No ka wahine,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai ke haʻalele i ka hana kaiāulu e kū mau nei iāʻoe. ʻOiai he alakaʻiʻoe, hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo iāʻoe iho he kanaka akahai a wahine. E mahalo na kanaka ia lakou iho, mai hoole i ka hoomaikai. I ka paneʻana i ka'ōlelo hoʻopunipuni, e leʻaleʻa a hoʻomaikaʻi aku, akā,ʻaʻole i ka leʻaleʻa a me ka pāʻoihanaʻoi aku, akā, he lokomaikaʻi a me ka liʻiliʻi. Mai hopohopoʻoe i nā kānaka e haʻalele i kāu noi nui,ʻaʻole e loaʻa kēia, no ka mea, ua hōʻikeʻiʻoʻoe iāʻoe heʻoihanaʻoihana maikaʻi loa. Akā, ma ia mea e hōʻike akuʻoe iā lākou e pili ana iā lākou he wahine. Hoʻoikaika i ka paleʻana i ka wulawila kūpono a me nā kūkāʻana o nā kāne,ʻaʻoleʻoe he hoaaloha. A laila e hana mai nā kānaka iāʻoe e like me ka wahine, aʻo kēia ka mea e hāʻawi ai iāʻoe i ka manawa e manaʻo ai i ka wahine.
E hoʻokuʻu iāʻoe iho i nā nāwaliwali liʻiliʻi loa i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā wāhine - ke kokolekaleka a me nā meaʻalani, nā meaʻala hou a me nā mea hana. E koho i kahiʻalaʻoluʻolu aiʻole i kahi lipopō māmā. E hoʻohana i nā kalaʻeleʻele i ka hana make-up, e hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka hoʻokalakala a me ka hiʻona. ʻO kahi hana nui e pāʻaniʻia e kou lauoho. Pono pono e hanaʻia - inā pahaʻoe e hoʻohana wale i ka pale pale wale i kou lauoho no ka keʻena a, ma keʻano'ē, ma ka home, keʻoki wale neiʻoe i kou lauoho i loko o kahi pā. Pono pono e hoʻololi i ke kiʻi. E lilo i ka lauoho lele a iʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi e hoʻohui i ka hulu pua. ʻO ka hapanui o ka wahine e hana i ka lauoho o ka wahine, mai haʻalele i ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai.
He mea nui loa nā lole. E nānā pono i nā kapaʻaʻahu -ʻaʻoleʻoe he kāne,ʻaʻohe mea kūpono paha a hana paha? Loaʻa iāʻoe heʻaʻahu nani? Akā,ʻaʻole ka mea i kauʻia ma luna o ka pale no hoʻokahi makahiki i kēia manawa, akāʻo ka mea āu e kau nei? E hoʻopili i nā kapa hōʻoluʻolu a me nā kapaʻoluʻolu me nā meaʻilihune - e loaʻa i nā mea lele lele, nā silhouettes wahine, nā kiʻi kikoʻo. Hōʻike i kou hanohano, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe keʻike aku iā lākou ma hope o kahi'ake lole a me kahi kūpaʻa paʻa. ʻAʻole ka nani o ka lole e hoʻomālamalama iāʻoe a wahine, akā e hoʻololiʻoe i loko. E lilo ana ia mau hoʻololi i ka hopena maikaʻi i kou manaʻo iho, a ma ka manaʻo i nā poʻe'ē aʻe a puniʻoe.
Mai makaʻuʻoe e nawaliwali,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hana i nā mea a pau iāʻoe iho. ʻO ka manaʻo i loko o kēia ola,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi ma luna o kekahi mea e luku mua ana iāʻoe. Hāʻawi iāʻoe iho i ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai i nā hana pauʻole, e hana nā kānaka i kekahi mea noʻoe. I ka hopena,ʻo ka hōʻoiaʻana e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoneʻe i kaʻaha kūkā me ke kōkuaʻoleʻana he mea pono ia e hana pēlā. ʻAʻole pono ka wahine ke manaʻo i ka wahine ma mua o ka hanaʻana o nā kāne iā ia. Inā he naʻaupō nā kānaka aʻaʻole paha no keʻano o ka hāʻawiʻana i kā lākou kōkua, pono lākou e nīnau. Mai hoʻonohonoho, akā, e noi mālie a aloha. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kēia hana, no ka mea,ʻaʻole pono ka wahine pono e hoʻoikaika, akā, nāwaliwali.
No kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine a nani, hiki iāʻoe ke kākau inoa i kahi kula hula. ʻAʻohe mea i pili i kahi wahineʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā mau hana. Hoʻonui i ka nohoʻana, ke kino, a me ka mea nui loa - e mālamalama nā maka. E maʻalahi a maʻalahi ka hoʻouluʻana i ka maka. Hiki i nā mea kūpaʻa ke hele e aʻo i keʻano o ke hula hula.
He aha ka mea e pono ai i ka wahine ke manaʻo i ka wahine? ʻO ka hapanui pinepine,ʻo ka nele o ka noho maleʻana, no ka pauʻole o ka hilinaʻi i kā lākou mau wāhine. Hiki i kahi wahine ke ikaika ikaika loa ma keʻano he alakaʻi a he poʻo o kaʻohana. Akā,ʻaʻohe kūponoʻole i nā mea pili pili. ʻO ka ikaika o ka wahine i kona nawaliwali, a mai hoʻopoina iā ia, no ka mea, he kanaka ikaika ma kahi kokoke i kēlā manawa a he manawa hikiʻole iāʻoe ke lilo i wahine nāwaliwali.