Hiki iā ia ke hele mai i ou lā e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke keʻena, holoi, hoʻololi hou i nā kīʻaha a kāomi i ka cutlet. Ma loko o ia iho, hiki iā ia ke hōʻinoʻole i ka hewa, akā,ʻaʻohe manawaʻole ia iāʻoe: i kona manaʻo e hana anaʻoe i nā mea hewa a pau loa aʻaʻoleʻoe e maikaʻi. A pehea e hana ai i ia?
Inā hele mai ka mea i waeʻia mai ka pūnana a ka makua, me ka liʻiliʻiʻole, a ua lōʻihi ka launaʻana me nāʻohana ma kahi kokoke loa, a laila,ʻaʻohe pilikia e pili i kēlā mauʻano. ʻO ka mea nui loa, ua hilinaʻi kona makuahine i ka kohoʻana o kāna keiki a ua hauʻoliʻo ia no kou loaʻa iā ia. ʻO kēia ka makuahine makua kūpono!
Ināʻoluʻoluʻoleʻoe,ʻo ka mea mua, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu e pilikia loa ai ka makuahine o kāu kāne i kou ola. Malia paha he wahineʻoluʻolu wale nō e pono e hōʻoluʻolu.
ʻO nā kumu o kēia hana e hiki ke nui, akāʻo ka mea nui loaʻo ia hāʻawi iāʻoe i mea waiwai loa i loko o kona ola. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻokaʻawale me kona koko kokoʻole. A inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā keiki, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kēia.
Na kona makuahine paha i hana i nā mea a pau no kāna keiki: ua kuke, holoi, hoʻomaʻemaʻe, kūʻai kūʻai ...ʻO ia ke kumu e kū'ē pinepine ai ka makuahōnōwai wahine i ka home. Aʻo ka nui o ka makuahine i mālama i kāna keiki,ʻo ka nui o kona uluʻana, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hele me kaʻaeʻole. Hoʻopilikiaʻia kēia mau mea a pau inā hoʻopau kahi wahine i kāna keiki hoʻokahi. No ka mālamaʻoleʻana i nā kāne, ua ukuʻo ia no ka mālamaʻana i ke keiki. A'ānō, ua laweʻo ia.
Akā pehea e hiki ai iā ia ke hilinaʻi i kahi me kāna keiki?
He mea maʻamau wale nō me kēiaʻano i kāu keiki, e hāʻawi mai kou makuahōnōai wahine iāʻoe i mau ho'āʻo paʻakikī, heʻano no ka hoʻokolokoloʻana no ke kuleana e wahine, no ka mea, e ponoʻoe e hana i kāna hana. Eʻaeʻoe,ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kūlana e hāʻule, ma mua o ka loaʻaʻana o kahi hoʻonaʻauao kūpono, no ka mea, ua hoʻohālike kāu makuahōnōwai iāʻoe me ka wahine'ēʻole. A no kēlā me kēia mea pale (kahi lepo o ka lepo a me ka paleʻoleʻia e kou pōni pōmaikaʻi) hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i kahi wahine. E ho'āʻo nui kona makuahōnōwai wahine e hōʻike i ka mea nona ka haku i loko o ka hale. Inā nohoʻoe me kona mau mākua, pono ka alakaʻi ke hāʻawi aku - ma hope o nā mea a pau, he hale'ē aʻe kēia. E hoʻokaʻawale iāʻoe iho i kaʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ia e hoʻololi ana i kāu mau mea,ʻaʻole ia eʻae iāʻoe i ke kapuahi a kūʻai i nā pale a hiki i kāu leʻaleʻa.
ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe? A laila e hoʻoholo me ka hoʻopuka pili o kāna kāne. Eia nō naʻe, inā noho kaʻawaleʻoe, he paʻakikī ke pale aku i nā hakakā o ka makuahine ma kou hale, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike iā ia ma'ō a ka uaki.
Akā, no ka nui o nā hana a kou makuahōnōwai wahine,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kū'ē iā ia me kaʻikeʻole! Mai poinaʻoe:ʻo ia kou makuahine aloha.
I mea eʻike ai i kahi 'ōlelo maʻamau me kou makuahōnōwai, ponoʻoe e hōʻike iā ia i nā meaʻelua -ʻo kona mahalo a me kona mahalo iā ia. E hiki i kou makuahōnōwai ke lilo i kumu aʻo ikaika a paʻakikī i loko o ka ola o ke ao. E noi iā ia e aʻo iāʻoe i ke kukeʻana i ka pies, ke kuke i nā borscht, i nā paʻi paʻi,ʻoiai inā hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā mea a pau.
Mai hōʻole i kona kōkua. ʻO ka meaʻokoʻa,ʻo ia kekahi i komo i kekahiʻoihana hui pūʻali - hele aku i kahi kūʻai, hele i ka hale, nā pua loʻi.
E kāhea pinepine aku iā ia, mai poinaʻoe e mahalo i nā lā ākea a hāʻawi i nā makana no nā kumu kumuʻole.
E ho'āʻo e huki i kou makuahōnōwai me kou mau'ōlelo e like me "ʻike mākou i kekahi mea (ʻike mākou,ʻike mākou pehea)".
E kūkākūkā me ia ma nā nīnau: kahi e kūʻai aku ai i ka meaʻai he mea kūpono,ʻo ka wili eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e holoi, pehea ka nui o ke kōpaʻa e hoʻokomo. A noʻonoʻo: i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e liloʻoe i wahine makuahine - he makuahōnōwai a he makuahine paha. No laila, mai hakakā me kou makuahōnōwai wahine.