Ua uluhua ke kanaka i ka wahine: pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i kēia

No ke aha i hoʻomahaʻole ai nā kāne i ka makemake a me ka mahalo i nā wāhine a lākou? ʻO kā lākou mau wāhine he mau wāwae wāwaeʻole paha,ʻaʻole paha i lōʻihi ka uluʻana, hele lākou i ka hale i kahi kapa'ahuʻula, i ka lauoho lauoho a me nā paina. E nānā i ka laina pauʻole, mai hoʻolohe i nā pilikia o nā kāne, a me ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia eʻoluʻolu i ka pôpeke, a pēlā aku. Akā, eia kekahi ke uluhua ke kanaka i ka wahine: pehea e maopopo ai,ʻike,ʻike?

He nui nā mele mele a nā wahine e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo no ka pehea e hana ai e mālama ai i kāu kāne. Ke ho'āʻo nei lākou e leʻaleʻa i ke kāne i nā mea a pau, a i ka nānāʻana a me nā mea kanu i nā mea kanu, a ma nā kuko o kahiʻano pilina. Ke aʻo lākou iā Kama Sutra, e aʻo nui i nā meaʻai i nā mea kanu, e noho ma nā meaʻai, e hele pono i kahi lumi lumi, a i nā lumi hoʻonani maikaʻi. Aʻo kēia mau mea a pau i mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kāu mea i aloha ai, e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa nona a hoʻokahi. Hele aku ka wahine i nā mōhai he nui eʻike ai i ka hikiʻole iā ia ke noho hou me kāna kāne, makemakeʻoleʻo ia, ua hoʻopilikiaʻo ia iā ia.

A e hoʻomaopopo kokeʻo ia e haʻalele kahi wahine i aloha iā ia. ʻO ka mea nāna i hana i nā mea a pau nona, ua kala akuʻo ia i kāna mau hōʻailona a ua hoʻolohe pono iā ia! Mai ia aku, maikaʻi,ʻoluʻolu, lawe mai i ka hale i uku, mea inu a me ka mea puhiʻole? "

No ka mea e hiki i kahi wahine ke hele aku mai kahi kāne aku? Ma hea eʻimi ai i ke kumu e hōʻehaʻia ai nā wāhine me nā kāne a pehea e maopopo ai i kēia? No ke aha e makemake ai e hele ma kahi hema? ʻAʻole anei i kūpaʻa nā mākaʻi o ka moe wahine a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo?

ʻO ka hoʻomakaʻana,ʻo ka wahine ma kēia kūlana he hapa wale nō ia. A inā uaʻike ke kanaka no ia mea, malia paha e hoʻomalu aiʻo ia i keʻano o ke kumakaiaʻana a me ka hoʻiʻana o kāna wahine.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua manaʻo nā kāne ua mareʻo ia iā ia,ʻo ia hoʻi he mea pono iā ia ke hana i nā mea a pau āna i haʻi ai iā ia, a no nā hana o ka home, a laila, e hanaʻia nā mea a pau e ia, no ka mea,ʻaʻole ia he hana a ke kanaka i ka mohe aiʻole nā ​​kīʻaha e holoi. ʻOiai, ua laweʻo ia i ke kālā i kaʻohana,ʻo ia ka mea kōkua. Aʻo ka meaʻo kāna wahine hoʻi i hana pū, hoʻi mai i ka home me ka māluhiluhiʻole ma lalo ona ... akāʻo wai ka mea e mālama? Pono pono ka wahine e mālama a hana a noho ma ka home e hana i nā mea a pau, e mālama iā lākou iho a me nā kamaliʻi. A ua laweʻia kēia no ka pono ole! A hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha, no ka mea ua lanakila kāna wahine, aia ka hana, a hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaha. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻoulu i ka'ōpū, e hele a puni i ka hale me kaʻala a me keʻalaʻole i ka paka a iʻole ka hou, e nānā i ka pāʻani i ka wā e ho'āʻo ai kāna wahine e hoʻowalewale iā ia, a pēlā aku.

A penei ke halaʻana o nā lā, nā pule, nā mahina, a me nā makahiki. Manaʻo mauʻo ia e hala loa kēia, e makemakeʻo ia e hele i kekahi wahi me ia a me ka aloha e noho ai i ke ahiahi, ma kekahi manawa e'ōleloʻo ia "mahalo" no kaʻaina hoʻomākaukau, holoi a me nā kapa hao, no ka mahana a me ke aloha. Hāʻawiʻo ia i kona mau pia ahiahi a me nā hoaaloha e kāhea mau ana i "kahi pahu!",ʻoiaiʻoiai ua moe ke keiki. Hoʻoikaikaʻo ia i kona manaʻo he naʻaupōʻo ia ma mua ona. ʻAʻoleʻo ia eʻae iā ia e kamaʻilio me nā poʻe āna i makemake ai, a hoʻokomo i nā mea āna i makemake ai. ʻO ka wahine he mea hoʻomanawanui, ua mākaukauʻo ia i ka laweʻana i nā mea he nui ma luna o kona mau poʻohiwi poʻohiwi. No ka manawa.

I kekahi manawa, e hiki mai ka hoʻololiʻana ināʻaʻoleʻo ia e kū i ka mea a pau, e loaʻa iā ia ka ikaika, aʻaʻoleʻo ia e noʻonoʻo pinepine i nā hopena o kāna hana. Hele wale aʻo ia. ʻO ka hapanui o nā wāhine, e ho'āʻo e hoʻopakele i kaʻohana, akā, he mea maʻamau ka mareʻana, me ke alohaʻole, ka mahana, a me ke aloha.

Ua hōʻehaʻia kekahi wahine no ka liloʻana i mea kōkua free no kāna kāne i kona ola waiwai. ʻAʻole makemakeʻo ia e lilo i meaʻai meaʻai, ua luhiʻo ia i ka hanaʻana i kaʻupena kalapoki, piluna, mea waiwai, aiʻole kekahi mea e hiki ai i kāna kāne keʻoluʻolu. A i kēlā me kēia lā a me kēlā pō i loko o kona puʻuwai a me kaʻuhane,ʻo ka makemake e hōʻoia i nā mea a pau he kanaka olaʻoe e ulu nui aʻoi aku ana. Loaʻa iāʻoe nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, nā moeʻuhane a me nā manaʻo. He aha kāu e loaʻa i loko o ka honua hohonu hohonu, hoihoi a multifaceted. A iʻole paha i loaʻa iāʻoe kekahi talena e hoʻopiʻi pinepine i kāu mau'ōlelo pīpī e like me: "ʻaʻoleʻoe e hīmeni, akā e'āneʻeneʻe" aiʻole "e hula ana kou makuahine ma mua o kou", "mai ho'āʻo,ʻaʻole loaʻoe e loaʻa", a pēlā aku, e. A hanaʻo ia i mea e hiki ai iā ia ke kuleana ma luna ou aʻaʻole e lilo iāʻoe a me kāu lawelawe i ka wā e ulu ai kāu kaulena. A ua luhiʻo ia i kāna kāne i makemakeʻole e hoʻolohe iā ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻae maikaʻi i kāna mau kamaʻilio. ʻOiai,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i kekahi mea aʻaʻohe kanaka o kaʻohana, koe wale nō a me kona pono.

Pono pono ka kāne e mahalo i kāna wahine no kāna hana no ia. ʻOiai he mea naʻaupō lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi aku iā ia no ka mea pono e hanaʻia e ia, pehea kona mau kuleana kūpono. Eia kekahi laʻana, no ka holoiʻana i nā pā, nā holoi wāwae, no ka hale i hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me nā mea'ē aʻe āna e hana ai no ia a me ko lākou mauʻohana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻikeʻia e nā kānaka he mea maʻalahi loa ke hana no lailaʻaʻole lākou e mahalo i kēlā,ʻo ia ke kumu i'ōleloʻole ai lākou i nā'ōlelo mahalo i kā lākou mau wāhine. A laila, ua noʻonoʻo lākou no ka luhi o kā lākou mau wāhine i ka hoʻokauwāʻana, a me nā lawelawe, e like me kaʻikeʻia e uku.

Ke holo ke kanaka i kona uluʻana, liloʻo ia i mea haʻalulu, naʻaupō, huhū a hakakā. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke pane pololei i nā nīnau he nui, i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai kona hewa e hōʻino i nā mea a pau, koe wale nō. Hoʻomakaʻo ia e nānā i nā pāʻani TV, inuʻawa ma mua o ka TV, hoʻopiʻi a'āʻiliʻili i ka'ōlelo hawanawana, e hele pinepine mai ma nā kahua porn. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e hoʻoponopono i kona helehelena, a manaʻoʻiʻoʻo ia i kona mau mea kahiko, i ka pilau waipahē, hiki iā ia ke hoʻokipa iāʻoe, a me nā manamana lima, e'alahi wale nō e like me ka paka, a moe waleʻoe i kou mau lehelehe.

ʻAʻoleʻo ia e makemake e hana i kekahi mea ināʻaʻole kēia e pili ana i kaʻoluʻolu o kona makemake, kona mauʻoluʻolu a me kona mau manaʻo. Hoʻohui waleʻo ia i konaʻano,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe iā ia. A laila, i ka wā e loaʻa ai kēia wahine i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e kāohi iā ia iho i ke aloha iā ia iho, me ka mālamaʻana i kāna kālā. E haʻalele pahaʻo ia iā ia, paha i ke kanaka nāna iʻike iā ia he wahine, ae aloha a mahalo hoʻi iā ia. ʻAʻole e ola noʻu wale nō, akā no kāu wahine aloha.

Ma hope paha, he nui nā kumu'ē aʻe e hiki ai ke hōʻehaʻia e kahi kāne me kahi wahine. Akā, ke manaʻo nei wauʻo nā mea nui o ka nīnau no keʻano e maopopo ai: i ka wā e nāwaliwali ai ke kaikamahine i kona kāne, ua wehe au. Manaʻo wau i kaʻikeʻana i kēia mau pane maʻalahi hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi e mālama ai i kāu wahine. ʻAʻole loaʻo ia i hōʻeha.