I kēia manawa aia he 20% o nāʻohana - he mare kēia ma waena o nā lāhui o nāʻokoʻa likeʻole. No ka hoʻohuiʻana i kahiʻohana me nā poʻe Lūkini, he 85% o ia mau māheleʻanaʻo ia nāʻohana ma kahi kāneʻo Dagestan ke kāne a he wahine Lūkini kāna wahine. Ua mare nui nā wāhine Dagestan i nā wāhine Lūkini me ka haʻahaʻa pinepineʻole:ʻo ka pauʻana o ka maleʻana he 15% o nā male a pau me nā Lūkini.
Inā makemakeʻoe i ka pilina ma waena o ka wahine Lūkini a me ka Dagestan kanaka, a ināʻoe e hoʻolālā e hoʻohui i kou ola me ka Dagestan, eʻikeʻoe i kekahi o kā mākou mau manaʻo no ka mea e pono ai ka hoʻomākaukauʻana a me ka waiwai kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai.
ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo Dagestan he'āina nui. Noho lākou i Avars, Kumyks, Lūkini, Tabasarans, Chechens, Nogais, nā Iudaio, Dargins, Lezgins, Laks, Azerisa, a me nā poʻe'ē aʻe. No laila, mai kinohi mai, pono keʻike i keʻano o nā kānaka āu i wae ai, a no kaʻikeʻana i ka moʻomeheu o kēia poʻe.
ʻO ka lua, he mea pono ka hoʻomākaukauʻana no ka pilina o ka male kāneʻaʻole paha i mākaukau no ka maleʻana o ka lāhui. I ka Dagestan, uaʻikeʻia ka mareʻana ma waena o nā hoa. ʻO ke kūlana'ōiwi, ka moʻomeheu, ka nohona kanaka, ka waiwai kālā,ʻo ia ka pono. Eia kekahi, ua maopopo i kekahi mau Dagestanis he pono ke kūkulu i kekahiʻohana me kekahi lālā o kaʻohana pili a iʻole ka mea kama'āina paha. Pono nā malihini e hakakā i ka lōʻihi e loaʻa iā lākou e nā pili o ke kāne a wahine paha o ka wā mai Dagestan.
Ma Dagestan, aia nā mākua i nā manawa he nui. No laila, hiki i ka mare ma waena o kahi wahine Lūkini a me ka Dagestan ke hoʻopau i kā lākou mau manaʻo. Aʻoiai i loko o nā makahiki i hala koke nei, ua lilo ka nohona me ka ukuʻole, he mea nui e noʻonoʻo i kēia hiʻohiʻona aʻaʻole e hopohopo inā hoʻomaka nā mākua e hoʻonohonoho i ka maleʻana o ke keiki me ka wahine male a lākou e makemake ai. Ināʻike lākou he mea hikiʻole kēia, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i ka kohoʻana o ke keiki.
ʻO kekahi mau moʻolelo o ka uluʻana o kaʻohana ma Dagestan e nalowale ana i ka wā i hala, akā iʻikeʻia kekahi, me ka manaʻoʻole no nā mea a pau. I kēia lā, he lapuwale kaʻaihueʻana o ka wahine male. Māhue wale nā wāhine i nā kauhale ma kahi mamao aku mai nā kūlanakauhale aku, aʻoi pinepine me kaʻaeʻana. Akā, i loko o nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua hoʻomakaʻia keʻano o ka ukuʻana i ke kālā kālā wahine.
Ināʻo ka Dachel o kāu keiki hope loa i loko o kaʻohana, hiki iāʻoe ke kali i kahi lōʻihi no ka maleʻana. ʻO nā pilina ma waena o nāʻohana o Dagestan i kūkuluʻia ma luna o ka mahaloʻana o nā lunakahiko. A ināʻaʻole i male ke kaikuaʻana o kāu hoa wahine, a laila hiki i konaʻohana ke noi e kali a hiki i ka manawa e hoʻonoho ai i ko lākou ola. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo keʻike nei kēiaʻohana i kekahi mea e launaʻole i ka pilina ma waena o ka wahine Lūkini a me ka Dagestani. He hana kuʻuna kēia iʻaeʻia ma Dagestan.
Inā makemakeʻoe e hoʻohui i ka hopena me kahi kanaka Dagestan, ponoʻoe e mākaukau e komo i kēlā me kēia manawa ma ka hanaʻana i nāʻano likeʻole a me ka nānāʻana i nā kuʻuna.
No ka laʻana, ma Dagestan, e like me ka Europa, he mea maʻamau ke nānā i nā manaʻo. Ma mua o ka maleʻana, he mea maʻamau ka hoʻopauʻana i ka hoʻokōʻana, a hiki ke hoʻopaʻaʻia i kekahi mau makahiki. A iʻole nā mea'ōpio e hoʻololi i ko lākou mau manaʻo i kēia mau makahiki, e hoʻokaniʻia a pāʻani ai ka male.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā ipo mare ma Dagestanʻaʻole eʻokoʻa i nā mareʻana o Russian. He huakaʻi kēia i ke keʻena kiko'ī, kaʻahaʻaina, nā mele a me nā hula. Akā, hiki i ka hana ma mua o ka mareʻana o kekahi wahine Lūkini ke pīhoihoi.
I kekahi laʻana, ma kekahi mau kauhale o Dagestan i ka wā o ka hoʻokomoʻana, hiki i nāʻohana o ke kāne ke hoʻonohonoho i ka "hoʻomaha lāhine". Hele lākou i ka hale i ka wahine mare me ka hoʻopiha pihaʻana i nā makana. ʻO ke kumu, he mea nani a me nāʻaʻahu, i hiki i nā mea a pau ke leʻaleʻa, ke hiki i ka wahine mare a me kona mau hoaaloha ka manawa e ho'āʻo ai i nā lole likeʻole he nui me kaʻole kūʻai.
Ma hope o ka maleʻana, pono e hōʻike ka wahine a ka Dagestan i nā hiʻohiʻona nuiʻelua: kaʻano kūlohelohe a me ka mahalo i nā lunakahiko. Hiki iā lākou ke komo i nāʻaʻahu nani a me nā kāhiko nani, akā, ma nā kauhale a me nā kauhale, he mea maʻamau ka hele wāwae aʻaʻahu paha.
Pono ka wahine e mahalo a hoʻolohe i kāna kāne, akā, no ka mea, ua manaʻoʻia ka hana a ka wahine. ʻAʻole like me kekahi mau lāhui o ka'Auheu, kahi i manaʻoʻia ai ka wahine e like me ke koloheʻole,ʻo ka poʻe Dagestaniansʻaʻole i'āpono waleʻia, akā makemakeʻia. Mai wehewehe,ʻaʻohe maʻamau aʻaʻole pololei i nā kauoha eʻimi i kāna wahineʻo Dagestan. I mea e hoʻohuli ai i kāna kāne no ka hoʻoholoʻana āna e pono ai, pono iā ia e hōʻike i ka maʻalea, i ka hilinaʻi a me ka noʻonoʻoʻole.
ʻO nā poʻe kaʻao, e like me nā kāne Lūkini he nui, hāʻawi nui lākou i ka manawa e hānai ai i nā keiki. Hiki i nā wāhine Lūkini keʻike i kēia mea kūikawā. Eia naʻe, ma hope o ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki i loko o kahiʻohana kahi makuahineʻo Daghestanian aʻo ka makuahineʻo Rūkiia ia, hiki i ka wahine ke manaʻo i nā mea nui. ʻO ka hua'ōlelo makua no ke keiki ma kaʻohana Dagestani, heʻano nui ia, aʻo ka wahine paha ke kū'ē i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki i kāna mau keiki ke hoʻolohe i ko lākou makuakāne ma mua o lākou.
Loaʻa kēia i nā mea a me nā minuses. ʻO kaʻoi aku o ka hoʻonaʻauao kāneʻana heʻano kūikawā kūikawā kūikawā i ka honua i loko o ke keiki -ʻo ka hiki ke pale i ke ao no lākou iho, ko lākou mau pono. Inā hoʻemiʻia ka hana o ka makuahine i ka hānaiʻana i nā keiki, hiki i nā keiki ke ulu nui a noi ikaika. He mea maʻamau ia no nā Dagestanis e hiki i ka wahine ke pale i kona kuleana e komo i ka hopena o nā nīnau nui e pili ana i nā keiki. He meaʻokoʻaʻole ia no kahi wahine Lūkiniʻaʻole i maʻa mau i kēia: ma nāʻohana Lūkini,ʻo ka wahine ka mea kūpono i kēia manawa, aʻo kekahi manawa keʻano o ka pola ke komoʻole ka makua i ka hānaiʻana o nā keiki a hiki i ka'ōpiopio.
Inā hōʻoiaʻoe i ka manaʻo o "keikiʻole",ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole makemake e loaʻa nā keiki, a lailaʻaʻoleʻoe e mare me ka Dagestan. ʻOiai ma kā lākou moʻomeheu, ke kumu o ka maleʻanaʻo ka hānauʻana a me ka hānaiʻana o nā keiki. ʻO ka wahineʻaʻole makemake e hana i kēia mea, eʻikeʻia he meaʻuʻuku i nā manawa a pau, a hāʻule koke i loko o ka mea i hoʻokuʻuʻia.