ʻO keʻano o ka moeʻuhane āu iʻike ai iāʻoe iho aiʻole he hoaaloha ma kaʻaʻahu mare ʻO keʻano o ke kiʻi o kahi kaikamahine ma kahiʻaʻahu mare, ua kapaʻia he hōʻailona o nā loli ola, nā hanana hou a he manawaʻoluʻolu i ka hui o nā hoaaloha hou. Akā, no kaʻokoʻa loa o kā mākou mau moeʻuhane, ua nui nā weheweheʻana ma nā puke moe.
ʻIkeʻoe iāʻoe iho i kaʻaʻahu mare
ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo iaʻano moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā loli nui i ke ola. ʻO ka mea nui loa, e hāʻawiʻiaʻoe e hana i kahi hana a kekahi mea'ē aʻe, mahalo i nā mea āu eʻikeʻole ai i nā mea hou wale nō, akā, e holomua hoʻi ma nā papa.
ʻIkeʻoe i ka hoʻokalakalaʻana o kaʻaʻahu mare i mua o kou mau maka, e hōʻike ana i ka mea nāna e moeʻuhane e hālāwai me nā pilikia nui. ʻO ke kūpono o ka maʻi maʻamau a lōʻihi paha ke kiʻekiʻe.
I loko o ka puke Molaloa a Miller, ua kākauʻia, no ka moeʻuhane o kaʻaʻahuʻana i kaʻaʻahu mare, nā'ōlelo hoʻolaha i kekahiʻano o ka hana ola, aʻo ka hopena o ia mea e lawe mai i kaʻoliʻoli a me nā hoa hou.
Inā hoʻopauʻia kāuʻaʻahu mareʻana, a inā i haehaeʻia, ponoʻoe e hoʻomākaukau no ka haʻiʻana i ka pilina me kekahi hoaaloha pili loa.
Inā ma ka moeʻuhaneʻoe i kākau ai i kāuʻaʻahu mareʻana a iʻole paha e hoʻololi i ka mea i loaʻa i kēia manawa, a laila, e hoʻomau i ka haʻiʻana i kāu mau hoʻolālā no ka wā e hiki mai ana,ʻoiai e hikiʻole i kekahi ke hana i ko lākou hoʻokomoʻana.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu i ho'āʻo ai i kaʻaʻahu mare a mahalo i kou hoʻomanaʻo no ka wā lōʻihi, a laila, e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa kūpono o ka loaʻa kālā hou,ʻaʻole e loaʻa i nā waiwai waiwai wale nō, akā,ʻo ka leʻaleʻa hoʻi.
Ke ho'āʻo nei i kahiʻaʻahu mare ma ka moeʻuhane, pono e hāʻawiʻia i ka nānā nui. He mea nui ia nou. Inā he haole'ē nā lole, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā pilikia ma keʻanoʻokoʻa a me ka noho kino o ka mea lawe.
ʻO ke kaikamahine i kahiʻaʻahu mare
ʻO ka'ōlelo maʻamau,ʻo ka mareʻana o kekahi hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhaneʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona maikaʻi. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka mea hoʻoweliweli i ka hoʻomaha,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kaliʻana i kāu mea iʻike ai.
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka hoaaloha i loko o kaʻaʻahu mare,ʻaʻole i kūpono maikaʻi iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā paio o kaʻohana, kahi hakakā me kahi mea aloha a maʻi paha.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu iʻike ai i kāu hoaaloha e mare ana ma kahiʻaʻahu nani keʻokeʻo maikaʻi loa, e noʻonoʻo pono i kou ola. He mea maikaʻi ke nānā pono aku i kahi mea aloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻole pahaʻo ia e like me kouʻano e like me kou manaʻo.
He kaikamahine iʻikeʻoleʻia i kaʻaʻahu mare
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi wahine moe kolohe i kaʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane, uaʻano likeʻole ia. ʻO kekahiʻaoʻao,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua hoʻopuniʻiaʻoe e nā poʻe lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha, a ma kekahiʻaoʻao, ponoʻoe e nānā hou iā lākou, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou e like me ka meaʻole e like me kou manaʻo.
Ināʻike ka wahine i kahi kaikamahine i kaʻaʻahu mare ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki iā ia ke laweʻia no nā hana hou, no ka mea,ʻo kona manaʻolana a me kāna mau manaʻo nui e alakaʻi iā ia i ka holomua.
ʻO ka wahine i mareʻoleʻia ma hope o ka moeʻuhane, aia kahi wahine'ōpio ma kaʻaʻahu mare, hiki ke manaʻo eʻike i kahi wikiwiki me kahi malihini malihini a hoʻomaka i kahi pilina aloha.
ʻO nā wāhine e moeʻuhane nei i kahi wahine maleʻole i loko o kaʻaʻahu mare, hōʻike lākouʻaʻole makemake ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻokomo i kona mau manaʻo i ka hōʻike a makemakeʻo ia e hūnā i nā manaʻo. A he pololei loa kēia, no ka mea, i loko o nā puke moʻolelo he nui,ʻo kaʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo,ʻaʻole ia he maʻa wale nō, akā,ʻo nā hana a nāʻenemi huna a me nā mea hoʻowahāwahā, aʻo ka mālama waleʻana i ko lākou manaʻo i kahi huna e hiki ai ke hōʻoia i ka nele o nā pilikia.
