ʻO kaʻahaʻainaʻana he hōʻuluʻulu o nāʻano hoʻomana i kūkuluʻia ma nā hanana he nui. Ma ka mahele Slavic he nui nāʻano likeʻole mai ke komohana. ʻO ka liʻiliʻi, inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kaʻahaʻaina hou. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka manawa o kā mākouʻahaʻainaʻana, he mea nui ka hana a nā mākua o ka wahine male a me ke kāne. ʻO nā makua kāne a me nā makuahine ma ka maleʻana o kā lākou mau kaikamāhine a me nā keiki aloha i hana i nā hana kūikawā, a mākou e kamaʻilio hou aku.
ʻO nāʻano maʻamau no nā mākua o ke kāne i ka maleʻana, ua like nō ia i nāʻano he nui no nā mākua o ka wahine mare. Eia naʻe, he mauʻokoʻa. Ināʻoe e nānā i ka wā i hala, ua hōʻikeʻia nā kuʻuna no nā mākua o ka poʻe kāne male ma ka male male ma nā mele a me nā'ōlelo waha. I ke au o kēia ao, ua hoʻololiʻia a ua hōʻoleʻia paha kēia mau mea, akā, aia nō nā hana maʻamau i hanaʻia ma ka maleʻana.
Ka huiʻana i nā'ōpio me ka berena a me ka paʻakai
No laila, he aha ka mea e pono ai ke hana i ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine o ke kāne i ka maleʻana? E hoʻomaka kākou me kekahi o nāʻoihana mare nui loa,ʻo ia nā moʻolelo e kauoha mai iā kākou e hoʻohanohano a hoʻokō. He hoʻomākaukau kēia no ka "berena a me ka paʻakai", a ka makuahine o ke kāne mare e hana ai. Ma hope o ka male a male paha o ka poʻe'ōpio, hele lākou i ka home, kahi e kali ai ka makuahine o ka makua kāne iā lākou. ʻO kēia kumu kuʻuna ke kumu o ka wā i hala aku nei, i ka manawa i hele ai ka wahine'ōpio ma hope o ka maleʻana me ka wahine i hoʻopalauʻia, a ma ka paepae ua hālāwaiʻo ia me kona makuahōnōwai wahine. Hāʻawiʻo ia i ka palaoa a me ka paʻakai palaoa, e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli o ka heleʻana o kekahi lālā hou o kaʻohana, a me ka makemake e ola i ka maluhia a me ka pōmaikaʻi. Hāʻawi ka makuahine o ka wahine kāne i ka wahine mare i ka meaʻono, e kau ana ma luna o kahi nani rushnyk. Aia ma ka piko o ka caravan he wahi liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi. I ka heleʻana o ka poʻe hou i ka hale, hele ka makuahine a me ka makua kāne o ke kāne mare i ko lāua puka. Pono ka makuahine eʻai i ka popo ma kona lima, a mālama ka makua kāne i ka'ōleʻa. I ka huiʻana o kahi'ōpiopio'ōpio, ua hāʻawi ka makuahine o ka wahine kāne iā lāua i kaʻai, nele i ka pōmaikaʻi, ka waiwai, ka waiwai, a me ke aloha. A laila hoʻopōmaikaʻi ka makuahine a me ka makua kāne i nā'ōpio ma mua o ka'ōleʻa. Ma hope iho o kēlā mau mākua i hoʻolimalima iā lākou i loko o ka hale a eʻono i ka palaoa a me ka paʻakai. ʻO ka wahine mare a me ke kāne mare e uhaki ana i ka pāʻina a komo i ka paʻakai. Ma ke ala, pono ka makuahine o ka wahine mare e hōʻoia ma hope o kēia mea,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe e pili i ka pōā. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like me ka manaʻo inā inā hoʻopā kekahi meaʻino i kahi papaʻa aiʻole e hele aku mai ona aku, hiki i nāʻohana ke pilikia. Ma hope o ka mareʻana, kāpīpī ka makuahine o ka wahine kāne i ka pāʻina ma rushnyk a lawe aku i ka halepule, a waihoʻia ma ka papa aloha, i mea hauʻoli kaʻohana'ōpio a noho i ka pōmaikaʻi.
Ma hope o ka'ōpiopioʻana o nā'ōpiopio i kaʻai,ʻo ka hana a nā mākua kāne ke kāne,ʻo ia ke kāpīpī iā lākou i nā'āpana a me ka palaoa. Ma ke ala, ua mālamaʻia kēiaʻano hoʻomana e kokoke ana i ke keʻena kikowai. Akā, hiki ke kāpīpī i nā mea a pau, akā ma ka home, makemakeʻia e hana pololeiʻia e ka makua a me ka makuahine o nā'ōpio. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma muli o kēlāʻano palauaha, ua hoʻomaikaʻiʻo Mom a me Makua i kahi'ōpio'ōpio no ke ola waiwai a pōmaikaʻi i ko lākou home hou.
Eia kekahi, aia nā mākua o ke kāne mare e hoʻoponopono i kahi'āpana liʻiliʻi ma hope o ka hanaʻana i kēia mauʻoihana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pinepine ka poʻe'ōpio a me nā malihini i ka hale ma mua o ka pāʻani, ma hope o ka holoholoʻana i ke kūlanakauhale. No laila, pono ka makuahine a me ka makua e hoʻomākaukau i ka Champagne, inu a me nā pōpilikia, i hiki i ka wahine mare a me nā kāne a pau e hele pū me lākou, hoʻomaha iki, hoʻomaha a loaʻa ka ikaika no kaʻahaʻaina.
ʻO kaʻainaʻaina
I kaʻahaʻaina mare, nā mea i mālamaʻia e ka makuahine o ka wahine mare. No nā mākua o nā kāne kāne, hiki i ka makua ke kiʻi i nā'ōpiopio a kau i ka papaʻaina. ʻO ka maʻamau, ua halaʻekolu mau papa. Akā naʻe, hiki ke hanaʻia kēia hana e ka makua kāne o ka wahine mare. Hoʻopiliʻia ia mea i ka manaʻo o nā mea hana a me nā'ōpio. I loko o kaʻahaʻaina hoʻokipa, hoʻokipa mau nā poʻe'ōpio me ko lākou mau mākua. Akā,ʻo ka hula o ka makua kāne o ke kāne a me ka wahine mare e manaʻoʻia he kuʻuna.
Ināʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo iki i nā manaʻo loea o ka lāʻaina mare,ʻo nā mākua o ke kāne mare,ʻo ka mea nuiʻole,ʻo ia ke kuleana no nā kaʻa a me ke kākoʻoʻana,ʻoiaiʻo ka mea hoʻokele a me ka mea hoʻohana ke kiʻi mua i ko lākou hale. Ma nāʻaoʻao'ē aʻe, ua māhele likeʻia nā hana a nā mākua o ka wahine mare a me ka wahine kāne e pili ana i ka mākaukau.