ʻO kekahi manawa makemake wau e hoʻokipa i koʻu mau hoaaloha, koʻu makuahine a me koʻu kaikuahine i koʻu mau hoaaloha. No ke aha eʻoluʻoluʻole ai,ʻaʻole hoʻi eʻoluʻolu i kou poʻe aloha? ʻAʻole pono eʻimi i ke kumu no ka hāʻawiʻana i makana no lākou. Akā, inā wikiwiki kahi kanaka i ka lā hānau, ua hiki mai ka wā e loaʻa ai kahi mea kūpono kūpono. I kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou no nā makana maikaʻi.
ʻO ka mea mua, he pono kouʻano. Ke makemakeʻoe i ka hauʻoli i nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole anei? E kono i kāu hoaaloha i kahi cafe aiʻole haleʻaina paha, e hoʻolālā i kahi hauʻoli. ʻOiai ināʻaʻole he kumu, e hele waleʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea maʻalahi ka hoʻokumuʻana i kahi'enela puniʻole iāʻoe iho, keʻoleʻoe i ka manawa nui.
He aha kāu e hāʻawi aku ai i kouʻohana?
No ka hoʻomaha a me keʻoliʻoli he mea maikaʻi! I kēia manawa, makemake wau e mahalo i koʻuʻohana. E hāʻawi i kāu mau kaikamāhine punahele? ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine keʻoluʻolu, e like me ka nānā muaʻana. ʻO kēia kahi makemake e loaʻa i kēia lā i makana?
Nā makana i kūponoʻole e hāʻawi i ka wahine (pokii, momhine, kaikuahine)
Aia kekahi mau mea kapu e ponoʻole e hāʻawi i kāu mea pili. Hikiʻole iā lākou ke leʻaleʻa i ka wahine a hōʻino wale i kona mau manaʻo. E hāʻawi iā lākou wale nō ināʻo ia e hōʻike iāʻoe no ia mea. No laila, eia kahi papa inoa hakahaka:
- Nā makana kūpono. ʻAʻole hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i nā hoa lole a iʻole nā mea pili'ē aʻe i kekahi hoa hana aiʻole i kekahi hoaaloha. Inā wale nō kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i noʻonoʻo. Ke hilinaʻi nei ia i kāu pilina. I kekahi hihia,ʻaʻole kēia ka makana maikaʻi loa loa, e like me nā mea hoʻonaʻauao.
- Nā hua meaʻai. Hiki i kekahi o lākou ke hōʻike i keʻano o ke kanaka a hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻino i ka wahine. ʻO kekahi laʻana, he makana o ka wana mai ka dandruff aiʻole kaʻaila mai nā wrinkles. Ma mua o kou hāʻawiʻana i kēia mea, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono, akāʻaʻoleʻoe e hōʻino i ke kanaka me kēia makana?
- "Nā makana no nā meaʻelua." Ma kēia lā,ʻaʻohe pono e hāʻawi i nāʻanoʻelua o nā makana, i kūkuluʻia no nā kānaka he nui. ʻO kēia e pili ana i kahi moe i luna o kahi moe moe, kahi kīʻaha a me nā kīʻaha paha. Ponoʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi makana i kahi kaikamahine wale nō,ʻaʻole kaʻohana.
- ʻO kekahi mau mea hale. Mai hāʻawi i ka wahine i ka pī a me ka pī. He mea hōʻeha ia i kekahi wahine. Ma hope o kēia, e makemake ana kēia mākaʻikaʻi e loaʻa kahi mea hoihoi a hoihoi.
He aha nā makana e koho ai?
Iā wai lā e hāʻawi ai? Ke hoʻomaka nei kēia nīnau i kahi'alane. Ke kali nei nā mea a pau iāʻoe i makana maikaʻi. E noʻonoʻo kākou i ka mea a me ka waiwai e hāʻawi ai.
I koʻu makuahine aloha
He aha ka mea e kali nei i kou makuahine aloha? Malia paha,ʻaʻole hiki ke koho i kahi makana i koʻu makuahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, uaʻike wikiwikiʻoe i kāna makemake e loaʻa. Ināʻaʻole, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolei i kekahi mau manaʻo.
Nā mea e pono ai no ka hale - pono mau. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai aku i kahi lole nani a iʻole kekahi huʻi lili makaliʻi. E mahaloʻo ia i kāu mau hana. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā aniani pale nani a i nā lima hana lima no ia. Inā pili ka makuahine i nā mea kahiko, hiki iāʻoe keʻimi i nā meaʻoluʻolu nona. E hauʻoliʻo ia.
Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai aku i kekahi mea mai nā mea lole. ʻO Tembole,ʻo ia ka mea e like me ke kaikamahine aloha i hiki ke kiʻi i kahi mea no kona makuahine aloha a koho paha i kona kāhikoʻana. Malia paha i haehae kona makuahine i kāna pēke, no laila ponoʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi hou.
Inā maikaʻi, hiki i ka miki ke hāʻawi i nā mea a pau, nā mea a pau. E kūʻai iā ia i nāʻano hoʻopalaʻau maikaʻi no ka mālamaʻana i kaʻili. ʻO ka mea nui eʻike i keʻano o konaʻili. E koho i ka'ōmole no nā wrinkles a no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana i kaʻili. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemakeʻoe e noho mau i ka wā'ōpio a nani.
Hiki iā Māmā ke hāʻawi i nā lako hana. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ke kōkua maikaʻi loa heʻano multivarker. No laila, inā hāʻawiʻia ka kālā, hiki iāʻoe keʻoluʻolu iā ia me kēia hoaaloha nani no ka lumi kuke.
Loaʻa ka hoa
No ka pono o ka hoaaloha, hiki a hiki keʻoki i kekahi mau "taboos" ma nā makana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā he pili piliʻo ia me ia, a laila kūpono e hāʻawi i ka lole dazhenie. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i kahu maikaʻi, āna i moe lōʻihi ai.
Inā makemake kekahi hoaaloha e heluhelu, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kāna mau puke hoihoi. Ponoʻoe eʻike i konaʻono. Ke hula neiʻo ia i ka hula a iʻole ka hoʻolālā? E hāʻawi i kāu inoa. Eʻike wale i ka mea i moe aiʻo ia no ka hala koke nei. Malia paha ua hoʻokuʻuʻo ia i waho a hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohauʻoli iā ia me kahi makana maikaʻi a maikaʻi.
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi pinepine i kekahi i kekahi, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā meaʻono wale nō. Inā he meaʻai kāmaʻa kāu hoaaloha, a laila hiki iāʻoe keʻimi i ke kī mua no ia. Paipai mākou iāʻoe e ho'āʻo i keʻano uliuli mai Thailand. E ana anaʻo ia i ka mea.
Pākahi ma ka hana
He aha e koho ai no kā lākou mau hoa hana? Makemake wau eʻoluʻolu, akā i ka manawa likeʻoleʻaʻole pono ka makana. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā'atile banal a hāʻawi paha i nā pua. Hāʻawi mau ka wahine i kaʻono i ka makana.
I kaʻu kaikamahine aloha
Hoʻoleʻa ia ma ka makahiki o kāu kaikamahine. Inā uaʻelemakuleʻo ia, a lailaʻo nā makana he "mākua". ʻAʻole hiki ke hana i kēia mahele. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā mea hou mai nā kapaʻaʻahu. Inā ua lōʻihi ka noiʻana o ke kaikamahine e kūʻai i ka meaʻala, aia ka manawa e hoʻokō ai i kona makemake.
Hiki i kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i kahi mea pāʻani a iʻole kahi hōʻailona keiki. E lawe mai i kahi kikoena. Hōʻike i ka noʻonoʻo. E hāʻawi i kāu keiki punahele i kahi makana maikaʻi. ʻO kekahi laʻana, kahi'āpana o nā kāleka. He meaʻono. Ua mālamaʻia kahi manaʻo maikaʻi no ke keiki.
Manaʻo mākou e hiki iā mākou ke kōkua i ke kohoʻana i kahi makana no kāu mau wāhine aloha a kokoke. I kēia lā, hōʻikeʻoe i kāu poʻe aloha i kou aloha a mahalo nui iā lākou. Mai poina e pili ana i kāu poʻe i alohaʻia. ʻAʻole nui ka uku o ka makana,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo kou nānā. E hoʻopili iāʻoe iho a me kāu poʻe i aloha.