No ke aha eʻoluʻolu ai kaʻoluʻolu o nā maka'āinana a me ke oho hina i ko lākou ola pono'ī?

ʻO ka manawa pinepine iā mākou e lohe i kaʻoi aku o nā noho mālie a maikaʻi o kā mākou mau hoa papa a me nā hoa papa e mare a hānai i nā keiki. Akā,ʻo nā kānaka akamai mua a me nā mea nani loa, nā mea koʻikoʻi kūikawā a me nā mea e hoʻomau ai i ka noho hoʻokahiʻana. No ke aha i loaʻa ai kahiʻano palekana i kēia ao? No ke aha i koho pinepine ai nā kānaka i "nā makaleʻeleʻele" ma mua o nā kaikamāhine akamai a me nā nani?


Ke koho mākou, koho lākou iā mākou

ʻO wai nā "makapōʻeleʻele"? ʻO kēia mau kaikamāhineʻaʻole e kū i waho, alakaʻi i kekahiʻano o ke ola i ka mālie a me keʻano. No laila,ʻo kā lākou mau noi, e hoʻolapalapa i lalo i kahiʻano maʻalahi a me ka hana maʻamau. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i ke kanaka nāna e'ōlelo mai iā Kant, e holo i Tibet a lele i ka pō. Ua lawa kēlā mau kaikamahine i konaʻano maʻamau, kōkua i kaʻohana aʻaʻole hoʻi i hōʻeha iā ia. ʻO keʻano maoli, nā kānaka maʻamau,ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia i nā tālena kūikawā a me ka hanaʻole i kekahi meaʻano'ē aʻe i loko o ko kākou ola,ʻoi aku. Aʻo nā loea nani-nani-ʻoihana iʻoi aku i mua o ka manawa i kū like me kēia mau kāne, a ua aloha lākou iā ia. Akā, uaʻanoʻeha loaʻo ia me kekahi kanaka. ʻAʻoleʻo ia iʻike i kahi pilina pili kūikawā me ia. Aʻo nā kaikamāhine e makemake nei e ola i kaʻoliʻoli a me ka maluhia i loko o ka maluhia, ke nānā nei lākou i kā lākou mau hoa alohaʻaʻole wale nō, ka makua kāne no nā kamaliʻi a me ka mea kōkua. Keʻimi nei lākou i ko lākou hoa ola,ʻo kēlā kanaka kūikawā me ka meaʻaʻole loa lākou e hoʻonāukiuki a mehameha. ʻO kēlā kaikamahine e hele wale wale ana i keʻano o ke ola. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ua hoʻopiʻiʻia kēia mau wāhine e nā kāne,ʻaʻole no ka mea he nui loa nā mea e pili ana i ka nani a me ke kūlana. ʻAʻole,ʻo ka mea nui o ka kohoʻana,ʻo ia ka manaʻo "e makemake wau iā ia." He mea paʻakikī kēia loea i kaʻikeʻana i nā kānaka me ka meaʻaʻole ia eʻoluʻolu. He lōʻihi loa lākou a koho maikaʻi i kahi hoa noho, no ka mea,ʻaʻole loa e kūʻaiʻia no ka pili piliʻole. ʻO kēia mau kaikamāhine eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho kaʻawaleʻana me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ia, no ka mea he kanaka ke kanaka mai keʻano o ka "mea weliweli" he kāne maikaʻi a he makua kāne. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou iʻoluʻolu iki.ʻAʻole e loaʻa i ke kaikamahine e kamaʻilio nei. A no nā wāhine e makemake mau i nā kūkā kamaʻilio. Ma ka kamaʻilioʻoleʻana i nā mea kiʻekiʻe, ua mae wale nā ​​wāhine. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ka nānāʻana i ka TV maʻamau. Makemake lākou i nā mea'ē aʻe, kahi mea hikiʻole i nā kānaka ke hāʻawi. ʻO ia ke kumu e noho ai lākou i ka wā lōʻihi. E hele mai, mai kaʻaoʻao mai he meaʻaʻohe mea e nānā i kēlā kaikamahine. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ia. Me ka wikiwiki o nā'ōpio "otshivayut"ʻole i makemakeʻole iā lākou,ʻaʻole iʻike nā kānaka a puni e ho'āʻo nei e hoʻokumu i ka launaʻana me ka wahine. ʻO ia ke kaikamahine iʻoi aku ma ka yoga, heluhelu i kahi pukeʻano moʻomeheu, a kākau paha i kahi mele ma mua o ka hoʻohanaʻana i kona manawa i ke kanaka i makemakeʻoleʻo ia iā ia.

Ma ke ala, mai poina i ka nui o nā kānaka e hopohopo nei i nā wāhine. Ke nānā nei lākou i ka nui o nā mea e makemake ai, makemake a me nā moeʻuhane, e hoʻomaka ana nā poʻe e hāʻule i mua o kēlā mau kaikamahine. Ke hopohopo nei lākou e hoʻopili wale lākou i nā pilina like, no ka mea,ʻo ia me ka wahine e pono ai ke akamai, hana, a heluhelu, punawai me kekahi mau manaʻo a me ka maʻalahiʻole e hopohopo. No laila, ua koho nā kāne e hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mea paʻakikī a hele i kaʻaoʻao. ʻOiai i loko o ka hohonu o kaʻuhane, he poʻe likeʻole nā ​​kamaliʻi kūikawā a me ka ponoʻole. Akā ma kahi o ka kohoʻana i kekahi mea i makemake nui iā lākou, ua hoʻoholo nā kāne e hoʻohui i ko lākou ola me "nāʻioleʻeleʻele". ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua maʻalahi nā'ōpiopio. He mea liʻiliʻi lākou, alakaʻi lākou i ke ola mau a me ke anaʻia. Me lākou, hiki iāʻoe ke noho i mua o ke kelepa no nā hola a pāʻani i nā pāʻani rorohiko, me kaʻole o kou'okiʻakeʻa. Me nā wāhine e hauʻoli loa e kūkulu i kahiʻohana. A he nui nā kāne i makemake i kēia hōʻoluʻolu. He mea hiki ke hoʻomaopopo loaʻia lākou, akāʻoiai,ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua pani pinepineʻia kēia poʻe. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i nā kūkākūkā leo nui a me nā hakakā. Hiki iā lākou ke noho mālie ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana e ho'ākāka i ka pilina. ʻO lākou, e like me nā kaikamāhine'ē aʻe, manaʻo lākou he pono ke hoʻomaopopo ke kanaka iā lākou me kaʻole o nā hua'ōlelo, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e haʻi aʻe, aʻoi aku ka noho mālie ma mua o ka hoʻokumuʻana i kahi kūlana hakakā.

Akä, no ka mea, he mea kaumahaʻole ke komo, nui loa nä känaka e makaÿu. Ke hopohopo nei lākou i nā pilikia e hiki mai ana mai nā wāhine i ko lākou manaʻo a nānā i kēlā me kēiaʻano. Mai ka manaʻo e hiki i kahi lede ke hōʻohewa i ko lākou manaʻo iho,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae i ka laweʻana iā lākou, a pēlā aku, ua hopohopo wale nā ​​poʻe. Makemake lākou e hoʻoikaika i kā lākou mau hāmeʻa, aʻaʻole e hoʻomau pono a hoʻonui iā lākou iho i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma ke kūlike like me ke akamai. ʻAʻohe,ʻo kēia mau poʻe hoʻolauleʻa i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole lākou i mākaukau e hele. Hiki iā lākou ke haʻi aku i ke ola i kekahi mea e noho mālie aʻaelike paha me nā mea a pau. ʻO kēia nā "ʻioleʻeleʻele". ʻAʻole lākou e hele ma ke ala o ka uluʻana i loko, makemake i kekahi meaʻokoʻa a pēlā aku. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻole e kapaʻia kēia mau kaikamāhine heʻino. He maikaʻi,ʻano maikaʻi, hoʻolālā.ʻO nā wāhine wale nō ka pilikino hana pilikino i kūpono a pololei. ʻAe, aʻo ke ola i olaʻia e nā poʻe akamai, nā wāhine koʻikoʻi,ʻo nā wāhineʻaʻole he mea hoʻonani. ʻO ia ke kumu e hukiʻia ai nā kānaka i ka wili. Ma hope o ka nānāʻana i kahi kaikamahine haʻahaʻa aʻano haʻahaʻa, e noho kūpaʻa ana ke kanakaʻaʻoleʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hāʻawi aku i ka hana i kekahi mea naʻaupō aʻaʻole e makemake i kekahi mea maʻalahi,ʻoihana a me kaʻoi aku o kona hoihoi ma mua o kāna mea koho. Me nā wāhine,ʻaʻole pono nā kāne e hopu. Noho lākou i kahi noho mālie, ke ola maʻamau o ka miliona miliona. Ke hauʻoli nei hoʻi lākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo, no ka mea, ua mare lākou a ua hānau keiki. I pinepine pinepineʻoleʻia e kēia mau kaikamāhine. No laila,ʻoluʻolu ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli o nā mea a pau,ʻo ia wale nō keʻano o ke ola e likeʻole me nā wāhine e makemake ana e lawe i nā mea a pau i laweʻia, ma mua o kaʻoluʻoluʻana i kaʻai.

Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e noho mālie

Ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei i ke kumu e wikiwiki ai ka poʻe noho mālie, aʻaʻoleʻoe, a keʻimi nei eʻike iāʻoe iho i kahiʻano haʻahaʻa -ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hana. Ke ola nei kēlā me kēia kanaka i kona ola. ʻAʻoleʻoe e ola e like me ka "ʻiole hina". No laila, mai hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻoe iāʻoe iho ma kou mau maka pono'ī. ʻAʻole kēia noi noi kiʻekiʻe loa,ʻo kēia mau kānaka maʻalahi ua palaualelo aʻaʻole makemake e hana i kekahi mea. ʻAʻoleʻoe e pono e like me ka hapanui, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻoe i piʻi hina, no laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e lilo i kēia manawa. E ola i ka leʻaleʻa a pau, eʻoluʻolu i kou ola, a manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, i kekahi lā e hui aiʻoe i kahi kanaka nāna e hoʻoili i kou mau pono a makemake e ola i ke ola e pili ana iāʻoe. A ināʻaʻole, e hanaʻoe i kāu mea e moe ai a mai hopohopo. No ka nohoʻana ma ka hapanui,ʻaʻole ia e pili pono.