ʻIkeʻia ka wahine he kāneʻuʻuku eʻoi aku ana iā ia iho ināʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake i kaʻaoʻao o ka pilina. Ua mālamaʻia kēia mau wāhine ma ka mākaʻiʻoihana, me ka ukuʻia o ka uku home a me ka uku. ʻO kekahi kumu no ka huliʻana i nā kāne'ōpio he mea pili loa i ke ola. Malia paha,ʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine makuaʻole ke hoʻoikaika a me keʻano o ko lākou mau hoa a keʻimi nei lākou no kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻOiai ka uluʻana o ke kāne a me ka wahine maikaʻi ma ka wā kūpono. Aʻo kekahi kumu'ē aʻe,ʻo ia ka manaʻo makuahine, e hāʻawi ana i nā manaʻo o ka hilinaʻi a me ka palekana no nā'ōpio.
ʻO kēlā mau kāne, kahi e pono ai i kahi wahine makuahine a me kahi'ōpio ke lanakila ma luna o ka nui o nā pilikia ma mua o nā kāne maʻamau. ʻO ka mea mua, i ka nānāʻana o ka wahine,ʻoi aku nā kūlana koʻikoʻi, e nānā mauʻo ia i ka pae kūpono ināʻaʻole he'ōpio ma mua o kona mau makahiki, a laila, e like me ka mea hiki i kona mau makahiki, e kū'ē i ka hakakā me nā kaikamāhine. No laila, pono ke mālamaʻia i ka nani a me ka'ōpio ma ka lōʻihi. I kēia hihia, heʻano pinepine ka nānāʻana ma ka pae hoʻokahi me ke aloha.
Inā lawelaweʻia ia mau pilina ma ke kālā a me ke kāne wale nō, a laila, ua hōʻemiʻia ka manaʻo a pau o nā pilina ma kēia mea,ʻo ka wahine e hoʻopiha i nā manaʻo waiwai a pau o kahi hoa'ōpio, e hoʻoikaika ana i kāna noi, a me nā pani e kali ana no ka wahine wale nō, i ka manawa e hōʻeha ai kekahi kanaka me kekahi kanaka e pāʻani ana i nā lima o ka wahine. ʻO ka maikaʻi o ke kāne a me ka waiwai kālāʻaʻole ia he mea kūponoʻole ma ke ola o ka pai, akā, me kaʻole o ka hilinaʻi o ka manaʻohele a me kaʻike pono,ʻaʻole e lōʻihi ke kauʻana.
ʻAʻole pinepine kēlā mau kāne kelepale e noho ana i waho i ka maleʻana, aʻaʻole e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ke ola lōʻihi ka mareʻana. ʻO nāʻano o ia mau pilikāne, kaʻike a me ka paʻa o nā manaʻo, ka naʻauao. Akā, he mea pono eʻike i ka huhū, no ka mea, ma mua o ka hikiʻana i nā makahiki he iwakālua i hiki ke kū'ē, no ka hikiʻole ke hoʻokaʻawale i ka pilina. No laila,ʻo ka kuleana o nā kāne maʻamauʻole ka naʻauao a me ka hilinaʻi.
Manaʻo nā kāne'ōpio i ka pono o ka hoʻomaopopoʻana iā ia iho i ka liloʻana i kanaka, makemake nui e alakaʻi, no laila,ʻaʻole pono ka wahine e hoʻokau i kāna hoa hele ma kahi o ke keiki liʻiliʻi a hōʻike iā ia i kona manaʻo makuahine. Inā hoʻopilikia kekahi wahine iā ia me kona mana, e liloʻo ia i alakaʻi no ka pilina, a laila, eʻike kokeʻia paha e kekahi kanaka he "palupalu" hoa. ʻO ka pilina ma waena o ka wahine a me ke kāne he mea paʻakikī.
ʻO ka huiʻana o nā kānaka he nui ka hauʻoli a hoʻopuka i ka pōʻino i ka manawa like. He nui nā hiʻohiʻona mai ke olaʻana i ka manawa e hoʻoholo ai ka wahine makuahine a me kahi'ōpio i ka pilina, e loaʻa i nā keiki a ua ola i ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana i nā makahiki he nui. ʻO ka pilina o ka nui o nā wahine e ola nei, kōkua ia i ka manaʻo e like me ka wahine me kahi leka kālā. Akā,ʻaʻole he mea maʻamau ka laweʻana i nā pilikia i ka wā e hikiʻole ai i nā mākua ke pale i ka ho'āʻoʻana, e hōʻalo i nā kihi kūpilikiʻi o ka haʻalulu, hoʻohewa a hoʻopaʻi. ʻAʻole ka nui o ka poʻe e hoʻokūpaʻa i ka hana mai waho.
ʻAʻole hiki ke ola i ka ola - aʻaʻohe mea e pili ana i ka makahiki o kou olaʻana me kāu hoa. He mea nui i kou manaʻo iāʻoe iho, no ka mea wale nō ko mākou kino - a he mau'ōpiopio kaʻuhane. ʻAʻole makemake nā aloha a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi,ʻoiai ka makahiki.