Ua kaumaha, akā, nui nā wāhine i komo i loko o ka pilina me ke alohaʻole. Hoʻomaopopo pinepineʻia ka hewa hoʻokahi e nā kaikamāhine iʻikeʻole i ka kamaʻilio a me ka pilina me nā kāne. Hoʻomaka lākou e komo i kahi pilikino a lākou i makemakeʻole ai, akā, eʻoluʻolu wale nō lākou iā ia, aʻaʻole loa. Ma hope o kaʻaeʻana o ke kanaka, hoʻomaka lākou i kahi pilina me ke alohaʻole a me nā pono nui, me ka manaʻo e hiki mai ana ke aloha, a me nā pono, a me ka lokahi ma ka pilina. Akāʻaʻole lākou iʻikeʻia.
ʻO nā pilina e hoʻomaka me ka noʻonoʻoʻole a iʻole ka maʻalahi o ke aloha e aneane mau loaʻia. ʻO kaʻoluʻolu nui,ʻo ia nō i ka hoʻomakaʻana, e kahe ana e like me ka uahi, uaʻikeʻo iaʻaʻole pono kahi kanaka,ʻo ia ka huhū a hopohopo, aʻoi aku ka hoʻonāukiuki,ʻo ia me ke kanaka alohaʻole e pono e hele i ka lā, e honi, e moekolohe. ʻO kēia huhū ma mua a ma hope paha e alakaʻi ia i kahi hakakā nui, kahi e hōʻikeʻia ai nā manaʻo a me ka huhū. Kū'ē ka wahine. Inā noʻonoʻo kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio i ke kumu i hanaʻia ai,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hana hou i kāna hana hewa, aʻaʻole e hoʻomaka i kahi pilinaʻole i loaʻaʻole ai ke aloha,ʻaʻole no ka hapalua, i ka manaʻolana eʻikeʻia kēia ma ka hana o ka pili. Akā, ua nui nā mea i hana pinepine i ka hewa. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole hiki koke mai ke aloha,ʻo ke aloha i kaʻike muaʻana, he mea wahaheʻe wale nō ia. ʻO ka manawa pinepine no ke aloha i ka wā mua eʻike i kahi aloha nui, i uluʻia e ka manaʻo mua, pinepine i ka kuhi. Akā,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaka i kahi pilinaʻana ināʻaʻoleʻoe e launa likeʻole, ināʻaʻole loa kou manaʻo i ka ola a me nā pilina. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi e loaʻa mai. E hakakā waleʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, e hōʻoia i kou manaʻo iho. A i ka hopena, e alakaʻi ia i kahi kaʻawale hikiʻole.
Inā maopopo nā mea a pau me nā kaikamāhine, hoʻomaka lākou i kahi pilina pili i ka hopena ma muli o ko lākou launaʻole a me ka liʻiliʻi, a laila he aha ka mea e hoʻoneʻe ai i nā kaikamāhineʻelemakule a me nā wāhine makuahine e hoʻomaka i kēia pilina? He nui nā wahine e komo i loko o ia mau pilina, eʻimi ana iā lākou,ʻo ka mea mua, he pōmaikaʻi. ʻO ka mea waiwai nui loa. Nui nā wāhine e manaʻolana ana he kanaka waiwai a maikaʻiʻole ke aloha iā lākou, ke manaʻo nei lākou e lilo ke kālā a me nāʻano o ka noho leʻaleʻa i ke aloha. I ka manawa pinepine, e loaʻa ana kēlā mau wāhine i loko o kahi "pale gula" i ka manawa e loaʻa ai nā mea a pau - kālā, nā lole nani, hale nani a hale paha, hele i nā haleʻaina, hoʻomaha ma ka'āina ... Akā,ʻaʻole kahi mea nui loa - aloha. A hoʻokahi wale nō kanaka alohaʻole,ʻaʻohe makemakeʻole, kahi hikiʻole ke hele, no ka mea, ua "hoʻokomoʻo ia" i ka wahine i ke kālā nui aʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu. I kēlā lā i kēia lā, hoʻomāhuahua ka inaina i ka mea alohaʻole, aʻo kēia ukiuki ke kumu o ka huhū a me ka pilikia o nā manaʻo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe aloha,ʻaʻohe manaʻo kūpono paha,ʻo ka pilina piliʻole, hina. ʻO ia ka manawa e maopopo ai i ka wahineʻaʻole kālā e hoʻololi i nā manaʻo maoli.
ʻO ka mea e hoʻomaka ai nā wāhine e hoʻomaka i ka pili me ka alohaʻole no ka pono o ka wahine. Ināʻaʻole he manawa lōʻihi o ka wahine (no kēlā mea kēia mea), a laila, ua mākaukauʻo ia e komo i loko o kahi pilina me kekahi kanaka i alohaʻoleʻia a me ke alohaʻole iā ia, no ka mea, ua hoʻonohonohoʻo ia iā ia he hoa moe kolohe.
ʻO ka pilina me ke alohaʻole a me nā mea likeʻole e hoʻopau koke a ma hope paha. No laila,ʻaʻohe mea e pakele ai i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ia pilina, e luku muaʻia lākou ae hoʻohalike i nā hoaʻelua.