ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopoina iā ia, keʻikeʻoeʻaʻoleʻoe e aloha hou iā ia. A ke hoʻomanaʻo neiʻo ia iā ia. A i kēiaʻano, e nīnau ana kekahi o mākou "Pehea e hoʻopoina ai i kahi mea aloha, keʻikeʻoe iā ia i kēlā lā i kēia lā." E ho'āʻo e hōʻoia i kēia me ka manaʻo nui e hoʻopoina iā ia.
Ke Kaʻina Hana 1 - Kū i waho me ka liʻiliʻi.
ʻO kēiaʻano e poina ai ke kanaka mua, paha paha, uaʻikeʻia e kekahi ma ka Stone Age. 'Ōleloʻo ia e pili ana i kēia mau mea, e hoʻopoina i kahi pilina, e hoʻomaka i nā mea'ē aʻe. He mea maikaʻi loa kēiaʻano, he kanaka hou, nā manaʻo hou, nāʻanoʻoluʻolu o ke ola,ʻo kēia mau hana nui he mea nui e hoʻokuʻuʻia i ka hoʻomanaʻo o ke kanaka ex-kanaka (a iʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi paha e hoʻomoe iā lākou). ʻO ka hemahema o kēiaʻano, he paʻakikī ka loaʻaʻana o kahi pilina pilikino koke, a inā he wahi puke pōkole wale nō kāu, a laila pōkole ka hopena. Akā, ināʻikeʻoe i kāu mea i aloha ai i kēlā lā i kēia lā,ʻaʻole ia e kaumaha.
Way 2 - lōʻihi ola ola!
E like me kāu eʻike ai mai ka inoa, i mea e hoʻopoina ai i kekahi kanaka, pono kekahi e hoʻolulilua i ke poʻo me kekahi pūpū o nā pilikia'ē aʻe, nā meaʻoi aku aʻoi aku i ka pilikia. E lawe i nā kuleana e hoʻonui, e hana i nā loiloi ma ka home i ke ahiahi, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo ai, e lawe hou, e hoʻomau. He mana kūpono kēiaʻano,ʻo kēia kaʻaoʻaoʻaoʻao o ka hoʻopuka. ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau no ke kaikamahine e hana i kaʻoihana maikaʻi ma hope o ka māheleheleʻana me kahi kanaka'ōpio, ma ka'ōleloʻana, ma hope o ka haʻaleleʻana, no laila,ʻaʻole i maʻalahi ka hoʻopoina i kahi mea aloha iā lākou. Eia naʻe, hiki i kēia koho ke loaʻa i kāna mau hana pono'ī,ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke hana ikaika e poina i ka mea mua. Aʻaʻole nā mea a pau e hana ana i nā kūlana no kēlā hana hana paʻa.
Māhele 3 - e mālama iāʻoe iho!
E like me mākou iʻike, e hoʻonui i kou mauʻuhane a hoʻopau i nā manaʻo maikaʻiʻole,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi'ē aʻe ma SPA, aiʻole cosmetology, a hoʻohuiʻana, a kūʻai paha. Ma keʻano maʻamau, hana i kāu mea makemake a me ka mea eʻoluʻolu ai iāʻoe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, eʻae likeʻoe, ma hope o kahi hālāwai o ka hoʻomaha hoʻomaha, nā hoʻomanaʻoʻana i kahi kanaka'ē, mai komo wale i kou manaʻo. He lole hou a he kāmaʻa hou paha, e hoʻonui i keʻano! Eia kekahi, i ka lā aʻe eʻike aiʻoe i kou ex, a laila ua kahaha nuiʻo ia eʻike iāʻoe i nā mea hou. ʻO keʻano, a me kēiaʻano,ʻaʻole me ka pilikia, nā mea leʻaleʻa a pau, e like me ke kānāwai, makemake i ke kālā, akā, iā mākou, alas, he palena palena.
Māhele 4 -ʻike pono a me kaʻike pilikino.
Inā lōʻihiʻoe makemake e ho'āʻo iāʻoe iho i kekahiʻoihana, a hele i nā hōʻike, nā keaka,ʻo kēia ka manawa no kēia. Ināʻoe e lawe i ka palahū ma ka lima, a me ka pepaʻauʻau wai, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa i nā manaʻo hou a me nā manaʻo. Hiki iāʻoe ke kākau inoa i kahi hula hula, aiʻole i ka pōʻai o ke kiʻi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea e ola ai kaʻuhane, e like me ka hana a me ka hoʻohālike. ʻO ka hoʻopoinaʻana i kāu mele aloha me ka kōkuaʻana o ka mea mea hana mea mea maʻalahiʻoi aku ka maʻalahi. He kūpono kēia hana iāʻoe, ināʻikeʻoe i ka makemake e hana i kaʻoihana i loko oʻoe iho, akā ināʻaʻoleʻoe e like me ka huki, a laila makaʻu wauʻaʻole ia e like meʻoe.
Loaʻa 5 -ʻike i ke ao nei.
E like me kā Kipling i'ōlelo ai, ua nani ke ola no ka hiki iāʻoe ke hele. A me nā huakaʻi, nā wahi hou, nā poʻe hou, nā manaʻo hou, he mea maikaʻi loa kēia a pau e poina ai i ka mea mua. Eia hou,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i kāu mea i aloha ai i kēlā lā i kēia lā. Aʻaʻole pono ka holoʻana i ke kai holoʻokoʻa, hiki hiki ke hele maʻalahi a kūpono ma ke apo gula. Maanei, no ka mea a pau,ʻaʻole kahi mamao ka mea nui, akā, nā manaʻo hou. ʻO ka hemahema o kēiaʻano,ʻo ke kālā a me ka manawa, i kēia manawa ua paʻakikī loa ka loaʻaʻana o kekahi hebedoma i halaʻoleʻia e hele a hoʻomaha, a no kahi pōkole nui makaʻu wau no ka hoʻomanaʻoʻanaʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻonui.
Ma ka hōʻuluʻuluʻana i nā mea a pau, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka hoʻopoinaʻana iā ia (ka mua) he maʻalahi,ʻoiai ināʻikeʻoe i kekahi i kekahi lā. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ka mālama i kekahi mea,ʻaʻole e noho i kahi hoʻokahi, e paʻi i nā lima!