ʻAʻole hiki ke kapaʻia ka pilina ma waena o ka hūnōna wahine a me ka makuahōnōwai wahine he mea maʻalahi ... He mea maʻalahi - he wahine nāna i hānai i ke keiki (aiʻole nā keiki), ma keʻano kūpono, hoʻomaopopo loa i ka loina o nā wāhine'ōpio. ʻAʻole ia he meaʻole nā mea a nā kānaka e'ōlelo nei, a ua hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻia nā'ōlelo e nā mea psychologist (ʻo ia ka pololei)ʻo ka momona maikaʻi loaʻo ia ka wahine nāna i hānai i kāna keiki wale nō, akā,ʻo kāna kaikamahine.
Ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana, e ulu ana ka pilina ma waena o nāʻohana o nā'ōpio. Eia naʻe, i ka pauʻana o ka lā hōʻailona o ka male, ua hoʻomaka ka makuahine e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo, a hele mālie i nā pono maoli. Hoʻopilikiaʻia keʻano inā noho nā'ōpio me ko lākou mau mākua. ʻAʻoleʻoe e hana i kahi moena, holoiʻoe i ka hewa,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hao i kou kapa liʻiliʻi, a pēlā aku -ʻo wai ka meaʻikeʻole i kēia? ʻO kēia kou hihia? A laila ua hiki i ka manawa e hana wikiwiki.
I ke kūlana hou
Loaʻaʻoe i ke kānāwai. ʻO ka manawa kēia e noʻonoʻo ai pehea e kūkulu ai i ka pilina me kahi hūnōna wahine. Ke huāhuā neiʻoe i kāu keiki no kekahi wahine'ē aʻe, akāʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae i ka hoʻokomo. Ma hope o ka maleʻana, hoʻomakaʻoe e lawelawe i kāu keiki wale nō, akā, i kahi hūnōna wahine. Inā pauʻole kēia, hoʻomaka ka paio, ka huhū a me ka hakakā. Ke noʻonoʻo neiʻoe e like me kēia: "ʻO wau kona ola nui no ia, ua pili koʻu keiki iaʻu, hoʻolohe mai iaʻu. I kēia manawa, hoʻoloheʻo ia iā ia, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻikeʻole! ". Aʻo ia paha: "E kuʻu keiki pōʻino, pono paha eʻai i ka paila kūpaʻi a me kekahi mau kemisteria, no ka mea,ʻaʻole paha e hiki i kahi wahine'ōpiopio keʻai i kāna mau meaʻai hānai, aʻu i hoʻomākaukau ai nona ...".
ʻAʻoleʻoe e hopohopo. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, heʻano likeʻole ia. I ka manawa maʻamau, piʻi ka wahine'ōpio i waho o kaʻili eʻoluʻolu i kāna kāne aloha. A aʻoʻo ia i ka baʻa, a me ka kuke kuke e like me kā kāu keiki i aloha ai. A iā lākou ka lole hao loa, aʻo kaʻai ka mea momona a maikaʻi loa - nā mea maikaʻi a pau no ka mea aloha. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma hope o kāu'ōlelo koi i ka hūnōna wahine e pili ana i ka meaʻeleʻele i hanaʻia e ka mataliki a me nā lole lole kuhiʻole, e'ōlelo aku e huhū kāu hūnōna wahine -ʻaʻole ia he'ōlelo. Ma ka hopena o nā'ōpiopio'ōpiopio, e hoʻomaka ana e uhaʻi: "ʻAʻole i aloha nui kou makuahine iaʻu", "i'ōlelo maiʻo ia he kinoʻino wau!"ʻO ka hopena, aia kāu keikikāne i waena o nā ahiʻelua. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea hōʻino ia e lohe ai i kēlā mau'ōlelo e pili ana i kona makuahine. No laila, ma ka paneʻana, hiki iā ia ke haʻi aku i kāna wahine aloha i ka pūpū o nā mea āna e mihi ai ma hope. Eʻoluʻolu anei iāʻoe? A laila,ʻaʻole makemakeʻoe i ka hauʻoli o kāu keiki.
Heʻino inā i hoʻonoho kāu keiki i kahi kūlana -ʻo kou pilikia ia. Like, ua hakakā lākou - a hoʻolauleʻa iāʻoe iho. Hiki ke mālamaʻia kēiaʻano ināʻo ka pilikia ma waena o ka hūnōna wahine a me kona makuahine pono'ī (kaikuahine,ʻohana). A i kou hihia, pono ke keiki e lawe i kahi kāne. No laila, inā ua haʻi muaʻo ia iāʻoe me ka'ōhumuʻole i kou komoʻole i loko o kaʻuhane o kāna wahine - he hōʻailona kēia o ke kanaka. Mai makaʻuʻoe i ke aloha o ke keiki iāʻoe, e noho pū me kekahi wahine'ē aʻe. E liʻuliʻu anaʻo ia i ka wela iāʻoe, ināʻoe e hakakā mau ai me ka hūnōna wahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai e hana i kēia ma muli o ka paio a me ka hoʻomāʻewaʻewa.
Ma keʻano maʻamau, hiki i ka makuahōnōwai ke makemake hoʻokahi. E hoʻomanawanui e hiki i ka poʻe'ōpio ke hauʻoli i ko lākou mau lanakila a me kā lākou mau hewa. Hiki iā lākou ke mahalo iāʻoe no ka loaʻaʻoleʻana i ko lākou mau ola pono'ī. A laila, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu inā mālama kekahi i kou mau wāwae, e ho'āʻo mau ana e aʻo iāʻoe e hana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka'ōlelo koʻikoʻi no nā makuahine a pau,ʻo ia nā hua'ōlelo: "ʻo ka'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi wale nō ke nīnauʻia."