ʻO ka kū'ē'ē ma waena o ka makuahōnōwai a me ka hūnōna wahine mai ka manawa o ka hanaʻana o ke ao nei he'ōlelo ho'ākāka maoli. ʻO ka manawa maʻamau ka heleʻana o ke kaikuaʻana i kona huhū, aʻaʻole makemake ka'ōpio e hoʻomaopopo iā ia. Akā, no ke aha e hoʻowahāwahā ai nāʻuhane e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi? ʻO ka mea like, ua aloha nā makuahōnōwai a me ka hūnōna wahine i kēlā kanaka,ʻoiai me nā aloha likeʻole. Ma hea ke kumu o ka inaina? No laila, makuahōnōwai wahine a hūnōna wahine: ke kūkōkiko o ka pilinaʻo ia ke kumu o ka kamaʻilioʻana no kēia lā.
ʻOiaiʻo ka makuahōnōwai wahine a me ka hūnōna wahine e hōʻikeʻole i ka hōʻinoʻana i kekahi i kekahi,ʻo ka pinepine o kā lākou kamaʻilioʻana e like me ka manawa kūleʻa a me ka maʻalahi a me ka pale kauaʻole. A, e like me ka mea iʻikeʻia, ua nui nā meaʻelua i nā hana kaua i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma ka manaʻo o nā kānaka noiʻi loiloi,ʻo ke kumu o ka pilina, i lōʻihi loa i kamaʻilioʻia e ke kūlanakauhale, ua hūnā pinepineʻia ma nāʻano pilikino o "ka lua o ka makua". No laila,ʻo nā kaikamāhine a pau i hikiʻole ke kaena aku i kahi pilinaʻole me ke kāne o kāna kāne, pono eʻike mua i keʻano o ko lākou makuahōnōwai wahine, a laila, me ke kōkua o ka'ōlelo aʻo akamai, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaha i ke kūlana. I ka manaʻo nui,ʻaʻohe paʻakikī kēia. He makemake. Ma hope o ka hoʻonuiʻana i nā haʻawina nui, ua hoʻokaʻawale nā mea loiloi i ka "makuahōnōwai" i nā huiʻehā.
Domineering
Eʻoi aku ka pololei o ka kapaʻana i kēia wahine i ka mea nona ka hale. Ua maopopo loa kēia makuahōnōwai i nā mea a pau o konaʻohana,ʻo ia hoʻi, kāna kāne a me kāna mau keiki, he waiwai ponoʻole kāna iā ia - ma kahi pā me kona waiwai kahiko,ʻo ia he dacha, he kaʻa, a he waiwai'ē aʻe paha o ke ola.
He mea maʻalahi kēiaʻano hoʻokomo. ʻOiai,ʻo ka wahine e like me ka makemake i ke poʻo o kaʻohana, a hopu koke ia i ka maka o nā mea a pau e komo i loko o kona hale. Akā, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia kēia hana me kaʻike piha o nā kāne kāne o kaʻohana. ʻO nā kāne kāne a he kāne a he māmāʻo ia ka hopena hope loa o ka hoʻonuiʻana o ka hale.
A noʻonoʻo e noʻonoʻo ka mea e hiki aku i kēia wahine ke hele maiʻo ia i ka hooilo i ke dacha a hopu i kahi pahu ma laila, ai ole ia, e holo ana i loko o ka pā i ka leo o ka mea kani, hopu i ka'ōpio palaualelo, e huki i kāna kaʻa, ma ka lima. ʻAe, e haehaeʻo ia i nā mea a pau eʻaʻa e hoʻopili i kāna waiwai pono'ī! A he mea pono paha e wehewehe e like me keʻano e hana aiʻo ia i ka hūnōna wahine,ʻoiai, e like me kaʻaihue pōā, lalau aʻaihueʻia mai kāna keiki aloha. ʻO kēia wale nō ke hoʻopilikiaʻia kēia pilikia e ka mea hikiʻole ke hoʻopaʻiʻia ka homeless a me ka hijacker me ke kōkuaʻana o nā poʻe mālama kānāwai a no laila e hoʻonuiʻia ka haʻaheo. Aʻo ka hūnōna wahine i loko o ka hale paʻahao no ka hōʻailona ma ka palapala holoport, iʻole,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kau. Ke waiho wale neiʻo ia i kahi pōhaku ma kona umauma a ola me ka manaolana e hoʻihoʻiʻo ia i kekahi waiwai i ka lā i meaʻole. ʻO ia ka loilokamai o nā pilina ...
Ka 'ahahui o ka hūnōna wahine
E ho'āʻo e like me ka hikiʻole ke hiki i ka makuahonowai wahine o kāna kāne ma ka home. Mai hoʻoikaika i ka heleʻana o kāu kāne i kona makuahine wale nō. Akā, he meaʻino hoʻi ke hoʻopau loa i ka pilina -ʻo kēia ka mea e hoʻonui aku i kou kū'ēʻana. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ināʻoe e kono pinepine i kou makuahōnōwai eʻike iāʻoe. Ma kahi'āina'ē, e hōʻoloʻoʻoleʻo ia. A i kaʻikeʻana o kāu pūnanaʻohana ikaika, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo loaʻiaʻo ia e ola ana kāna keikikāne, kahi e piliʻole ai kāna "palapala hōʻike waiwai".
Liliā
Loaʻa ka manaʻo liliʻuʻuku -ʻo ka manawa e liliʻia e ka wahine i nā poʻe a pau me kaʻole o ko lākou noho āpau, me ka nānāʻole i ko lākou male a me nā makahiki. ʻO keʻano o konaʻanoʻo ia ke hana nei i kēia mau mea a pau o kona olaʻana. Ma keʻano he kamaliʻi, ua liliʻo ia i ke kumu i kekahi haumāna, a me kona kaikaina i kona mau mākua. Ke lilo i ke kanaka makua, ke kanaka pilikino mai ka lalo i ka hoa noho ma kaʻaoʻao, ka luna - i kahi hoa hana a me ke kaikuaʻana - i kāna wahine. A inā he wahine makuahine kēia wahine, e manaʻo nuiʻo ia e lili i kāna keiki i kāna mea i koho ai. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, uaʻoi aʻe ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i kēia manaʻo ma mua o ka hae "no ke aloha". Maanei,ʻo kaʻai no ka lili - he nānā wale a koho i kekahi mea'ē aʻe no ka hana masochism. ʻO kēia keʻano maʻamau loa i ka makuahine a me ka hūnōna wahine - ke kūkino ma waena o nā pilina e pili ana i ka lili - ke hāʻawiʻia aku ka naʻauao nui o nā poʻe akamai.
Ka 'ahahui o ka hūnōna wahine
E like me ka mea i'ōleloʻia ma luna,ʻaʻole nā loilokino e'ōlelo i nā kālaiʻike hoʻonaʻauao e hoʻokuʻu wale i kāna kāne e hele i ka makuahine. Akā ma kēiaʻano, e kū'ē pololei ana ka'ōlelo. E hele nui kāu kāne e kipa i kou makuahine. E hauʻoli loa kou makuahōnōwai wahine i ka hui pūʻana o kāna keiki. No laila, hiki i kāu kāne ke pale i ka lili o kona makuahōnōwai a hoʻokumu i nā mea e pono ai no kou noho maluhiaʻana.
Weak
ʻO ka wahine o kēiaʻanoʻaʻole i maopopo iā ia iho. Me he mea lāʻaʻoleʻo ia e palekana me ka hikiʻole iā ia ke ola i ka lā hoʻokahi me ke poʻo o ka mea ikaika. Akā, ua like keʻano i ka mea pili i ka poʻohiwi i kahi a ma laila - no nā kumu likeʻole. Malia paha he kanaka make wale ia - he makuahine hoʻokahi, hemo a makua kāne paha. A iʻole paha he kāne ponoʻo ia aiʻole he hoaaloha maikaʻi, akā,ʻaʻole pono ka hana o ka manaʻolana a me ke kākoʻo. Akā he wahine palupalu he keiki kāne i mareʻoleʻia e halihali ana i kāna mau'ekeʻake kaumaha, lawe iā ia i ke keʻena lapaʻau a hālāwai me ia kokoke i ka metro ke hoʻi maiʻo ia mai ka poʻe malihini mai i ka pō. Pehea, pehea e pili ai kēia wahine i ka hūnōna wahine, nāna e lawe i ka manawa a kāna keiki ae lawe aku i ke keiki hānai mai loko mai o kaʻohana?
Ka 'ahahui o ka hūnōna wahine
E mālama i ka hoʻololi i kona kūlana ma keʻano he kahu. E hoʻomau i ka laweʻana i kāna meaʻai, hoʻoponopono i kāna plula aʻike i kona home i kona wā e kipa aku ai iāʻoe. Mai'ōhumuʻoe i kāna kāne, inā ma hope o ka hana, e kipaʻo ia i kona makuahine no hoʻokahi hola aʻelua paha. Inā maopopo i kou makuahōnōwai wahineʻaʻole i emi iho ka nānāʻana i ke kula, e hoʻomakaʻo ia e hana maikaʻi iāʻoe.
Kau kahiko
Ma muli o kona hānaiʻana i nā mākua kāne,ʻaʻole hiki i kēia wahine, me ka makemake a pau, ke'āpono i nā hanauna hou. ʻO ka mīkini pale a me nā apo pepeiao o nā hūnōna wahine āna iʻike ai he mea hōʻino wale, aʻo ka lauʻulaʻula o kou lauoho e lilo ia i kumu kumuʻole no ka haʻiʻana iāʻoe ma keʻano o ka meaʻole i loko o kona hale. ʻAʻoleʻo ia wale nō i maopopo i kāu hopena kani aʻike i ka moekolohe i nā manaʻo o ka'ōpio ma ka moekoloheʻana. Ua hoʻonohonohoʻia kēlā makuahōnōwai wahine no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki ke hanaʻia kekahiʻohana maikaʻi me kahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio i kēlā me kēiaʻano.
Ka 'ahahui o ka hūnōna wahine
ʻO kēlā me kēia manawa e kamaʻilio aiʻoe me kou makuahōnōwai wahine, mai hōʻino i nā mea hoʻonani maikaʻi a me nā mea pale mua. Aʻo wai ka mea iʻike, he aha inā inā eʻahu ke kulu mele a me ka'āpana lace i ka makuahine makuaʻole? Hiki paha i kāna kāne ke hoʻomaka e mahalo iāʻoe. E mākaʻikaʻi i kou makuahōnōwai me ka mālamaʻana i kāna kāne. A ma ke kūkākūkāʻana i ka papaʻainaʻaʻole e hōʻino i nā manawa "pale", mai hoʻohana i nā hua'ōlelo mai ka'ōpiopio'ōpio. Hiki paha i kāuʻano haʻahaʻa, i ka hopena, e hoʻoheheʻe i ka puʻuwai o ka conservative.