ʻO ka wahine - wahine wahine

ʻO kaʻoihana maoli o ka wahine,ʻo ia ka mālamaʻana i kaʻohana a me ka hānaiʻana o nā keiki . Me ka manawa a me ka heleʻana o ka wahine, ua loli keʻano. Hiki i nā wāhine ke koho balota, loaʻa ka waiwai, koho i kaʻoihana a me ka hana. Akā, makemake nui ka poʻe e huli i kahi hana i mea e kōkua ai i kaʻohana. ʻO wai kēia mau hale wahine - nā wāhine wahine i hoʻopilikiaʻia a kokoke paha i kaʻoihana kūʻokoʻa ma kā lākou kula?


He aha nā hale wahine a pehea lākou e lilo ai?
ʻO ka honua o kēia ao, he mau palena kūponoʻole ia o nā manawa no kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻAʻole hikiwawe ke koho i kēia a iʻole iaʻano o ke ola. No ka hāʻawiʻana iāʻoe iho i kaʻohana a me ka home,ʻaʻohe i hele mai a hiki i nā ala e hele ai lākou i kēia koho.
1) Maukiʻi.
Aia kekahiʻano o nā wāhine, me he mea lā e kaumaha ai. No nā kumu likeʻole,ʻaʻole lākou i loaʻa ka hoʻonaʻauao, no ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻoihana, eʻike i kā lākou hana. Hoʻolālā lākou e pili wale i ka hale a me nā keiki, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
2) Manaʻo.
ʻAʻole he mau wāhine likeʻole e like me ka manaʻo i kēlā hana,ʻo kaʻoihanaʻoihana kāne ka honua kahi i loaʻaʻole kahi wahine. Hāpai lākou i ka hale me kaʻoluʻolu, e hoʻokomo i ka hānaiʻana i nā keiki, e aʻo i ke akamai o kaʻaiʻana, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e moeʻuhane e loaʻa iā lākou iho i kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
3) Pākuʻi.
I kekahi manawa, ua like keʻano o ka nohoʻana o kekahi wahine me ka hanaʻole a me ka loaʻaʻole o ka manawa e hele ai i ona lā. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine o nā keiki'ōpiopio i ka hoʻonāukiukiʻia e kā lākou mauʻoihana a me nā pilikia i ka loaʻaʻana o kahiʻoihana. I kekahi manawa hoʻoikaika kū'ē nā kāne i ka hanaʻana i ka wahine. Hiki paha i nā wāhine ke hele e hana e like me ko lākou makemake, akā, no nā kumu likeʻole,ʻaʻole e loaʻa iā lākou kēia manawa kūʻokoʻa - no ka manawa āpau a no kekahi manawa.

ʻO kekahi o lākou ua kūlana maikaʻi loa i kahiʻoihana hou a hauʻoli i ke ola, a uaʻike kekahi i ko lākou hopena ma keʻanoʻoʻoleʻa. Ma muli o nā kumu he nui aʻike ka poʻe a pau heʻano likeʻole ka hale noho - he maikaʻi a he maikaʻi.
Ma mua o ka manaʻo nui, hiki i nā hale wahine hou keʻano likeʻole. ʻAʻole ia heʻoiaʻiʻo, he mau wāhine naʻaupōʻole kēia i hikiʻole ke hana i kahi mea'ē aʻe akā holoi i ka papahele a me ka kukeʻana i kaʻaina awakea. I ka manawa pinepine, e nānā nui nā wāhine i ka home a me kaʻohana wale nō, akā i kā lākou ulu ponoʻana. Hele lākou, aʻo i nā mea hou, ke aʻo, hele i nā hanana a me nā pilikanaka - ke kau nei ma ka mānoanoa o kaʻeke o ke poʻo o kaʻohana.

Nā pōmaikaʻi.
Ma kēiaʻano o ke ola, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa i nā pono he nui. ʻAʻole pono ka makuahine e hoʻokūkū i kēlā me kēia lā, e hele ana i kahi hana, kahi e hana ai, hakakā, nā pilikia. ʻAʻohe o lākou mau puʻupuʻu,ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ke hoʻonohonoho i ka pehea a me ka mea e hana ai.
Hiki iā lākou keʻike i nā papa mua o kā lākou mau keiki a lohe lākou i kā lākou mau hua'ōlelo mua, hiki iā lākou ke hana pono i ko lākou mau ola, e hana i ka pīhoihoi no ke kāne. Eia hou, inā makemakeʻoe, e loaʻa mau ka manawa noʻoe iho. I mea e hele ai i ka hale hoʻolālā a iʻole ka hōʻike,ʻaʻoleʻoe i ka wāʻeha - aia wale nō kahi o ia lā.
He wahine nui nā wāhine. ʻAʻole pono lākou e loaʻa nā kūpono kāne e noho ma ko lākou wahi aiʻole e loaʻa kahi kūlana hou. ʻAʻole pono lākou e paio me nā kāne.
Eia kekahi, loaʻa i nā hale wahine ka manawa e loaʻa ai nā akamai hou - aʻo i kahi'ōlelo, kahuʻoihana, a me kahi hula hou. Inā makemakeʻoe e ulu,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hōʻeha.

Nā mea pōmaikaʻi.
ʻO ka hopena nui loa pahaʻo ia ka hilinaʻi. No nā makahiki, ua hana ka wahine i nā mea a pau e kōkua ai i kāna kāne a me nā keiki i ka noho ma kahi e pili ana iā ia, akā,ʻaʻohe mea nāna e hōʻoiaʻiʻo e mau loa ka pōʻino. Lawe pinepine ka poʻe kāne i kaʻohana, a noho kaʻawale ka wahine - me kaʻikeʻole i ka hana, me kaʻole o ka noho. No laila,ʻo ka wahine wahine wahine,ʻaʻole ia he kuleana nui wale nō, akā, he pōpilikia nui nō ia, keʻole ka pili o ka pilina ma kaʻohana mai kahi maikaʻi.
ʻO kekahi pahuhonu hoʻi, ke loiloi houʻia nei ka hana a ka makuahine a ua loiloiʻiaʻo ia iʻoi aku ka hewaʻole ma mua o ke aliʻi e hana ana. I kekahi manawa, kahi'āpana lepo ma nā papa a me kaʻaina ahiahi e lilo i kumu no ka hōʻinoʻia mai kaʻohana.
Eia kekahi, nui nā wāhine e hoʻomaha, e hoʻomaha i mua. Ke lawe nei i kahi o lākou - kauoha i loko o ka hale, meaʻono, nā keiki ma lalo o ka nānā. ʻAʻohe mea e pono ai ka wahine wahine. I ka wā pinepine i ka wehewaleʻana o nā wāhine i kaʻohana, e haʻalele i ka makemake i kekahi mea'ē aʻe, koe wale nō ka hanaʻana a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me ka hōʻehaʻole. ʻO kēia - kēia papahana maʻamau ma ke kelepona. ʻAe, a he ho'āʻo nui loa e hoʻopoina e pili ana i ka hua a me ka manicure i nā lā a pau.
ʻOiai, ua hoʻowahāwahā loaʻia ke kaiaulu i nā wāhine e komo nei i kaʻohana wale nō. ʻAʻole lākou i palekana,ʻaʻole nui nā kuleana o lākou.

ʻO ka kohoʻana i kahiʻano maikaʻi o keʻano o ka nohoʻana,ʻaʻole ia he maʻalahi me he mea lā. He nui ka poʻe e hoʻoholo i ka nalowale nui aʻe o lākou, aʻole lākou iʻehā mau pā, a makemake lākou e hana, ua mare, a ua loaʻa nā keiki. He pono ia hoʻoholo i kāu. He mea nui e hōʻoluʻoluʻoe, e pili ana i kāu mau kuleana, mai poina e pili ana i ka uluʻana a mālama i ka maluhia ma kaʻohana. A laila, kahi o kāu hana e lawe mai i kaʻoluʻolu a me ka mahalo i nā pili piliʻole e kali iāʻoe.