Pehea e koho ai i ka lole mare maikaʻi?

ʻO ka maleʻanaʻo ia kekahi o nā hana nui loa a maikaʻi i ka nohoʻana o kekahi wahine. ʻO nā keiki a pau, ma mua o ka mareʻana, e hele mai me kahiʻaʻahu mare ma ko lākou manaʻo e makemake lākou e hele mai i kēia lāʻahaʻaina, he moeʻuhane no ka hoʻolauleʻa, e hoʻomauʻia ka hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou no ke ola. Pehea e hiki ai ke hanaʻia i meaʻole e hoʻopauʻia ka hoʻomākaukauʻana no kēia hana a waiho wale i ka hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi?

ʻOiai ināʻaʻole i kohoʻia ka lā mare, akā ua maopopo iāʻoeʻo kāu koho wale nō ke kanaka hoʻokahi i ke ao nei, a me ia pū e makemakeʻoe e lilo i ke koena o kou ola.

Mākaukauʻoe, e lilo i wahine mare, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i ke kohoʻana i ka lole mare maikaʻi. Eia kekahi mau'ōlelo hoʻokae iki no kēia kumuhana. Pono lākou e maʻalahi iāʻoe e koho a loaʻa ka leʻaleʻa kiʻekiʻe loa mai ia mea.

ʻO ka manawa kūpono kēia e hoʻomaka ai e hoʻololi i nā puke kiʻi me nāʻaʻahu mare. Me ke kōkua o ka Pūnaewele i kēia manawa, hiki i nā mea a pau loa - e makemakeʻia e huli. ʻO keʻano o nāʻaʻahu mareʻana he mauʻaʻahu nui loa -ʻo nāʻaʻahu a me nā kaʻa a me waho, nā kapaʻaʻahu liʻiliʻi, hoʻoulu me ka nui o nā lauoho lalo, hiki ke keʻokeʻo a pena paha i kekahi o nā kala -ʻo kēlā me kēia koho e like me kahi kahi e mālamaʻia ai kaʻaina .

Pehea e koho ai i kahiʻaʻahu? Eʻae i kāu kohoʻana ma nā loina he nui, e komo i loko o lākou a ho'āʻo i ka lole i makemakeʻia. Inā ma kekahi kūlanakauhale kahi āu e noho aiʻaʻole nā ​​kauhale liʻiliʻi, alalia e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopuni iā ​​lākou a pau. Akā, ma nā kūlanakauhale nui o nā loulu o nāʻaʻahu mare i hoʻomākaukauʻia, he mea nui loa, e nui loa ana. No laila, kohoʻia kekahi o lākou. I ka heleʻana ma waena o nā hale lole o kahiʻaʻahu mare i hoʻomākaukauʻia, e lawe i nā kāmaʻa meʻoe kahi āu e hele ai i ka lā o ka male mare (ponoʻoe e kūʻai mua iā lākou), e makemakeʻia nā kāmaʻa no ka loiloi pehea e nānā ai me kaʻaʻahu.

Ponoʻoe ke kāhea i loko o ka hale i mua aʻikeʻoe inā ponoʻoe e uku no ka ho'āʻoʻana i nāʻaʻahu mare ma laila. No ka hanaʻana me kahi kūponoʻole, ponoʻoe e haʻi koke aku i nā mea kūʻai aku, malia pahaʻaʻoleʻoe eʻaʻahu i ka wā koho. Inā hōʻalo ka mea kūʻai ma hope o kēia mau hua'ōlelo iāʻoe - e haʻalele. ʻOʻole, e hoʻopau i nā mea leʻaleʻa a pau.

Pono e hoʻomanaʻoʻia hiki ke noiʻiaʻoe e holoi i ka lipstick ma kou mau lehelehe. No laila, he mea kūpono ke hanaʻana i kahi hana maʻamau i ka lā o nā hoʻokolohuaʻana.

Hiki maikaʻi ke hoʻolaha muaʻoe i nā mea kūʻai aku, a ma lailaʻoe e mākaukau ai e kūʻai i kaʻaʻahu, a me nā mea hele ma ka mareʻana. I loko o hoʻokahi hale lole, he mauʻaʻahu mai nā mea hana likeʻole a, a no laila, ma nāʻokoʻa likeʻole. E kōkua ka mea kūʻai aku iāʻoe e kiʻi i kēlā lole, aʻo ka uku e uku ai iāʻoe. Ma lalo o nā kānāwai i'āponoʻia o ke kālepa ma luna o nā huahana a pau loa, he pono ke kumukūʻai kūʻai me ke kumukūʻai i kauʻia o kēia kumukūʻai.

I mea e maikaʻi loa ai kouʻano i kēia lā, koho pū meʻoe ma keʻano he mea aʻoʻo ia wale nō ka hoaaloha āu i hilinaʻi nui ai,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i manaʻo huā iāʻoe a hiki iā ia ke haʻi i kou manaʻo iho iʻoleʻoe e kāpae i kāu. ʻO ka mea aʻo maikaʻi loa,ʻo ia kāu pili, akā, e like me kā mākou kuʻuna,ʻaʻole hiki i kāu mea koho keʻike i ka wahine mare a hiki i ka mareʻana i kānaʻaʻahu mareʻana. Inā maleʻanaʻoe me ka mea noho i ka'āina'ē, eʻikeʻoe iā ia i keʻano o kouʻaʻahuʻole, kahi āu e hele ai i ke kuahu. ʻO nā lāhui o nā'āina he nui ka mea nui i ka hōʻailona o ke kala.

Inā lohi, ua hou houʻoe i nāʻaʻahu āu i makemake ai, aʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi āu e makemake ai. Hiki paha i ka mea kūʻai aku i loko o ka hale ke koi pinepine iāʻoe e ho'āʻo i kahiʻaʻahu iʻoluʻoluʻole iāʻoe - e hoʻolohe i kāna'ōlelo aʻo, e ho'āʻo! ʻO ka hoʻoiliʻana he hana nui,ʻo ka mea mua, no ka mea kūʻai aku,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hōʻeha iāʻoe no kona makemake iho. A no laila paha,ʻo kaʻaʻahu āna i manaʻo ai,ʻo ia ka mea aʻoukou e nānā maikaʻi ai. Ke hana pinepine ia.

No laila, kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kahi e koho pono ai i kaʻaʻahu mare,'ānō e ponoʻoe e kiʻi i nā meaʻai no ia mea. I ka manawa pinepine e kiʻi i kahi pale, nā mea e hana ai i ka lole, nā mīkina lima, kahi lālā o nā pua i ka lauohoʻaina ma ka hoʻololiʻana i ka lole. ʻO ka koho maikaʻi loa inā e kōkuaʻiaʻoe e hōʻiliʻili i nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai i ka lumi hoʻokahi kahi i loaʻa ai kou kapa. Inā makemakeʻoe eʻaʻahu i kaʻaʻahu mare iʻItalia, France, Sepania, a laila e mākaukauʻoe e uku no ka ukuʻole. ʻO nā mea maikaʻi a pau ma mua o ka iwakāluakumamālima kaukani kālā, ua laweʻia ma nā'āina'ē aʻe. Akāʻo ka mea i kahi o kāuʻaʻahu mareʻana,ʻaʻole kēia mea nui loa. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia ke kūpono a me keʻoki ponoʻana, a nānāʻoe i ia -ʻo ka Mō'ī Wahine!