māheleʻana ma kahi o nā paia o ke keʻena. Ua aʻoʻia kēia kumuhana a me keʻano o ka hoʻoikaika a me ke kuhihewaʻana o nā kāne i ka neʻeʻana o nā wāhine ma ke alakai. ʻO kekahi o nāʻano o iaʻano e ka hoa hana no nā kāne, he mau hana liʻiliʻi ia,ʻaʻole kūpono i ke kūlana o kahi alakaʻi wahine. Eia kekahi laʻana, he noi paha e hana ka cafe a hele i kahi hale kūʻai no nā paʻi pepa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iāʻoe ke hana ia mea no lākou. Akā, ināʻikeʻoe i ka hoʻopukaʻana i ka hihia i hiki i kāu hoa hana ke kope no ka lā aʻe a iʻole e lawe mai i pepa no ka mea paʻi. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e lawa kaʻuhane e hana i kēia i loko o kahi pilina me nā kānaka, a laila e hāʻawi i nā hana liʻiliʻi, e pili ana i ka hana a iʻoleʻo ka meaʻaʻole ia he kuleana o kāu mau hana.
No ka pono o ka hoʻopono, he mea pono eʻike i ka pilikia o ka mamao ma ka pilina me nā hoahana e hoʻonāukiuki,ʻaʻole wale nā wāhine. ʻO nā kāne i pinepine pinepine kaʻehaʻana mai ia mea, inā lākou e hana i loko o nā hui wahine a i'āwiliʻia paha. ʻAʻohe mea iʻole e alakaʻi i ke kāne i loko ona iho, e like me ka pono e hoʻolohe i nā hoahana e kamaʻilio ana no kahi maʻamau a me nā pilikiaʻohana. Ināʻaʻohe kanaka e hui pū me ke kūkākūkāʻana a hōʻike paha i ka huhū a me ke ahonuiʻole, hiki iā ia ke hoʻoulu i nā pilikia nui loa. Malia paha, he paʻakikī ke pale aku i kēlā mau kūkākūkāʻana. Akā, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokau i nā kūlana o ka wahine o ka hui i mālamaʻia ia mau kūkākūkā wale nō i ka wā o ka inu lama,ʻaʻoleʻaʻole ma ke keena, akā, ma loko o ka lumi hoʻonāhiuki a iʻole kahi hale lole.
Aia kekahi mau hanana kahi e launaʻole ai kahi mamao me nā hoahana. Aia kekahiʻano o ka hui e mālamaʻia ai ka kulekele o ka nepotism. I kahi hālāwai nui, he mea paha e pili ana i ka mareʻana o nā keiki kāne a me ka hoʻolewa o kou makuahine aloha, a he mea hikiʻole ke hōʻole i kēlāʻano a he meaʻole. Hiki keʻikeʻia kēia lewa i kaʻoihanaʻohana a iʻole i kahi kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi kahi eʻike ai nā kānaka a pau i ka makua nāna i hoʻokumu. Ināʻikeʻoe i nā mea a pau, akā, ua mākaukauʻoe e kaʻana i nā mea hilahila o ke ola pilikino me kekahi i kekahi, a uaʻikeʻia kāuʻaoʻao ma keʻanoʻenemi, pono paha e nānāʻoe no kahiʻoihana'ē aʻe. ʻOiaʻiʻo,'ōlelo pololei,ʻaʻole hiki ke pale i ka pilina me nā poʻeʻoihana i kekahiʻano o kaʻoihana Lūkini.