No ke aha i makemake ai nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine?

ʻO ke aloha mua ka manaʻo i hikiʻole ke hoʻopoinaʻia, ka mea maʻalahi, ka mea mahana a me ka mea kupaianaha loa. I ka papa kula papa, e hoʻolohe nā keiki i nā kaikamāhine, ma nā keikikāne kula e lawe i nā'ōke kula i nā kaikamahine, e alakaʻi iā lākou i ka home.

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A i ka hopena, hiki mai ke aloha mua. Ke hana nei kekahi mea i loko o kaʻuhane i kū hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole hiki ke weheweheʻia ma nā hua'ōlelo. Pōmaikaʻi ka naʻau a i ka manawa like me kahi hauʻoli.

Ke hopohopo nei au no ke aha e makemake ai nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine? Malia paha no ka mea e makemake ana lākou e noho i ka hoʻomanaʻo o ke kaikamahine no ka wā pauʻole. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole loa e poinaʻia ke aloha mua. ʻO kēia ka mālamalama loa a me kaʻike nui loa e hāʻawi ai i kaʻike mua o ke aloha a waiho i loko o ko mākouʻuhane i nā mea maikaʻi loa e hoʻomanaʻo ai no ke ola.

ʻO ka hapanui pinepine o ka aloha mua i ka māhele. ʻO ka maikaʻi, he mau hoaaloha ke kaikamahine a me ke keiki. Akā,ʻo mākou a pau i loko o kaʻauwai, he mau manaʻo e hikiʻole ke hoʻopoinaʻia o ke aloha mua,ʻo ia ka mua o nā mea pili. ʻO ke kanaka mua i ke ola o kahi wahine,ʻo ia ka mea nui loa i wehe i kona puka i kaʻikeʻoleʻia. Me ke kōkuaʻana o kēia kāne, ua lilo kekahi kaikamahine i wahine, aʻo eʻike i nā manaʻo hou, nā manaʻo. Ma mua o ia, weheʻia kekahi honua'ē aʻe me nā'ōlohelohe a me keʻano o ka naʻau, kahi honua o ka meaʻikeʻoleʻia, he honua aloha a me ke aloha, he honua o nā manaʻo. Uaʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ke kaikamahine. Me ke kanaka mua i aʻo aiʻo ia i ka hoʻokalakupua, manaʻoʻiaʻo ia he wahine maoli.

A laila e loaʻa nā kānaka'ē aʻe, akā,ʻo ke kanaka mua e noho mau loa no ka mea hoʻokahi, aʻo ka mea kokoke,ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa,ʻo ia ke kanaka waiwai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua hōʻikeʻo ia i ka wahine i nā meaʻoluʻolu o ke ola hou, ua aʻoʻo ia iā ia e aloha, eʻike i ka momona o nā manaʻo nani, a na kēia kanaka i aʻo iā ia e hauʻoli maoli.

Makemake nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine, no ka mea, uaʻike lākou a pau i kēia. Uaʻike lākou he mea pono i ke kaikamahine ke aloha i kēlā mea no ka mea maoli. ʻOiai, ua liloʻo ia i kumu aʻo ola, a ua aʻoʻo ia iā ia he wahine maoli.

ʻO ka manawa pinepine i ka aloha mua i loko o ka mareʻana. He koho maikaʻi kēia. Eia ke kāne a me ka wahine i alohaʻole kekahi i kekahi, akā, ua hilinaʻi nui lākou i kekahi i kekahi, e hemo kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka hui pūʻana o kēia mau kāne ma ka hana, a ma ka home, a ma kahi moe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki iā lākou ke lanakila ma luna o nā mea iʻikeʻoleʻia, eʻalo i nā mea hilahila o ka moekolohe a me ke kuko, makemake. I loko o ia mau 'ohana,' o ia ka 'ōlelo pilina. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua hilinaʻi like kēia mau hoaʻelua. Maanei, piha ka hilinaʻi, aloha, kākoʻo. Mai kekahi i kekahi, e hoʻoikaika i nā mea hou, nā manaʻo hou a me nā manaʻo. Hiki iā lākou ke hana nui, kokoke i nā mea a pau. E lanakila pū lākou i nā pilikia a pau. Aʻaʻole lākou e makaʻu i kekahi mea.

ʻO ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine kahi kanaka e makemake nei e lilo a no ke kumu e makemake ai lākou e lilo i hoʻokahi wale nō mea i loko o ke olaʻana o kahi kaikamahine aloha, makemake lākou e pili wale aku iā lākou. I loko o kēlāʻohana i ka nohona a pau, he mau hakakā wale nō, nui kaʻike a me ke aloha. Ke aloha, ka hilinaʻi, ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, ka hilinaʻi i ka hoa pili, ka makemake e hāʻawi i nā mea a pau no ka mea i alohaʻia - hiki ke loaʻa i kēia mau mea i waena o nā kāne i huiʻia e ke aloha mua o ke ola. ʻO ka mua a me ke aloha wale nō. He nui ka poʻe e'ōlelo ana he nui nā mea i hala. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole lākou i nānā, inā paha iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Akā,ʻaʻole pono kēlā mau pai i kēia. Ua lako lākou iā lākou iho, no laila makemake lākou i nā mea a pau e pono ai no ka hauʻoli. Ma hope o kēlā mau hui, hānau mai nā keiki hauʻoli, nā mea i hānaiʻia i ke aloha piha a me ka mahanahana i kaʻohana. Hāʻawi lākou i nā manaʻo a pau e pono ai no ka hauʻoli piha. ʻOiai, ua aloha ko lākou mau mākua i kekahi i kekahi. Ua hauʻoli lākou. No laila, e noho kaʻohana a pau i kahi hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli.

Makemake nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine, no ka mea e moeʻuhane ana lākou i ka hauʻoli a makemake e hilinaʻi i ko lākou hapalua. Ke aloha nā kānaka i kekahi i kekahi, ua makaukau lākou e lele a paʻi pū. Maanei, he hilinaʻi loa a me ka hilinaʻi kekahi i kekahi. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i kekahi mea, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e nānā i kekahi mea. ʻO ka puʻuwai o kēlā mau kāne ke makemake nei e aloha. A ma hope o nā makahiki he nui o ka nohoʻana,ʻaʻole e ulu kahi aloha i loko o ka maʻamau, akā, e'ā hou pinepine houʻia me ke ahi o ke aloha a me ke aloha. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ke aloha muaʻo ia keʻano maikaʻi a maikaʻi.

He mea weliweli loa keʻike aʻike i ka noho kaʻawale. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka loneliʻole ka nele o nā hoaaloha a me nā pilina. ʻO kēia kahi kahi e makemake ai kou naʻau no ka mea āu iʻikeʻole ai. Akā, i kēlā mau hoa like, nāna i kūkulu i ko lākouʻohana ma ke aloha mua,ʻaʻole hiki ke waiho wale.

E hoʻomalu mau kēlā mau hoa kāne i kekahi i kekahi, e hakakā no ko lākou hauʻoli pono'ī.

Makemake nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i ka lua. Ināʻaʻole ke kanaka ke kaikamahine mua, keʻeha nui paha iā ia? No ke aha mai kēia hana? He aha kēia? ʻO ka haʻaheo, ka makewai no ka prima prima a me kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kēia:ʻo ka haʻaheo a me ka makewai no ka pono, a me keʻano o ka nohoʻana. ʻO nā kānaka ma keʻano maʻalahi a me nā mea waiwai, makemake mau e lilo i mea mua a hoʻokahi. A ma nā wahi a pau a ma nā mea a pau. Makemake nā kāne i kahi kaikamahine e noho kaʻawale iā lākou.

Makemake nā kāne e lilo i ke aloha mua o ke kaikamahine, no ka mea, ua lapuwale loa lākou. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kēia ka pilina maikaʻi, i ka nohoʻana o ke kāne a me ka wahine ma hope o ke aloha mua no ka wa pauʻole.

Ma kēlāʻano likeʻole, e like me ke kuʻikahi a me ka hoʻomaopopoʻana,ʻoiai e hiki i kēlā poʻe ke hoʻomaopopo a kala i kekahi i kekahi. E kūpaʻa mau lākou i kekahi i kekahi.

E aloha aku kekahi i kekahi, e alohaʻia. E pili ana kēia i kēlā mau kāne i hui ma hope,ʻaʻole i ka wā o ke aloha mua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea nui e lilo i ka mua a iʻole ka lua,ʻo ka mea nuiʻo ke aloha, e hoʻomalu i kekahi i kekahi, i kahi kokoke, i nā manawa paʻakikī, kōkua mau kekahi i kekahi me ka hoʻopunipuni aʻeha paha i kahi mea aloha. A laila, i loko o kēlā me kēiaʻohana, e noho aliʻi ana ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli. ʻO ka hauʻoli o nā hālāwai a pau, ka manaʻo o ka piha i ka puʻuwai a me kaʻuhane. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo ke alohaʻia, ke hilinaʻi i kāu hoa noho a hoʻomau mau i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me ka pono i kou aloha. Aloha a alohaʻia. Mai hoʻokaʻawale i kāu poʻe i alohaʻia. E haʻaheo kāu mau keiki i ko lākou mau mākua he poʻeʻoliʻoli loa ma ka honua, e noho nei lākou i loko o kaʻohana hauʻoli. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā mea a pau.