ʻO ka hapanui o mākou e makemake e lilo i mau hoaaloha me ke kāne hoʻokahi. Manaʻoʻiaʻo ia wale nō "hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo, hānai, mahana - i loko o kahi hua'ōlelo, e pani i kahi poohiwi aloha inā makemakeʻia. Akā, no ke aha lā i moe ai nā wāhine he nui i ke kāne kāne (ʻo ia he hoaaloha,ʻaʻole he aloha)? Heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke aloha me ke kāne ma mua o ka wahine. A he mau pilina likeʻole paha kēia e pili ana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe? No keʻano o ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine i ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, a e kūkākūkāʻia ma lalo nei.
KE MINUSES OF HUI I NĀ WAHINE
ʻOiai,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana o ka hoaaloha pili ponoʻoleʻo ia he hewa. Aia kekahi mea e hele mai a lawe i kouʻuhane ma ka hōʻinoʻana i kāu kāne no ka mea o ke ao nei e kū nei. Aia kekahi mea e hele i ke kūʻai a i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni (hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hoʻohuli i kāu iho me ka māne!) Aia kekahi e hele pū me nā keiki i ka papa aiʻole i kahi pāʻani papa me nā keiki. ʻO ka hopena, aia kahi mea e kūkākūkā ai i ka meaʻono a me ka hoʻopiʻi no ka mea houʻoleʻoe e komo i kāu mau momona punahele. E hoʻolohe ana kahi hoaaloha aloha, hōʻoluʻolu, a kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā pilikia likeʻole. A e kōkuaʻo ia iāʻoe. Me he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau, he aha e makemake ai. Akā, ua hoʻololiʻia, aia nā lua i loko o ka pilina wahine, a me keʻoluʻolu loa.
- Ke aloha nei au i kuʻu hoaaloha, he mau hoaaloha mākou iā ia mai ke kula, - wahi a Marina. - Ma loko o nā makahiki, ua kōkua nui kekahi i kekahi me ka hikiʻole iā lākou ke helu. Ua lilo mākou i poʻe kokoke loa, kokoke i ka lāhui. Akā,ʻike wau i kahi hoaaloha e hāʻawi like me aʻu i ke kaumaha ma mua o ka hauʻoli. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka wā e haʻi aku ai au ua hoʻolalaʻia wau a hoʻonui i koʻu uku a iʻole he kanaka maikaʻi e nānā mai nei iaʻu, e like me keʻano o kona manaʻo. Aʻoiaiʻo ia e ho'āʻo ana e hōʻike i kona hauʻoli no aʻu, akā, keʻike nei wau i nā'ōlelo wahaheʻe e holo i kona leo. I ka paneʻana i kaʻu mau'ōlelo, hoʻomakaʻo ia e hoʻopiʻi no ka meaʻaʻohe mea nāna e hāʻawi i ke kālā iā ia, aʻaʻole i nānā aku nā kāne iā ia no ka manawa lōʻihi. I kēlā manawa,ʻike wau i ka hewa, no ka mea ua maikaʻi wau, akāʻaʻoleʻo ia.
ʻO ka huāhuā a me ka hakakā ma waena o nā hoaaloha he mea pinepine ia. A noʻonoʻo loa kēia i ke aloha, no ka mea,ʻo ka hilinaʻi a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo e nalowale ana,ʻo kekahi mea me ka hiki ole keʻae aku i ka pilina pilikino. ʻO ia ke kumu i makaʻu ai nā wāhine he nui i ka huhū, makemake lākou e mālama i nā kaikamāhine ma kahi mamao aku,ʻaʻole eʻae aku iā lākou e pili loa i ko lākou ola. A i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua paniʻia ka pilina aloha e nā hoaaloha. He nui nā mea e hoʻopaʻapaʻaʻaʻole nā wāhine e like me ia - aia kekahi mau mea e hiki ke kākoʻo i kekahi me ke kaumaha a me ka hauʻoli. ʻOiaiʻo ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, heʻuʻuku lākou. No laila, no ka hōʻinoʻana i ka pilina "moekolohe", eʻimi nui ana nā wāhine i kaʻoluʻolu i ka "bisexual" - keʻimi nei lākou i kahi hoaaloha i waena o nā kāne.
NO KA MANAʻO "MIXED"
ʻAʻole hiki i kahi kanaka ke manaʻo nui i ka manaʻo hae no kekahi wahine no nā pepeiao pepeiao hou, nā lako a me ka hale noho a no ka halaʻole o ka kaumaha o ka pokii,ʻaʻoleʻo ia. ʻO ia, ma ka "pilina" pilikino (ka pilina ma waena o ke kane a me ka wahine),ʻo keʻano o ka huāhuā he mea nui loa ia. A he mea maikaʻi loa kēia no nā wāhine.
ʻO ka meaʻelua, he maikaʻi iaʻano pilina ma muli o ka hikiʻana i ka kāne kāne ke loaʻa nā'ōlelo aʻo kūpono a hiki i nāʻike e pili ana i kaʻike o nā kāne. "Inā hakakā wau me kaʻu kāne a ināʻaʻole wau i hoʻomaopopo i kekahi o kāna hana," wahi a'Oksana, "ʻo ka mea mua aʻu e kapa neiʻo'Alyoshka, ka mea aʻu i aloha ai no nā makahiki he nui. E inuʻo ia iaʻu me kahi valerian, a hoʻolohe a wehewehe i ke kumu e like ai, aʻaʻole pēlā. ʻAʻoleʻoe e loaʻa i kēlāʻano "kaʻahua kaʻa" mai kekahi hoa aiʻole ka mea loio. " Ma ke ala, ua mahaloʻia kēia pilikino o ka pilina "bisexual" e nā kāne. ʻO ka poʻe o lākou i aloha, e noi haʻahaʻa i ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana i ke kumu o ka manaʻo o ka wahine a me ka wahine wahine paha. A pinepine i kahi kanaka e haʻi aku i kāna mau hoaaloha i nā mea i hōʻoleʻole i kāna wahine.
Aia kekahi ma mua aku. Hoʻopiʻi nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao i ka heleʻana mai o nā hoaaloha o ke kanaka'ē aʻe e hoʻoikaika i kona kino. Heʻoiaʻiʻo loa kēia no nā wāhine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono mākou eʻoluʻolu e like me ka ea e makemake mākou i ka kāne kāne. He mea nui iā mākou ke alohaʻoleʻia mākou no nā maka nani a me ka wāwae wāwae, akā, no nāʻanoʻuhane hoʻi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono,ʻo kēia mau mea a pau e makemakeʻia e loaʻa mai i kāna kāne. Akā, auʻa,ʻaʻole paʻakikī nā mea a pau. Akā,ʻo ka hoaaloha-aloha aloha aloha iāʻoe a mahalo hoʻi iāʻoe he kanaka. Hoʻokumu kēia i ka hilinaʻi i ka wahine, e hoʻopau i nā pilikia nui. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka pilina me ke kāne e kōkua i kahi lede, i kapaʻia, e mālama i ka leo - e nānā i nā lole, ke kiʻi a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
Ma kahi hua'ōlelo,ʻikeʻia he pilina paʻa mau ka pilina. Akā inā he mea maʻalahi nā mea a pau! Aia maʻaneʻi, aia nā manawa paheʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ka hikiʻole ke launa pū me kekahi hoaaloha, ka hōʻoleʻole i ka pilina o nā poʻe e pili ana a, a me ka hopena, ke huhū o ke kāne ...
ʻAʻole e hele ana ka SEXI!
ʻO ka likelika e lilo nā hoaloha i mau ipo,ʻo ia nō. I kekahi manawaʻo ka pilina, e like me ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine, he mea kūponoʻole no ka uluʻana i ke aloha. A i kekahi manawa e hele wale lākou i kahi moe. ʻAe, he mea kūpono paha, akā, ua emiʻole. Aʻo ia ke kumu. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka wahine, ma keʻano he kūpono, e pili ana i ka pilina nui me ke kāne, e hāʻawi nui iā lākou. Hoʻohanohanoʻo ia i kāna hoaaloha a aloha pū me ia (me ka manaʻoʻole he'alohaʻole,ʻaʻole ia he mea inā makemakeʻo ia i kēia i kona hoaaloha a i kona hoaaloha). Akā,ʻikeʻo ia iā ia he hoaaloha wale nō,ʻaʻole he kanaka. Ma muli o ka'ūhā aloha,ʻaʻole i ka lokomaikaʻi nui o ka mea aloha. Aʻo ka lōʻihi o ka pilina,ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o kaʻikeʻana o ka wahine i kekahi kanaka ma kāna hoaaloha, e'ōlelo ana nā mea loio. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea kūpono, no ka mea he hana hoʻonāukiuki paha mākou i kekahi manawa, a hāwanawana i nā lima o kahi kanaka maʻalahi.
Akā ua hoʻonohonohoʻia nā kānaka i kahi'ē aʻe. ʻOiai inā he mau hoaaloha lāua me ka wahine iʻoi aku i ka makahiki hoʻokahi, keʻike nei lākou i loko o ia he wahine. Inā paha ma ke kihi o ka maka. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo ke hiamoe lākou aʻike i ka pehea e huki iā ia i kahi moe. ʻAʻole,ʻoiaʻiʻo. Akā, mai hōʻoleʻoe ma muli o kekahi mauʻano, hiki i ka pilina me kahi hoaaloha. No ka hihia no kēia mea ma luna o nā kānaka he naʻaupō - pēlā lākou i hoʻonohonohoʻia, he aha kāu e hana ai. He mea pono wale nō eʻae i kēia ma keʻano i hāʻawiʻia a ho'āʻoʻaʻole e hāʻawi aku i kāu hoaaloha i kahi kumu kūpono no ka uluʻana, keʻano o konaʻano. ʻO ia hoʻi, mai hele pū me ia hoʻokahi i loko o ka sauna,ʻaʻole e ninini i kāna lole kūʻai hou i mua o kona ihu, a pēlā aku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mau hanana kūpono i kāuʻaoʻao, a manaʻo pahaʻo iaʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻoʻaʻole kāu plaonic wale nō i pili. A, e like me ka poʻe akamai, inā pēlā, hiki i nā hoaaloha ke mihi pinepine iā ia. No ka mea,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau no ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i nā pilina kahiko ma hope o kēia, a he paʻakikī hoʻi i ke kūkuluʻana i nā mea hou. Nolaila, e na wahine, e makaala!
MA KE KULI KANAWAI NO KA HOʻOPAʻI ANA
ʻO kēia ka naʻauao o nā kānaka. ʻO keʻano o kēia mea, aia nō kekahi mea e nānā aku i kāu pilina aloha. E mākaukau no kēia. E mākaukau pū no kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma waho o ka puka me kāu hoaaloha, hikiʻole iāʻoe ke lohe ma hope o nā hoalauna i ka hawanawana a nā mea aloha: "Ponoʻoe, i ka wā e hana ana ke kāne, he manawa maikaʻi ia." Ponoʻoe eʻae i kēlā mau hōʻeha a ho'āʻoʻaʻole e hoʻolohe iā lākou. ʻAʻoleʻoe e haʻi i kēlā me kēia mea kūkākūkā e wehewehe a hōʻoia he mau hoaalohaʻoe,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe. He mea hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha, aʻaʻole lākou e manaʻoʻiʻo. A ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻoluʻolu i ka'ōlelo hawanawana, ho'āʻoʻole e hāʻawi iā lākou i kumu - e hālāwai me kahi hoaaloha ma kahi'ē aʻe ma ke kaʻawaleʻole, ma waho o nā hiʻohiʻona maka o ka hoahānau o ke hoalauna. E like no ka olelo like ole i na makuahine i ke lili nui o na kane i ko lakou mau hoaaloha, a ma na ano a pau e pale i ko lakou hoaaloha.
ʻO KA LEKAHI MELE -ʻO waiʻo ia?
I ka manawa pinepine, he lili wale nō ka wahine pono no ka meaʻaʻoleʻo ia i maopopo i ka mea e pili ana i ka hapalua me ka "ʻanoʻano". No laila, e ke kāne aloha,ʻaʻole kēia he kāne keʻano, akā heʻokoʻa loa.
I ka hapanui o nā hihia, koho nā wāhine i nā hoaaloha o nā hoa like a me nā haumāna o ka papahana. He hiki ke hoʻomaopopo kēia, no ka mea he nui nā loulou! ʻO nā hoʻomanaʻo o nā makahiki kula, ke kulanui "kaʻaila", nā huakaʻi hele, nā kīʻaha, a pēlā aku. - he lono no ka'ōpiopio a me ka'ōpiopio. Ke hana nei kēia mau mea a pau i ka "hoʻokau"ʻana i ka pilina. "ʻO Nikolai aʻu he mau hoaaloha mai ka papa mua," wahi a Olga. - Ma hoʻokahi manawa he aloha aloha kona aloha iaʻu, akā, ua hala akulaʻo ia, a ua mau ka noho aloha. Pili mākou a pau. Ua hōʻike mua wau iā ia i kaʻu kāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana, aʻo ia hoʻi me aʻu - me kāna wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Manaʻo mākou i ka manaʻo o kekahi i kekahi he pono, a no laila ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e hoʻonohonoho i ka "nānā" ma mua o ka holo wikiwikiʻana i kaʻohana. ʻO ko mākou mau haʻalulu ma mua i huāhuā iā mākou, akā, ua hōʻoluʻolu iho nei, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe moekolohe i ko mākou pilina aʻaʻoleʻala. "
Hiki i nā hoaaloha ke lilo i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi. Hoʻohui hou lākou i nā pono, e like me nāʻoihanaʻoihana.
Ke ulu nei ka pilina ikaika i kekahi manawa i ka "aloha" i nā poʻe o kekahi. ʻO kekahi laʻana, nā mea i aloha mua aiʻole nā hoa kāne (inā,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kaʻawale lākou me ka'ōlelo hōʻinoʻole a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa, akā, akā, ua kūlahilahi). I kēlā mauʻano likeʻole, hele akula ka lapalapaʻana o ke ahi, hele ka mana, akā, i loko o kaʻuhane, he pilina aloha kekahi i kekahi. Ua hana pinepine ia ma luna o kēia mau lanahu e hana ai i nā hoaaloha ikaika. A inā i mare hou nā kānaka, pono mau lākou i ka pilina me ko lākou mau hoa. A hiki mai lākou he mau hoaaloha lākou no nāʻohana.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, mai ka manaʻo o kāna kāne,ʻo ka mea iʻaeʻia e kohoʻia e ka wahine male ke kāneʻo ia inā he male wahineʻo ka wahine. Hiki i nā kāne kāne ke lilo i mau hoaaloha nani no ka wahine: ua nalowale ka pilikia o ka wahine, aʻo nā mea maikaʻi a pau o ka pilina pili "pili". Akā, ma hope o nā pāʻani a pau,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hopohopo, nā kāne me ke kūlana maʻamau (akā,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā wāhine!). No laila,ʻo ka hoa pono pono'ī e hoʻokuʻikahi a hoʻomaopopo loa i ka hikiʻole ke pili i ke kāne a me ka wahine ma ka manaʻo wahine wale nō. Eia nō hoʻi ka pilina, a ua hoʻokumuʻia, e like me kā mākou iʻike ai, ma nā mea'ē aʻe.
KA NOHO ANA O KA HAWE
Inā manaʻo lili kou wahine iāʻoe i kahi kāne kāne, e hoʻohana i nā'ōlelo aʻo a nā poʻe loiloi:
♦ E hoʻomaikaʻi pinepine i kāu kāne, e haʻi ana iā ia i konaʻano maikaʻi, akamai, hoʻokele a pēlā aku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e ala pinepine ka huāhuu mai kahi pōpilikia iho. A i loko o kou mana e hoʻoulu i kou hoa wahine he kanakaʻokoʻa loaʻo ia aʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo ma kou mau manaʻo i hiki i kekahi mea ma kona wahi;
♦ Mai hōʻino wale i kāu kāne me kāu hoaaloha: "Auē,ʻaʻoleʻoe e mahalo mai iaʻu! ʻO wau, e haʻalele wau no Pasha. Alohaʻo ia iaʻu! "Me kēia mau hana, e hoʻonāukiuki wale akuʻoe iā ia, ae hanaʻo ia i nā mea a pau e hiki ai ke hoʻopau i kou pilina;
♦ E ho'āʻo i ka palahalaha i mua o kāu kāne ma lalo e pili ana i kāu hoaaloha nani a me kona maopopo iāʻoe. ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka wā e mahalo ai ko lākou wahine i nā kāne'ē aʻe;
♦ʻAʻoleʻoe e kiʻi i kāu hoaaloha e lilo i hoaaloha o kaʻohana. Ma ka hapanui o nā hihia, hikiʻole kēia. Ua lawa kaʻikeʻana o ke kāne he hoa kāne kāu a ke noho manawa mau neiʻoe me ia.