He aha ka wahine maikaʻi?

Malia paha,ʻo wau a hoʻokahi paha manawa ma koʻu ola, ua nīnau wau i kēia nīnau: "Ke haohao nei au he aha ka wahine maikaʻi loa?" Ua makemake kēia kumuhana iā mākou, a ua hoʻoholo mākou e hana i kahi liʻiliʻi ma waena o nā kānaka. No ka mea,ʻo nā kānaka, ma ka hapanui o nā hihia, manaʻo lākou he mea maʻalahi ma mua o ka nāwaliwali o ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia he mea e kahaha ai he nui ka hapanui o ka poʻe i nīnauʻia me ka wili e haʻi aku neiʻaʻoleʻaʻohe. ʻAʻohe wahine maikaʻi i keʻano, a no lailaʻaʻole mea e moeʻuhane ai. Akā,ʻo ia ka mea i loaʻa iā mākou eʻike ai i ka nui o nā poʻe hoihoi a me nā moeʻuhane. E like me ka hōʻikeʻiaʻana e ke kiʻi, ua kāhea lākou he maikaʻi i ka wahine akamai iʻike pono i ka makemake o nā kāne eʻike a hana ai hoʻi. Aʻo ia keʻano o kā mākou e haʻi aku ai iāʻoe i kēia manawa.

No laila,ʻo ka wahine maikaʻi, he wahine ia:
1. Mai ho'āʻo e hōʻike i ka mea ma luna o ke kanaka me ka maopopo a me ka makemake e hoʻokumu iā ia.
2. Pono e hiki i kēlā manawa i kēia manawa ke hoʻonāukiuki (i ka hana pololei!).
3. hiki ke hoʻololi a hoʻololi i nā pono o nā kāne.
4. kūlana wiwoʻole a hoʻokuʻuʻia i ka moekolohe.
5. hiki iā ia ke kālai a hana i nā maka.
6. Hoʻonanee hou i nā mākaukau i ka hoʻowalewaleʻana a me ka mālama paʻaʻana i nā kāne.

Mai ka hapanui o nā nānāʻana o ka nohona kaiaulu, uaʻikeʻia he mea'ē aʻe ka manaʻo o nā kāne male a me ka male kāneʻole i kēia mea. ʻO ka mea iā lākou heʻano'ē aʻe ko lākou e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine. He aha nā wāhine maikaʻi, e like me nā kāne kāne mare? ʻO ka mea mua, ka waiwai, ka maikaʻi a me ka maʻalahi e pili ana iā lākou a me ko lākou pilikia. ʻO kēia mau hiʻohiʻona lākou e noʻonoʻo nei i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa o kahi wahine maoli, a noʻonoʻo lākou e pili ana i ka nani ma kahi haʻahaʻa. ʻO ka wahine maleʻole i ka male,ʻo ka hapanui o nā wāhine a pau ka mahalo i kona nani, ke kanaka, ka wahine, a me kaʻike a me ka hiki ke hoʻonā i ke kāne.

ʻO kēia ka manaʻo o ko mākou mauʻenemi, akā he aha ka manaʻo o nā wāhine no kēia? He aha ka wahine maikaʻi i ko lākou manaʻo? Ua hōʻikeʻia nā poho i nā wahine i ka manawa mua,ʻo nāʻano kūlana maikaʻi, ka maikaʻi o ke kanaka, ka moekino a me keʻano he mea nui.

A pehea ka manaʻo o ka manaʻo manaʻo nui e pili ana i ka hana a nā wāhine i ka hānaiʻana i nā keiki? Maanei, ua loli ka manaʻo o nā kāne a me nā wāhine. Ua maʻalahi nā wāhine aʻoi aku kaʻoihana aupuni ma mua o nā kāne, a no laila ke kuleana nui o kā lākou hānaiʻana me ka manaʻoʻole.

Mai ka manaʻo hoʻonaʻauao o ka manaʻo,ʻo ka wahine maikaʻi loa ka mea mua e hoʻolālā maikaʻiʻia ae hoʻomaikaʻi mau i kona kino a me ke kino. Eia naʻe, e like me ke kanaka.