Akā, pehea e koho ai i kahi makana aloha no kāna kāne? He mea maʻalahi ka kulehana no ka holomua: ponoʻoe e hōʻalo i ka hopena o kēlā me kēia lā, e hoʻolālā i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai iā ia, e ka mea aloha, e komo i ka noʻonoʻo a hoʻopoina loa i nā mea kānalua.
ʻO kahi makana i hanaʻia e nā lima pono'ī.
He aha kaʻoi aku o ke aloha ma mua o ka gizmo lima? He kūʻokoʻa, i hanaʻia nona wale nō a me nā noʻonoʻo e pili ana iā ia, manaʻoʻia e kūpono i konaʻano a me kona mau makemake - e hoʻomanaʻo maoliʻia nōʻo ia e kekahi kanaka. ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemakeʻia ka ikaika maʻaneʻi. Akā,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopoina i nā kānaka iʻuʻukuʻole i ka manaʻo ma mua o ko lāua mau hapalua. A inā he kāne kēia i helehelehele nuiʻia e kekahi, ua hiki i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo i kona mau manaʻo a me kona mau manaʻo e noʻonoʻo nui i nā manaʻo o kāna wahine aloha. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka manaʻo o nā lālā o ua mau hoa nei, uaʻike muaʻia i ka'ikeepe.
Aʻo ka koho o kahi makana i loko o kēlā hui he laulā nui loa ia. ʻO kēia kahi mea hiki wale i kahi wahine ke hana: he kiʻi hoʻonani i kālaiʻia ma ke keʻa a hoʻonohoʻia i loko o kahi kūlana nani, he kumukūʻau nani mai nā mea hoʻolālā no ke kumuhana aloha, he kahabana puʻupuʻu i hanaʻia e like me keʻano o ka puʻuwai, aiʻole he pilikino satin. ʻO kahi kīʻaha me kona mau hua mua, kaʻaʻahu a me ka hōʻike i ke aloha, kahi ola o ka hua, i kāwiliʻia me kahi hiʻohiʻona hoihoi a iʻole ka palaoa i kāluaʻia me kona'ōmole.
ʻO kahi makana nui no kaʻu kāne - heʻahaʻaina aloha. ʻAʻole pono e loaʻa i nā kukui a iʻole nā mele māmā. ʻOiai ke manaʻoʻole ka mea aloha i kaʻoluʻoluʻole me kaʻole o ka hoʻomālamalamaʻana a iʻole ia he mea makemake nui o ka pōhaku kaumaha. He mea nuiʻole ka hanaʻana i kaʻaina ahiahi a me ka penaʻana e like me keʻano i kapaʻia he aloha i loko o ka ahahui. He mea nui loa ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i nā mea a pau i mea e ho'āla ai i ka hopohopo i loko o kona puʻuwai. ʻO nā pāʻina punahele, nā mea i manaʻoʻoleʻia, i hoʻonohonohoʻia e like me kahiʻoihana kūikawā (aʻo ia hoʻi he mea e wehewehe aku ai) a he wahine nani me ka'oniʻoli o ka wahine hoʻopunipuni kilokilo,ʻo ia wale nō ke aloha iā ia, he makana ia e hoʻomanaʻoʻia e kekahi kanaka no ka wā lōʻihi. ʻOiai inā ua hanaʻia kēiaʻahaʻaina i ke ala āna i aloha ai a hele i kēlā me kēia mea e hiki ai iā ia ke leʻaleʻa loa.
ʻO ka wahine i manaʻoʻoleʻia.
ʻAʻoleʻo ia, e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻololi i ka makana o kāna kāne i ke ala pololei, e komo i ka lumi o ka mokomoko o ka gizmos. ʻO keʻano o nā kīʻaha, nā hīnaʻi o nā pua, nā leka me nā moli haahaa a me nā mittens no nā meaʻelua he mau makana maikaʻi no nā wahine. Heʻoi aku kaʻoihana o nā kāne. Ke manaʻo nei lākou i nā mea koʻikoʻi ma mua o ka nānāʻana i ka pono, a laila -ʻo keʻano waiwai i loaʻa. Hoʻokahi wale nō mea i hanaʻia e kāna poʻe koho pono'ī. ʻO kēia makana i ke kanaka nui,ʻaʻole ia e noʻonoʻoʻia, ma keʻano he mea, i kēlā me kēia ao e pili ana. Akā, e ho'āʻoʻo ia i ka paleʻana i kēia mea mai kahi weliweli weliweli o kaʻaʻahu a ke mālama pono iā ia e pili ana i ka puʻuwai.
Akāʻo ka kūʻaiʻana i nā makana he pono e pili pono. A inā makemake ka wahine e hāʻawi i kāna makana i mea aloha, a laila ua lawa iā ia ke koho i kekahi mea e pono ai ke kāne, a hoʻomaikaʻi hou aʻe, e hāʻawi iā ia i ke aloha. No laila, ka hui mua - nā mea kūpono a pau ma keʻano o ka puʻuwai, nā pua a Cupid a me nā hōʻailona'ē aʻe o ka Mō'īwahine o ke Aloha. Eia ka mea nui: no ka mea o ka mea hana kamepiula -ʻo kaʻiole ma keʻano o ka puʻuwai, no kahi mea pēlā - he kīʻaina bank-box, no ka mea hoʻohei i keʻano o ka kulekele no ka mālamaʻana i kona naʻau mai ka wāwahiʻana. He mea nui ka hāʻawiʻana o kahi makana aloha iā ia a kohoʻia e like me kona mau pono a me kāna mau makemake, a me ka hāʻawiʻana iā ia i keʻano o kahi hauʻoli aloha e hiki iāʻoe a meʻoe iho.
ʻO ka huiʻelua,ʻo ia nā mea kūʻai makana. Heʻano kūikawā kēia no ka mea e pono ke nānā aku. Ma muli o ka hilinaʻi a me kaʻoluʻolu o ka mea i kohoʻia i loko o kona pilina me nā poʻe pilikino,ʻo ia makana a kāna wahine e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻokuʻi iā ia i nā manaʻo maikaʻiʻole. ʻOiai, inā heʻano lili ia, he makana o ka hale kūʻai wahine ke kumu e kānalua aiʻo ia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kāna wahine. Ināʻaʻole lawa ka manaʻolana o ke kanaka, hiki paha iā ia ke manaʻoʻaʻoleʻo ia i like me ka mea āna i aloha ai i ka wahine. No laila, i ka manaʻo e hāʻawi aku i kāna kāne i kēlā makana, pono e hoʻomākaukau a pili pū me ka'ōlelo, keʻole naʻe me kaʻikeʻole. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa ma kēia hiʻohiʻona he papa papa e pili ana i kahiʻano pilina. E alohaʻo ia me kekahi kāne, no ka mea,ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka wahine ma mua o ka nohoʻoleʻana i nā keiki a hiki wale i ka wāʻelemakule.
Nā papahana o nā manawa aloha.
ʻAʻole i ka manawa lōʻihi, ua mālamaʻia nā haʻawina e hōʻike ana i ka honua i nāʻike kūʻokoʻa e pili ana i ka manaʻo o nā kāne i nā makana aloha a kā lākou mau wāhine aloha. ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona nui o kēia haʻawina,ʻo nā kāne wale nō 25 a 37 mau makahiki i noho ma kaʻoliʻoli male no ka liʻiliʻiʻelua mau makahiki i lilo i poʻe hui, aʻaʻole loa, ua mare,ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā makana aloha mai nā mea aloha.
No laila,ʻo ka mea pili nui loa iʻekolu mau mea. ʻO ka mea mua, he huakaʻi manaʻoʻole ia i loko o ke aloha o ke kūlanakauhale pō. ʻO nā mea o ka poʻe i noiʻi i ka loiloiʻana iā lākou iho i ka home-grown e'ōlelo ana i ka heleʻana i kahi alahele helehelena me kahi kūʻana i nā wahi hoʻokipa nui loa, i hopena i ka pō pōloli o ke aloha, iʻole ma kahi lumi hōkele a me ka motel hauʻoli, he mea mahalo loa ia no lākou. . ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i keʻano o ka hoʻomohalaʻana i nā pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine: ke kono pinepine mai neiʻo ia iā ia i nāʻano o nā hale - nā haleʻai, nā hale hoʻokipa, nā pāʻani, nā hale hoʻokipa. A hele waleʻo ia me ia i kona mau wahi i waeʻia. ʻO ka hopena, he mea huna ia no kāna kāne i kahi āna i alakaʻi ai iā ia, inā ua hāʻawiʻia ka kuleana o ka mea hāʻawi i nā wāhine.
ʻO ka lua,ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne male i ka wā e hāʻawiʻia ai nā pua. Ma keʻano pololei, ke hāʻawiʻia lākou e nā hoa, nā hoa, nā hoaaloha a me nā hoaaloha. Akā,ʻo kāna wahine, nani keʻokeʻo i kaʻulaʻula a me nā rosa - he nui nā kāne e'āpono e like me ka hōʻike i ke aloha. ʻAʻole lākou e haʻaheo e pili ana i kēia makana i ka lehulehu, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iho i ka mea pili.
ʻO ke kolu, nā makalekale, nā meaʻai, nā mea moe me nā hiʻohiʻona aloha - mahalo nui kēia mau kāne. ʻAʻole wale i kahi pōʻai nani, me ke kikoo ma kahi pahu. A ua palahalaha ma luna o kahi moe (inā he lole olonā) aiʻole ia e kauʻia ma luna o ka pā (delicacy). No lākou, ma kēia hihia,ʻaʻoleʻo ka makana pono'ī ke aloha, akāʻo konaʻano.