ʻO ka hālāwai nui loa, i kapaʻiaʻo ka maleʻana, e hoʻohiki mau ana e piha a piha. Wahi a kekahi o nā kuʻuna o Europa he hoʻokahi mea liʻiliʻi loa kekahi -ʻo ka "ʻaina mua ma kaʻaina mare", kahi i mālama nuiʻia e nā wāhine male a me nā wāhine. ʻO kaʻaina mare, he hālāwai ia ma waena o ka wahine mare a me nā mākua, nā mākua, nā pilikū a me nā makamaka pili, i mea eʻike ai kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ka hanana nui e hiki mai ana, a laila e pili kokoke ana nāʻohanaʻelua i kekahi i kekahi. He aha kāu e pono ai eʻike inā hoʻoholoʻoe e hoʻohana i kēia moʻomeheu hou?
- ʻO ka mea mua, ka manawa a me kahi o kaʻahaʻaina. He kūlana kūponoʻole kēia hana, no laila,ʻaʻole pono e lilo i kahi haleʻaina. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi pikiniki, kahi puka waho o ke kūlanakauhale aiʻole ka barbecue ma ka hale. ʻO ka lāʻaina ahiahi mua loa e hoʻomākaukau i kekahi mau lā ma mua o ka maleʻana, no ka mea, i ka wā o ka pō, e nui ka hopohopo ma mua o ka hoʻomaha nui.
- ʻO wai ka mea e hoʻonohonoho i kēiaʻaina ahiahi? Hiki ke hoʻolālāʻia kēia lālani e nā mākua o ka wahine male a me ke kāne, kaʻohana a iʻole nā hoaaloha paha. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka pōʻai o ka poʻe i konoʻia i kēia hanana, aiʻole he lā hoʻomaha no nāʻohana a me nā hoaaloha kokoke, a he lā hoʻomaha wale nō no nāʻohana, i mea eʻike ai kekahi i kekahi.
- He aha ka mea e hana ai no nā malihini i kaʻaina mare mua? ʻO kēia paha kekahi o nā hihia nui loa. E like me ka hoʻolālāʻana i kēia hopena, hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i nā hoaaloha a me nā hoahānau ke hoʻonohonoho i ka hōʻikeʻana o nā kiʻi me ke kōkua o nā paʻi kiʻi o ka mea hou hou, e hōʻike i kā lākou kiʻi pūnaewele. Hiki i nā'ōpiopio ke haʻi i ka moʻolelo o kā lākou mauʻike, e haʻi i ko lākou aloha, e hāʻawi i kā lākou mau hoʻohikiʻana i kākauʻia i kekahi i kekahi. Hiki iāʻoe ke nānā i ke kōkua o nā mākua i ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i kaʻahaʻainaʻana a hāʻawi iā lākou i nā makana liʻiliʻi. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i nā hakakā -ʻo wai ka meaʻike i ka maikaʻi o ka wahine mare a me ke kāne. A hiki iāʻoe ke kamaʻilio wale me nā poʻe kama'āina, e kūkākūkā i nāʻano likeʻole o nā kāne (ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi). I kēlā me kēia hihia,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mea nāna e hoʻonoho nei i kēiaʻahaʻaina e like me kāna mau'ōlelo meʻoe, iʻole e hihia.
ʻO kekahi laʻana, ma kekahi mau'āina Komohana, ua kapaʻia kahiʻaina ahiahi ma mua o keʻahaʻaina he hōʻailona pihaʻana o kaʻahaʻaina mare, aʻo kekahi manawa heʻahaʻaina hou.
I kēia manawa, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i nā loina a me nā hana maʻamau i kekahi lā nui.
- ʻO ka wahine hōʻailona o ka hōʻailona mare,ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā loina maikaʻi loa a me kaʻoluʻolu o ka maleʻana. Hāʻawi aku ka wahine mare i kahi manawa i kekahi o kāna mau hoaaloha i mareʻoleʻia e mare i ka makahiki hoʻokahi. Hāʻawi kekahi mau wāhine i ka puaʻa ma hope pono o ka maleʻana, makemake kekahi e hana i ka wāʻahaʻaina, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe i loko o ka pale o ka hui.
- ʻO Garter o ka wahine mare - uaʻike kokeʻia kēiaʻano kuhikahi, a he mea kaulana loa i ka maleʻana. Eia nā mea a pau e like me kahi pōʻai, akā ma kēiaʻano, ua weheʻia ke kāpena e ka kāne mare a hoʻolei aku i kāna mau hoa i mareʻoleʻia e hopu, e mareʻo ia i kēia makahiki.
- Home -ʻo kēia mau hana maʻamau ka mea i kapaʻiaʻo ka Russian kahiko, no ka mea, ua hoʻonāʻia ka pū ahi i nā wā kahiko. I kēia lā, ua hoʻomālamalamaʻia ka umu ahi e nā makuahine o ka wahine mare a me ke kāne wahine, a laila e hoʻololi ana i nā loina, ka lokahi a me kaʻike o nāʻohana i ka poʻe'ōpiopio. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hanaʻia kēia ma nā kukui kukui.
- ʻO ka hula mare mua, ma ka nānā muaʻana,ʻaʻole like ia e like me ke kuʻuna,ʻoiai he mea hōʻike kēia o nā lole a me nā hula hula. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i ka hula mua o nā kāne hou, uaʻikeʻia ko lākou pilinaʻana,ʻo ke kuʻikahi a me nā manaʻo likeʻole.
- ʻO kaʻaʻahu mare, aʻo konaʻala keʻokeʻo, he kahiko kahiko nō hoʻi ia. Ma hope aʻe, he keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo, e like me kouʻike,ʻo ke kala o ka maʻemaʻe, ka launa, ka hala halaʻole. I kēia manawa, ua nānā hou nā wahine hānai hou i nā kuʻuna i hoʻokumuʻia a me ka hoʻololiʻana i kēia kuʻuna, e koho ana i nāʻano likeʻole, i kekahi manawa kekahi mauʻano "non-wedding": mai ka'ōmaʻomaʻaʻeleʻele, ʻeleʻele aʻeleʻele paha ((he emiʻole keʻano maoli, akā he wahi kahi e pili ana).
A noʻonoʻo, i kēia lā e lilo i mea poinaʻole loa i kou ola, a iāʻoe e koho i keʻano o nā loina a me nāʻano maʻamau i kāu maleʻana, no laila ua piha kēia lā iāʻoe wale nō me nā manaʻo maikaʻi.