Pehea e aʻo ai i kahi keiki maikaʻi?

Hoʻopau mau kā mākou mau keiki i ka mālama a me ka nānā. ʻAʻole pono ka'ōpena i kahi keiki no ka hana hewaʻana. E ho'āʻo wale e wehewehe iā ia. Inā mālama ke keiki iāʻoe, e hoʻomaikaʻi mau aku iā ia me kou mahanahana. ʻO ka manawa pinepine e hana hewa nā keiki no ka mea makemake lākou e hoʻolohe i kēia. E ho'āʻo wale ana e haʻalele i kona mau ukiuki, a laila e mālieʻo ia i konaʻikeʻanaʻaʻoleʻaʻohe mea nāna e hoʻolohe. ʻO ke kumu maikaʻi loa no kāu keikiʻo ia kona mau mākua. E ho'āʻo nā keiki e kope i nā mākua a pau. A maʻaneʻi e pili ana nā mea a pau iāʻoe. Ponoʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i kumu hoʻohālike ma ka home, a ma waho. Ināʻoe e haʻi aku i kahi keiki hikiʻole ke hanaʻia kekahi mea, e wehewehe pono iā ia i ke kumu no ka hikiʻole a pehea e hana pono ai. Mālama nā mākua i kāna keiki. Eʻike mau i ka wā e haʻi aku ai i kaʻoluʻolu, pehea e'ōlelo ai i ke aloha, iʻole e pilikia i nā mākua i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai, he keiki mālie a palekana. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole pono kēia hana nui. E hoʻomau hou i ka hoʻomanawanui a me nā mea a pau i loaʻa iāʻoe i ka manawa e hemo.

Nui nā kānāwai e pono i kāu keiki keʻike.

1. Mai kamaʻilio me nā mākua a hiki i ka pauʻana o kā lākou kamaʻilioʻana.

2. Ināʻaʻohe kanaka e manaʻo e kamaʻilio aʻoluʻolu pahaʻaʻole makemake e kamaʻilio,ʻaʻole pono kekahi mea e paʻi iā ia.

3.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke ho'ōho ma nā wahi lehulehu, e kuhikuhi me kou manamana lima.

4. Me kaʻaeʻoleʻia, mai laweʻoe i kahi meaʻaʻole nou. Aia wale me kaʻae a me kaʻaeʻana.

5.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke lawe mai i nā mea malihini a meaʻole paha a lākou e hāʻawi iāʻoe.

6. Ponoʻoe e kaʻana like i kekahi poʻe i loaʻa iāʻoe.

7.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i nā mea hōʻailona no nā mākua ināʻaʻole lākou i kūʻai i kekahi mea noʻoe, ponoʻoe e noi no ia manawa a inā loaʻa iā lākou ka manawa kūpono, e kūʻai maoli lākou iāʻoe i kāu mea e noi ai.

8. Inā nīnauʻiaʻoe i kahi nīnau, ponoʻoe e pane i kēlā me kēia.

9.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hele a puni ka lumi ma nā kāmaʻa.

10.ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻolei i nā mea a puni ke keʻena. Pono i nā manawa a pau ke hoʻokau i nā mea a pau i ko lākou mau wahi.

ʻOiai, he nui nā kānāwai a i loko o kēlā me kēiaʻohana, nā lākou pono'ī. Aʻo ka hōʻailona nui loa, inā makemake mākou eʻike i kā mākou mau keiki e mahalo a pololei,ʻo mākou nā mākua. Pono mākou, he mea nui, e huli iā mākou iho. Pehea mākou e hana ai i ka home? Pehea mākou e hana ai ke hele mākou? Pono e hānaiʻia ke keiki ma ko mākou hiʻohiʻona pono'ī.

A inā makemake mākou e loaʻa i nā keiki nā rula o nā pono, pono mākou e ola i kēia mau rula. Ma ka manawa lōʻihi, e maopopo ana i kāu keiki kēia mea a pau.

E hoʻomau maikaʻi i ka poʻe e hoʻopuni ana iāʻoe a me nā kānaka e pili kokoke ana iāʻoe.