Ke makaʻu nei nā kānaka ikaika i nā wāhine ikaika


ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā i ka makaʻu o ko mākou mau kānaka ikaika i nā wāhine ikaika ka mea nāna e hānai kā lākou mau keiki, e hana ana i ka hana maikaʻi, a ua haʻaheo hoʻiʻo lākou wale nō. Ke manaʻo nei au i ko mākou manawa, he nui nā wāhine e manaʻo nei he kanaka kaumaha ia. I kahi e inu ai a meaʻole paha ka mea e hana ai, eʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka wahine ma ka mea hoʻokahi wale nō, a no ka mea, ua hoʻomaka ka wahine e manaʻo heʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a me ka maʻalahi. A me kēia mau manaʻo, hoʻomaka lākou eʻike i nā makemake a me nā moeʻuhane. Hoʻomaha iki lākou i ka nele i kahi kōkua o kekahi, no ka mea e hoʻomaka ana kēlā mau wāhine e ola ma keʻano "ʻaʻole e hana kekahi i ka mea maikaʻi ma mua oʻu",ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi iā lākou ke hana i kekahi mea ma mua o ka hilinaʻiʻana o kekahi, no ka mea, ua hanaʻo ia i ka hana pono'ī, , ua hanaʻia ka hana me kahi mele. ʻAʻole i hoʻohanaʻia kēlā mau wāhine i kaʻaeʻana i ke kōkua mai nā kāne, aʻaʻole makemake nui nā kāne e kōkua i kēlā wahine.

A no ka launa pūʻana me kāna kaikamahine, ua pili mākou i nā kumumanaʻo e hopohopo nei i ka hapalua nani o ka Honua, ka mea eʻaʻahu ai, kahi e holo ai a, aʻo nā mea kāne. Ua'ōlelo mākou ua nāwaliwali ka wahine a he mea kōkua mau kāna, inā paha he mea a he meaʻuhane. Ua'ōlelo mākou ma kēia kumu kumu no ka meaʻo ia wale nō e hānai mai i ke keiki, aʻo ke kōkua iā iaʻaʻole ia e hele.

Heʻano maʻalahiʻo ia a me ka liʻiliʻi i kahi kanakaʻuʻuku iʻikeʻole i ke noiʻana i ke kōkuaʻana mai o nā kāne, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻike pono i kona makemake. Makemakeʻo ia i kēlā kanaka pono'ī eʻike i kāna mea e makemake ai a hāʻawi iā ia iho me kaʻole o nā noi. Eia naʻe, e kali ana no "ke kai o ka moana"ʻaʻole ka manawa aiʻole ka ike, ponoʻoe e ola a ola. A i kekahi manawa, ua manaʻoʻo iaʻo ka noiʻana i ke kōkua mai nā kāne ma lalo o kona kūlana kiʻekiʻe. Eia naʻe, ke mālama nei kekahi mau kānaka i ke kōkua ma muli o ka ponoʻole. ʻAʻole pono ia. Kōkua, makana, hele, nā haleʻaina - hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa me ka noiʻole. A keʻae nei lākou i kēia mea a pau, no ka mea uaʻoi aku ka nui o ko lākou uku. Pehea e hanaʻia ai kēia? No ke aha i noi mai ai kekahi mea aʻaʻole hoʻi i loaʻa, aʻo wai ka meaʻaʻole i noi, akā loaʻa?

I ka manawa i hala koke aku nei, ua kāhea aku kona hoaaloha iā ia e hoʻomaha, a ua haʻi maiʻo ia iaʻu i ka mea weliweli. Ua liloʻo ia i wahine ikaikaʻole i hikiʻole ke hele aku i kahi'ē. Ua'ōleloʻo ia,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke uku aʻaʻole hoʻiʻo ia e kaena no ke kiʻi e hele mai ana,ʻoiaiʻo ia e hoʻohenehene iā ia i ka hikiʻole. A laila ua loaʻa iā ia kahiʻae e hoʻomaha ma kāna uku. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i hoʻopunipuni e like me ka wahine kōkuaʻole, a ua liloʻo ia i moku no ka wāwahi, me ka'ōleloʻanaʻaʻole hiki iā ia. No ke aha e ikaika ai nā wāhine, ma laila e hōʻehaʻeha i nā kāne a me kā lākou mālama a kōkua, ināʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka lilo iāʻoe iho, he wahine nāwaliwali,ʻoʻoe paha, a laila i loko o kekona wale nō ke konoʻia i loko o kāuʻeke? ʻAʻole hiki ke maʻalahi ka nāwaliwali? ʻAe,ʻo ka pono no ka wahine e hoʻomalu i ka ikaika, akā,ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ke lilo i ka mea āuʻaʻole. Ka ikaika i ka nawaliwali. He mea pono wale nō e lilo i nāwaliwali a hāʻule nā ​​kānaka i nā'āpana e kōkua i ka mea nāwaliwali. ʻO ia ka mana. Akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo heʻano palupaluʻoe, e hoʻohālike paha i ka nāwaliwali, e kōkua a kōkua mai i nā kānaka, e noʻonoʻo,ʻaʻole haʻaheo. I ka mea e pono ai, pono ka wahine maalea,ʻaʻole ikaika. A e ike hoi ka wahine, ua ikaika ka ikaika.

Ke makaʻu nei kekahi kanaka i ka wahine lanakila ikaika. Inā hoʻopiʻi kahi wahine i ka lexus, a he Ford wale nō ia, a laila ma keʻano, e hoʻonuiʻo ia i nāʻili haʻahaʻa. A no kekahi kumu i loko o ko kākou ao,ʻaʻohe e like (inā paha heʻuʻuku, aʻaʻole wau iʻike e like me ia), ma hope o ka ho'āʻoʻana o ua kanaka nei eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka wahine, no kekahi kumu e hoʻomaka aiʻo ia e huhū iā ia a inaina iā ia. A no kēia mea,ʻaʻole i nā kānaka wale nō, akā , makaʻu nā kānaka ikaika i nā wāhine ikaika .

Ma ka'āina, ua kaulana ka'ōlelo e pili ana i kahi wahine, "a ma loko o ka hale ahi e komo aiʻo ia ae hoʻomaha ka lio i ka heihei." ʻAʻole anei ke kuleana o ke kanaka e komo i loko o kahi hale ahi a mālama i kahi ahi i kahi wahine e uē ana no ke kōkua ma kēlā hale me nā kīʻaha? ʻAʻole anei ka hana a ke kanaka e hoʻopau i ka lio ma ka heihei e hoʻopakele i ka wahine e noho lā ma luna o kēlā lio? Ua pau ka ikaika o ko mākou mau kānaka ikaika. ʻAe, ua hoʻomaha wale lākou, no ka mea hiki i ka wahine ke hana i nā mea a pau nona, no ka mea he ikaika ia. E kuʻiʻo ia i ka kui, eʻailaʻo ia a hoʻomākaukau, e hoʻomoeʻo ia i ka hiamoe, a nāna e lawe mai i kēlā kālā i loko o ka hale. He aha ka hana a ke kanaka ia manawa? Aʻo ko mākou hapalua ikaika kaʻokiʻana i ka moe a me ka hukiʻana i ka TV. Hoʻonāwaliwali mākou i ka ikaika i ka palaualelo, e hoʻohālike ana he ikaika. ʻAʻole wau e kahaha inā pili koke ka'ōlelo e pili ana i nā wāhine "he wahine pono e hana i nā meaʻekolu i loko o kona ola: kanu i kahi lāʻau, kūkulu hale, a hānau i ke kaikamahine" ... a no ke aha e loaʻa ai iā kāua keiki? Inā hiki i ke kaikamahine ke hana like?

A no kāna kūkākūkāʻana i kāna huakaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana, ua'ōleloʻo ia, eʻoi aku ka nui o nā kānaka e makemake e uku i kāu huakaʻi ma waho ... aiʻole nā ​​kānaka maoli. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au aia i kēlā kanaka i kēia kanaka he kanaka maoli e hiamoe ana,ʻaʻoleʻo ia wale nō ka uku e hele ai i ka'āina'ē, akā i ko mākou ola a pau,ʻo ia wale nō nāʻaʻahu nani a me nā hale kūʻai maikaʻi. ʻO kahi wahine wale nō e pono e lilo i wahine maoli,ʻo ia hoʻi, he wahine palupalu, akā e paʻi pololei i ke kāne,ʻo ia ke kanaka maoli e ala. A laila, i loko o ko mākou ola,ʻaʻohe kanaka makemake e uku, akā, aia nō nā kānaka maoli e mākaukau e halihali iā mākou i ko lākou mau lima.