1.ʻO ka maikaʻi o kāu wahine i ka wā makua e pili ana i keʻano o ka nohoʻana i kou wā'ōpiopio.
Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui keʻano o ka nohokoloheʻana i kou wā'ōpiopio, a laila, i ka wāʻelemakule, hiki wale i ka māmā a me ka ikaika. ʻAʻole kēia he mea'ē aʻe ma mua o ka moʻolelo haʻi wale. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hoʻomau i ka hana maʻamau i nā makahiki ma hope aku, hiki i ka poʻe i hoʻokuʻuʻole iā ia i ko lākou wā'ōpiopio. ʻO kaʻoi aku o ka ikaika o kāu noho wahine i kēia manawa,ʻo kaʻoi aku kaʻoi aʻe o ke kūlana ma hope o ka 40 a maikaʻi.
ʻO kahi mea wale nō e hiki ke hōʻino i kou lā e hiki mai ana i kēia manawa, he moe kolohe a me nā mea pōʻino a pau e pili ana iā lākou.
2.ʻAʻole palekana ka male ma nā makahiki.
Inā pau ka nohokinoʻana i ka 40 o kona mau makahiki,ʻaʻole loa e hiki i ka'ōpū hānau, nā kānaka makuaʻole o nā kālaihonua, nā urologists a me nā venereologists. He nui nā wāhine i hiki ke hāpai ma hope o 40, a ua hōʻoiaʻia e nāʻikepili. Mai poina i ka pilikia o nā maʻi likeʻole e lawe i ke kino. No laila, pono e palekana kekahi kanaka e pili ana i ka moe kolohe, me kaʻole o kona mau makahiki.
3. Hana ka hana i ka maikaʻi o ka wahine.
ʻO ka male i ka makahiki o nā poʻe'ōpio he mea hiki ke loaʻa inā loaʻa kahiʻoihana holomua,ʻo ia hoʻi, kālā. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo ke kālā e hāʻawi mai iā mākou i nā manawa hou - nā lole nani nani, nā kūlana kūlana, nā huahana maikaʻi e hoʻolōʻihi i ka'ōpio. Hoʻopili kēia mau mea a pau i ka wahine'ē aʻe. Akā, akā,ʻo ka pono e pono e hana ikaika, pilikia mau loa a me ka maʻamau o kaʻoihana kūkākūkā maʻamau e hoʻemi i ka hiki i nā pilina pili kino hou iʻole. Hoʻohana kēia i nā poʻe.
4.ʻAʻole e nalowale ke aloha wahine.
ʻOiai inā makemakeʻoe eʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe iʻoi aʻe ma mua o ke 40, aʻoi aku i ka 50,ʻaʻole e pili i ke kāne, a laila, ua kuhihewaʻoe. Hoʻolālā ia mau makemake i 90 mau makahiki, a uaʻike pinepineʻia inā he hoa ko kekahi a mālama pono i ke kino kino. Hiki keʻokoʻa keʻano o ka wahine, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki i nā haumāna ke hoʻomaha loa e like me nā haumāna, akā,ʻaʻole kēia he kumu no ka hāʻawiʻana i ka leʻaleʻa i ka nui. He nui ka hapanui eʻike i ka moekolohe ma kahi'ōpio i ka wā'ōpio.
5. Me ka'ōpiopio, e mau ana keʻono meʻoe
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea lapuwale ke'ōleloʻana ma ka 40ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke nānā aku iʻoi aku kaʻino ma mua o 20. Akā,ʻaʻole ia heʻano paʻakikī. ʻO nā mea a pau ma muli o ke kūpaʻa, ka mālama pono. ʻO nā kāne a me nā wāhineʻaʻole i hoʻohana i kaʻaleʻale, komo i loko no nā'ahamele, hoʻohana i nā hopena o ka cosmetology hou, nani nā maka i nā makahiki. Nui nāʻano hoʻohālikelike o kēia - e hoʻomau ka nui o nā hōkū i ka makemake i ka wāʻelemakule. Hiki i nā kānaka a pau ke hoʻopakele i ka noi o waho.
6. He nui ka nui o ka hoa.
ʻO ka hiki ke loaʻa ka pilina ma nā makahiki a pau ma muli o ka mea pili iā mākou. Ma keʻano heʻoihana, ma luna o nā makahiki pilikino hemahema, he mea likeʻole,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ke kānāwai. ʻO ka meaʻikeʻole e hoʻohilahila i ka hilinaʻi, inā paʻakikī e hoʻomaha, aʻo kēia ka hopena e pili ana i keʻano. No laila, heʻoi aku kahiʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma kaʻaoʻao a pau. ʻOiai i kahi lōʻihiʻoe no nā makahiki he nui, e loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi wahi no ka makemake nui, akā ināʻaʻole i kūkuluʻia kou pilina ma muli o ka hōʻinoʻia, ka inaina, a me ka hakakā. ʻO ka male i ka nui o nā makahiki i pili pū me kekahi hoa'ōpio. Aia kekahi mau hihia i ka haʻaleleʻana o nā kāne a me nā wahine i kaʻohana no ka pilina hou me kahi hoa'ōpio, akā,ʻo kēia ka hopena o kaʻohana,ʻaʻole naʻe no ka hoʻoikaikaʻana o nā'ōpiopio iā mākou i ka wā.
ʻO ka male ma kahi o ka wā,ʻo nā mea a mākou e noʻonoʻo nei,ʻoiai he 20 a 30 paha ko mākou mau makahiki. Malia paha, e ke kanaka makua -ʻaʻole kēia he hoʻokūkū no nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamāhine, akā,ʻaʻole i anaʻia keʻano o ka wahine ma ka lōʻihi o ka moekolohe a iʻole ko lākou helu ma ka pō. Inā mālama ponoʻoe iāʻoe iho mai ka'ōpiopio'ōpiopio, e nānā i kou olakino, meaʻai, a me ke kiʻi aʻaeʻole i nā ka lōʻihi ma waena o ka moekolohe, a laila e nui aʻe nā manawa no ka pihaʻana o ka moekolohe i ke oʻoʻana.