Ke huli neiʻo ia i ka nīnau like: "He aha keʻano? "Kū'ē like nā kāne a me nā wāhine. Manaʻo nā kāne e like nā wāhine e like me lākou: ka umauma o ka pahu, nā poohiwi lōʻihi, ka piʻi nui, ke kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe, nā'ōpū'ōwili a me nā makaʻeleʻele. Akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻike nā wāhine i nā puʻupuʻu nani loa. He kīʻaha, ka ulu, nā maka, ka mea nui a me ka mea nui.
'Ōlelo nā kānaka kālaiʻike hoʻonaʻauao heʻano koʻikoʻiʻole ke nānāʻana o ke kāne i kahi kaikamahine. ʻO ka nīnau e pili ana i ka nani o ke kāne eʻoluʻolu i ka wahine, he mea waiwai wale nō i nā kāne. ʻO ke kanaka ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei he mea hoʻokani a me ke kiʻekiʻe nui e kōkua iā ia e lanakila i ka lanakila me nā wāhine. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole ka helu iʻikeʻia ma kaʻikeʻana i nā kaikamāhine. Hiki ke nānā aku kahi meaʻoluʻolu i nā minuke mua wale nō o ka hoʻokokokeʻana, a laila, nalowale konaʻano nui loa.
ʻO keʻano o ke kanaka,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona holomua i nā kaikamāhine ma mua o ke kiʻi o ke kanaka. ʻOiaiʻaʻole kēiaʻano koi i keʻano o ka nani o ka wahineʻaʻole i ke kōkua i nā kāne i kaʻike a me ka piliʻana i ka pilina me nā wāhine. Hoʻopiliʻia ka manaʻo o nā wāhine e kekahi kanaka e loaʻa ai nā mea maikaʻi,ʻo ia hoʻi nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi a me nā waiwai pilikino.
Akā,ʻo nāʻano pilikino o nā kāne no nā kaikamāhine heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.
I kēia mau lā,ʻaʻole e hāʻule nā kaikamahine no nā kānaka maikaʻi. ʻImi kēia kanaka i ka nani me nāʻano noʻonoʻo ponoʻole,ʻaʻohe o nā wāhine. ʻO ke kaikamahine i kohoʻia o kēia kaikamahine'ōpiopio,ʻaʻoleʻo iaʻo Adonis. Inā ho'āʻoʻo ia me ka noʻonoʻo pono eʻike i ke kaikamahine, e hoʻolohe ana kāna wahine. E hoʻomaka ana ke kaikamahine e loiloi ma hope o ke kūkākūkāʻana. ʻAʻole i pane nā wāhine i ke kiʻi o ke kāne, akā i ka kanaka pono'ī.
Inā he nīnau ia o ke kāne maikaʻi, a laila pono e hoʻomālamalama i keʻano o nā kaikamahine e like me, ma mua o nā mea a pau. ʻOiai, he pono ke nānā aku ke kanaka a me ke au hou. ʻAʻole nō hoʻi e hoʻomaopopoʻia keʻano o ka mea kilokilo inā he "kuha wale"ʻo ia i konaʻike.
ʻO ka hālāwai mua e hoʻoholo i nā mea a pau.
Inā i ka hālāwai mua e hālāwai nāʻaoʻao i kahi'ōlelo maʻamau aʻoluʻolu i kaʻaeʻana, a laila e ulu ana ka pilina. ʻAʻole hiki ke hōʻoleʻia keʻano nuiʻole keʻano o ke kāne no nā kaikamāhine. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kahi maikaʻi o ka nani o nā kāne no kēlā mau kaikamāhine i makemakeʻole i ko lākou helehelena.
Ua hoʻonohonohoʻia ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ana o nā wāhine no ka meaʻaʻole ia e hoʻolohe i ke kanaka e hiki ke nalo iā ia i ka nānā a me ke kapa. Inā he maʻalahi ke kanaka, akāʻano nānāʻole,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke helu i ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka huhū o ke kaikamahine. Ināʻo kekahi kanaka kūpono a maikaʻi i ka wā e hālāwai aiʻo ia e'ōlelo i nā hewa'ē aʻe, eʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia he maikaʻi, aʻaʻole paha e hōʻole iā ia i kekahi hālāwai'ē aʻe. ʻO ka mea'ē aʻe, me ka mea nānāʻole, ka pololeiʻole a me ke koaʻole - inā paha he akamai loa kēlā kanaka,ʻaʻole paha e mahalo nui ke kaikamahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea paʻakikī keʻano o ka helehelenaʻino a me ke kino o ke kanaka. Akā naʻe, hiki ke hele i kahi pilikino a me ke kūʻaiʻana i nā kapa i hiki ai ke hana i nā hana mana e hikiʻole ai i ke kaikamahine nani ke kū'ē aku i kēlāʻano ikaika. No laila, i kekahi manawa e noi aku nā kānaka no nā'ōlelo a nā mea kākau lima, nā pale umauma a me nāʻoihana'ē aʻe.
ʻO nā mea maikaʻi loa e like me nā kaikamāhine, ke hāʻawi aku iā lākou he mau noʻonoʻo o ka pilina kūpono a hiki i kahi hui maikaʻi. Hoʻololi ka kiʻi i hoʻololi ponoʻia e hoʻokō pono i kēia mau mea a pau. Pono e pono i kahi kāne ke hoʻokipa maikaʻi i nā kaikamahine. Hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i kanaka pupule a lanakila me nā wāhine,ʻaʻohe pono e loaʻa nā makaʻeleʻele a me ka mea pāʻani. No kaʻike a me nā kaikamāhine i ka helehelena maikaʻi o ke kāne,ʻaʻole ia he mea nui loa.
Pehea e nānā ai i keʻano o nā kāne
ʻOiaiʻo ka hapanui o nā kānaka i ka manaʻo he mea nui loa ke kaikamahine, he aha ka mea iʻikeʻia e ke kāne, he loiloi nā wahine i nā kāne a me nā koho'ē aʻe. ʻO ka mea mua, e loiloi kahi wahine i keʻano o ke kanaka a me kona holomua i ka hana, a laila e nānā mua i konaʻano. ʻO keʻano maʻamau,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻole kūpono ka nani a me ka nani o ke kāne i kaʻikeʻana me nā kaikamahine. He mea maikaʻi no ke kaikamahine,ʻaʻole pono ka wahine ke nani, pono e hana i ka hopena maikaʻi a hoʻokū i ka hoihoi o ke kaikamahine. E lilo i mea hoʻomanaʻo. ʻO kēia kanaka ke loaʻa ka manawa kūpono e lilo i mea maikaʻi i nā maka o nā kaikamahine. ʻOiai, he kaikamahine i loko o ke kāne eʻoi aku ka hoihoi i kona mau pono pono'ī, akā, e hoʻolohe wale ana lākou i ke kiʻi a iʻole ka nani o ke kanaka.
ʻAʻole i hāʻule ke kaikamahine i kēia manawa no ka mea liʻiliʻi o ke kanaka. ʻOiai kēiaʻano o nā wāhine, ua mālamaʻia nā kāne i kēia mau lā. Hana lākou me ka maʻalahi. Ua'ōlelo nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao e hiki i nā miliona o nā kāne ke mare i ke kaikamahine, akā e mahalo ana i kona nani nani. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻaʻole nā kaikamāhine e hana pēlā i kēia lā. ʻO ka mea pinepine i ke kanaka i ka wā iʻike mua aiʻo ia me keʻano koloheʻole o ke kaikamahine. ʻO ka manawa mua ia e pono aiʻoe keʻano maoli. E hoʻomaopopo wikiwiki kahi kaikamahine i ka ho'āʻo o kahi kanaka e nānā aʻokoʻaʻo iaʻo ia.
ʻO nā kaikamāhine i ka wā o ka hālāwai mua e hoʻomaka i ka loiloi i nāʻaʻahu a me nā kāmaʻa o ke kanaka, mahalo nuiʻia konaʻala. ʻO nā lole ke kāleka kāleka o kekahi kanaka. Hoʻoholo muaʻia kekahi kanaka ma nāʻaʻahu, aʻo ka manaʻo nui e mau ana no ka manawa lōʻihi i ka hoʻomanaʻoʻana o ke kaikamahine. Pono pono ke kanaka e nānā i kona helehelena. ʻO ka pololei a me ke kāhikoʻana o ke kanaka e pili ana me ka holomua. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona maʻamau ka hōʻailona o ka lohi a me ka hilahila o ke kanaka.