ʻO ke kumu, nā wāhine e manaʻo i ke aloha ma ka pilina ma waena o nā kānakaʻelua, ka mahalo a me kaʻike -ʻo ia ka mea nui i ke aloha i ka manaʻo o nā wāhine. E like me ka manaʻo o nā wāhine, pono e mālama ke kanaka i ka wahine, hāʻawi i nā makana , palekana, a me nā mea'ē aʻe, a pēlā aku. Ke noho nei nā manaʻo o ia mau wāhine. ʻAe, a ua pololei loa lākou. Inā makemake ka wahine e lohe i nā'ōleloʻoluʻolu ma kona ala, makemakeʻo ia e loaʻa nā makana mai ka mea aloha mai, e like me ka mālamaʻia a mālamaʻiaʻana. A he pololei kēia, peheaʻaʻole e wili, he wahine nāwaliwali ka wahine. Ma ka loaʻaʻana o ka makana a kahi kāne aloha, uaʻike hou kekahi wahine i kona aloha iā ia, no ka mea,ʻo ia ka mea nui i ke aloha. Ma muli o kēia hana, hiki ke hoʻoholoʻia no nā wāhine,ʻaʻohe mea nui ka makana, akā he mea nui ke kūpono.
A eia ka nīnau e nīnau mai nei: He aha ka manaʻo o kānaka ke kumu nui i ke aloha.
He paʻakikī kēia pane. ʻEhia mau kānaka ma ka honua nei, no ka nui o nā manaʻo. Akā, ma ka manaʻo nui, ua like lākou a pau. No kekahi mea nui loa, he wahine e aloha iā ia, no kekahi wahine nui aʻo ka mea wale nō, pono, makemake ka wahine i ka wahine wahine, nāna e kālua i kaʻaina awakea a kau i kona kapa.
ʻO kēia mau kāne kāne a pau i ke aloha e kūpono a pololei. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻoi aku ka manawa o ka wahine ma mua o ke kāne. No laila, eʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kāne me ke aloha i ka wahine. Ua hopohopoʻo ia i ka hōʻoleʻia. A no ka hōʻoleʻole, nānāʻo ia i ka hana a kahi wahine iā ia. Inā hōʻoleʻole ka wahine iā ia, a laila e ho'āʻo ke kanaka e hana i ka pilina me kēlā wahine. ʻAʻole kēiaʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nāʻano o nā kāne. E noho mālie kekahi, aʻo kekahi eʻimi i ka manaʻo o nā wāhine ma nāʻano. Akāʻo ka hapanui ka hopena.
Ma waena o nā wāhine, aia kekahi manaʻo e makemake wale nā kāne i ka wahine. Ma kekahiʻano, heʻoiaʻiʻo kēia, akā, e like me nā kāne,ʻaʻole kēia ka mea nui i ke aloha. ʻO ke kanaka, ka mea i kohoʻia e kona hoa,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi. Akā, e like me nā kāne, ināʻaʻohe moekolohe i loko o ka pilina, a laila,ʻaʻole paha ka pilina. ʻAe, a inā iʻikeʻia ka pilina, a laila,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ke kāne, i ka manawa, eʻikeʻia he haku wahine, aʻaʻole paha hoʻokahi.
Aia kekahi,ʻoiaʻiʻo, a me nā kāne kāne e moekolohe, he mea nui loa ia ma lalo o ka pilina ma waena o ke kane a me ka wahine. Wahi a kēlā poʻe kāne,ʻo ka mea nui i ke alohaʻo ia ka hilinaʻi. Ke'ōlelo hou nei au i ka nui o nā kānaka ma ka honua nei e pili ana i kā lākou waiwai i aloha.
Eia kekahi, mahalo nā kāne i ka wahine, no ka mahalo iā ia. I nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe, e like me nā kāne, pono kahi wahine e kū i kahi kūpono, a waiho i loko o ka lumi kuke. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he wahi kūlana kēia a me ka'ōlelo wale nō pēlā, akā no ka hopena o kēia manawa, heʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻOiaiʻaʻole e koiʻia ke kanaka e hoʻolohe iā ia, e hana i kahi mea nona, akā, inā e pāpale ka wahine i konaʻaʻahu, e kū mai ia i mua o ke kanaka. A inā e kuke maikaʻiʻo ia, a laila, he mea kūpono loa kēia i ka kohoʻana i ka wahine ma keʻano kanaka. E like me ka'ōlelo: "ʻO ke ala i ka naʻau o ke kanaka, aia i loko o ka'ōpū."
Aia kekahiʻano o nā kāne e aloha i nā wāhine, e like me ko lākou mau makuahine, no lākou ka mea nui ma ke aloha, heʻano likeʻole i waho. Hiki like, nā hiʻohiʻona a me keʻano. No ka mea,ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne eʻimi nei,ʻaʻole he wahine aloha wale nō, akā, he hoa kāne lāua, he wahine, a he makuahine hoʻi o kāna mau keiki e hiki mai ana. A i loko o ke kāne, me ka maopopoʻole,ʻo nāʻahahui a pau, me ka makuahine o kāna mau keiki a me kāna wahine,ʻo ia nō kona makuahine pono'ī.
ʻAʻole he mau kumu nui i loko o ka pilina aloha, i hāʻawiʻia i ka maka o nā kānaka, he mahalo i kona pono. Wahi a kānaka, he mea nui loa kēia i ke aloha. Ma kona hoʻomaopopoʻana, inā e mahalo a kūhele kekahi wahine i kāna mau māhele a me nā pono, eʻoi aku kona pono iā ia. ʻOi,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ke aloha iā ia. ʻAʻole pono ke kūkāʻana, no ka loliʻana, i ka manawa hoʻokahi, he wahine, ma ka maka o ke kanaka hāʻule nui. No ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he wahine no kona ola, akā, he wahine maʻalahi ka maʻalahi.
Ma keʻano laulā, nui nā pae hoʻohālikelike no ka kohoʻana i ke kāne i wahine, a me nā manawa e mahalo nuiʻia ai ka poʻe i loko o ka pilina aloha. Wahi a kānaka,ʻo ka mea nui i ke aloha,ʻo ka moekolohe, a me ka hilinaʻi, a me nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā mea'ē aʻe he nui loa. Eia kekahi laʻana, makemake ke kāne mua i kāna wahine e nānā i ka uila aʻo nā kāne a pau e kāohi i ko lākou mau āwae, akāʻo ka makemake o ka wahine e nānā i keʻano kūpono, iʻole eʻoluʻolu mai i kaʻaoʻao kāne.