Eʻike kākou no ke aha i makemake ai nā wāhine he nui e kūkulu i nā pilina me nā kāne ma mua o lākou?
Hāʻawi mauʻia nā wāhine i nā kāne i likeʻole me lākou. Ma keʻano o nā makahiki. He nui nā wahine i māheleʻia i nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO keʻano mua e komo pū ana me nā wāhine i makemakeʻole e alakaʻi. Makemake lākou i ka loiloi pono, hoʻomaha a me ka hilinaʻi. I ka lua o nā wāhine i kūpono iā lākou iho,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻololi i ka hopena o kā lākou mau pilikia ma luna o nā poʻohiwi o haʻi,ʻo kā lākou pono'ī. Lawe mau lākou i ke kuleana o ka pilina ma keʻano o nā wāhineʻekolu o ka poʻe e ho'āʻo mau nei e lilo i alakaʻi ma ka pili.
Akā,ʻo ka pilina me ke kāne, uaʻoi aku kona makua ma mua o ka wahine, i ka wā he nui ka hoʻololi, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole i'āponoʻia e kaʻahahui. Ke manaʻo nei au i ka nui o kēia mau wāhine i ka hauʻoli, ka mea me ia no kāna kālā a me kona kūlana. Ināʻaʻole ka pilina o ka'ōpiopio, e'ōlelo 2-3 mau makahiki,ʻaʻole hiki keʻikeʻia, akā inā mai 5-20 mau makahiki aʻoi aku paha, a lailaʻikeʻia kēlāʻano.
No ke aha i koho ai nā wāhine iā lākou? ʻO ka wahine i hoʻonele i kona makuakāne i kona wā'ōpiopio,ʻaʻoleʻo ia, a laila eʻimi anaʻo ia i ke kākoʻo i kāna kāne, makemakeʻo ia e mālama, mālama a alohaʻo ia i ka wahine a me ke kaikamahine. Aʻo kēlā mau wāhine i hilinaʻi iā lākou iho,ʻo ka poʻe wale nō i loaʻa iā lākou iho.
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi i loko o kēia mau pilina,ʻo ia nā kānaka iʻike i nā mea a pau, ma nā hana a me nā pilina. He waiwai waiwai nō hoʻi lākou, a ua maopopo lākou i nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole lākou makaʻu a uaʻike lākou iā lākou.
ʻO nā hana i loko o ia mau pilina,ʻo ia hoʻi ko lākouʻike. Hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa kaʻohana a me nā keiki ma hope o ko lākou mau poʻohiwi, ai kekahi manawa e hiki ke hoʻohālikelike i kā lākou wahine maoli me nā mea'ē aʻe, e nānā i nā kīnā i loko ona. Eia nō hoʻi he mau manaʻo likeʻole ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine.
Ma iaʻano pilina, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi mau i ke kāne, a kōkuaʻo ia i ka wahine e ulu, kākoʻo i kahi manawa pilikia a hāʻawi i ka kōkua kūpono, nā mea a me nā mea a pau.