E ka wahine ... Pehea ka nui o kēia manaʻo o nā kū'ē, nā manaʻo a me nā hihia. ʻAʻoleʻike nā Moralists i nā mea kapu i loko o ia mau wāhine, ke kū'ē iā lākou i ka mea palaualelo a me ke koko, i kapaʻia ke kumu o ka lukuʻiaʻana o nā pono a me nā kumu hana maikaʻi no ka hānaiʻana o nā hanauna'ōpio. He pilikia kēia i nā wahine wahine? ʻOʻoleʻa. ʻO lākou, aʻo ia hoʻi. Ke oki nei anei ka noho pono o nā kānaka? ʻAʻole pēlā. No ka hapanui o lākou, ua hoʻokomoʻia kekahi haku wahine i loko o ke koʻokoʻo, no keʻano o keʻano, no ka hoʻokōʻana i nā "hunona" a me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ia, a no ke aha iʻoki ai nā kānaka i ko lākou mau ola pono'ī, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke noi pololei mai iā lākou. He aha nā manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i nā wahine wahine? Pehea lākou e wehewehe ai i ko lākou nohoʻana ma ko lākou ola?
Makehewa nā kāne i nā mea pili e pili ana i nā wahine
ʻOiai, he poʻe kānaka hoihoi ka poʻe, aʻo ko lākou manaʻo ma ia mea, he meaʻuʻuku loa ia. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole ka makemake o kā mākou noiʻiʻana eʻimi i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e like me ka ho'āʻoʻana e hoʻomaopopo i ka manaʻo o ke kanaka i ka mana o ke kipi. He aha nā manaʻo o nā kānaka e pili ana i nāʻano pilikino e pili ana i nā wahine wahine? Pāʻani 1: Hoʻokiʻekiʻe ka mea aloha i kahi pili i kapuʻia. He nui nā kānaka e hōʻoia anaʻo lākou ka mea mua i hoʻomaka i nā hālāwai a me nā hālāwai hālāwai kūikawā, no ka mea, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, uaʻoi aku ko lākou makemake i kēia. Inā hoʻoholo lākou e hele ma ke ala o ka kumakaia (me kaʻole a me ke koho -ʻaʻole nui ka nui), hikiʻole ke ho'ōki i kēia "locomotive". Hoʻohana lākou i nāʻano hana, nā mea maʻalahi, nā makana, nā mālama, nā hoʻopunipuni a me nā'ōlelo hoʻohiki. Paukū 2:ʻO ka haku wahine he wahine hoʻokamakama. ʻO nā wahine, lawe pioʻia e nā kāne male,ʻaʻole i pinepine i ka moe kolohe a me ka paʻakikī e like me ka manaʻo o ka pono a me ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu e kuhikuhi iā lākou. ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia he moʻolelo kūikawā no ka hopena o kahi wahine. Ke kū'ē nei nā kānaka i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu e lilo lākou i mau mea inu lama, hoʻohanaʻia e nā wāhine hilahilaʻole. Akā, hoʻohana lākou i ko lākou'ōpiopio, i ka nani a me ke aloha iā lākou i nā makahiki o ke ola.ʻO nā kāne e pili ana i nā kumu kūpono o ko lākou moekoloheʻana
He aha ka mea e pili ana i kēia mau wahine wahine, he aha ka meaʻole i nā wāhine? He aha kā lākou noi hoʻopiʻi? Keʻikeʻia nei kaʻike o ka nani, a hiki ke hōʻikeʻia ma nā helu he nui:- Heʻahaʻaina mau loa. Hele aku kahi kanaka i ka wahine e noho mālie neiʻo ia.
- ʻO ka haʻaheo o ke kanaka. Me kahi haku wahine, he kanaka koa a he naita. Ma ka home,ʻo ia a pau a loaʻa iā ia nā mea a pau, a no kēia hana,ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia ka inoa o ka hero.
- Ka manaʻo o ka mea hou. ʻAʻole i pōʻino nā pilina me ka haku wahine ma ke kaumaha o ke ola, ka hana maʻamau a me ka hana hōʻeuʻeu i ka nohona o kaʻohana.
- Ka moe kolohe. ʻO ke aloha iʻaihueʻia e hāʻawi aku i nā meaʻelua i ka pili, a me ka wahine i kekahi "hana" a me adrenaline i lōʻihi loa me ka wahine kūpono.
- Uaʻike ka wahine ma mua o ka wahine? ʻAʻole, aʻaʻoleʻoleʻo ka wahine, ka meaʻaʻole iʻaiʻia ka paʻakai hoʻokahi, a uaʻikeʻo ia i nā mea a pau ma ka nānāʻana i ka hapalua, keʻoleʻo ia eʻae me kēia mau manaʻo no kāna kāne. ʻO ka hoʻonaninaniʻoluʻoluʻaʻole i maopopo kēiaʻike, a me nā pilikia e loaʻaʻole.
- He wahine'ōpio aʻoi aku ka nani o kāna wahine? Ma keʻano kānalua, i ka haʻiʻoiaʻiʻo, ke'ōlelo nei nā kānaka,ʻaʻole i kūpono ka heleʻana a me ka wā i ka moekolohe a me ka wahine. A inā he kanaka haʻaheo a me nā mea lapuwale, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻo kāna haku wahine kāna moʻolelo,ʻo ia nō ka Queen Queen. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kaena aku i ka lehulehu a me ka poʻe koʻikoʻi.
- ʻO ka wahine iʻuʻuku iho i ka noi a me ka hoʻohālike? ʻAʻole pēlā. ʻO ka papa inoa o kona mau makemake (ʻaʻole wale i nā mea waiwai wale nō)ʻoi aku i nā koi o ka wahine, e like me nā mea waiwai a me nāʻohana, a me nā pono pilikino. Ua haʻalele loaʻo Wife i ka pono eʻoluʻolu i ka mea liʻiliʻi,ʻaʻole ia e hōʻano i nā meaʻoluʻolu a me nā hōʻike o ke aloha i kēlā me kēia lā.